I think you're right on track, she's not trying to be clingy, and she's trying not to move too fast (and failing), and doesn't really want just a rebound guy (but is probably afraid you're going to be one).
Just keep steady, and treat her right and she'll eventually come around (give her a month or so).
Tell her you're definitely down for more sex, but that you can totally wait till she's ready for it. ie: give her a breather.0 0 0 0
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She's probably just trying to figure it out and not seem clingy. I do the same. She's trying to play it cool. If I were you I would plan a date something she would like and have a good time. She'll open up and feel less nervous. If she doesn't then she may just be evaluating if she likes you or wants something out of this
0 0 0 0And I'm almost positive that's what it is. Should I just act like nothing's wrong when talking to her or should I bring it up if she doesn't sort it out after a while? I get the feeling that if I just bring it up casually and tell her that I don't expect anything from her if she feels uncomfortable it could help, or it could be too much and push her away. I normally don't fret over this sort of thing but I really like this girl and I'd like to not mess it up by overdoing anything
I would just ask if something is on her mind casually and open ended. Don't ask if she is uncomfortable because that may not be the case at all and she may just be busy or have something else she is dealing with. If she says nothing is wrong than trust her, you gave her an opportunity to speak. I would give it a date or two and let her figure it out on her own
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