I can't express my feelings to my girlfriend without her getting upset, angry, and ultimately ignoring me?

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My Girl friend (A from here on out) And I have been together over a year. In this year we have had tons of good times, but unfortunately there's something just absolutely blocking me from going anywhere in the relationship until this problem has been addressed. If ever anything is bothering her she comes out and tells me, naturally I apologize my butt off for what i have done to upset her and i fix the problem, that's how relationships are suppose to work in my mind. But I've began noticing the communication is not 2 way anymore. For example last night i found out she was chatting with her ex, that alone doesn't bother me. What bothers me is she had me block all of my exes and girls i use to talk to and i didn't care about doing it, she's who im with now and if it would make her happy i gladly would do it again because i love her. Last night i said "Babe, i just wanted to bring this up because it kinda bothers me.. You blocked all my exes and expect me to cut them out but you and B (ex boyfriend) is an exception and that just kind of upsets me."
In my mind i went about that perfect, i wasn't trying to start an argument, if it seems that way maybe my subconscious anger is blocking me from seeing it that way, but to me it was just opening a door for a heart to heart.
Instead of responding how i expected she sent a massive text and highlight quotes are "You look so low being threatened by someone 100 miles away", "If you think im a shitty girlfriend then maybe we shouldn't move out", "I dont want to hear how awful i am for sending him some messages."

Im at the point where if we dont work this out im going to reach a point where i just snap and i know when that happens the relationship will be over. I could really use some help/advice/guidance, from anyone guys or girls, to find a means to an end with this. I've been trying to figure it out on my own for months now and it dawned on me nothing i do works so im on here as a last ditch effort. Thank you
I can't express my feelings to my girlfriend without her getting upset, angry, and ultimately ignoring me?
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