I don't know. Ever since from about age 20, I've completely ignored females. I was engaged in very deep study day in and day out in library stack after library stack learning the wisdom of the ages. If think they must have all gone to the clubs or something. To be honest, I really wasn't paying attention. I always assumed if there were one around who was really for me, she'd be where I was. And if she wasn't there, I didn't have time or luxury to go find her.
That may not be the best policy to be a romantic in this world.
But, wow... did I ever learn a lot.
Besides, I wouldn't have ever even desired a cluber to begin with. I don't know what the blazes they were doing out there, but I know that whatever it is they thought they were looking for they never found.
All in all, I see myself as having broken even, because now I am light years beyond them. They will never find me, because I'm not even in the same galaxy. Every once in a while, I pay a quick visit back to see how the show goes. I soon realize it is the same old movie reel with a different name. Then I move on.
They didn't actually think I was going go follow them or chase them, did they?
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I would say keep it on middle grounds. I have noticed a lot of times that even when the girl likes me, giving a lot of attention backfires. People (not just girls) tend to want what they feel they can't have, hence why a lot of guys/girls will chase that one guy/girl who doesn't know they exist, ignoring the other great people who like them. I mean I would say talk to her, text her here and there, but If she doesn't reciprocate and try to reach out to you too, I would say you might be wasting your time. Relationships are supposed to be 2-way streets.
That is like the WORST thing to do if you are just starting to notice her or if you do it all of a sudden. Sometimes they wonder what they've done wrong. Even worse, they start to believe that you actually aren't interested and have never been so they try to get over you, which eventually works out. There's this guy who used to talk to me all the time and he would flirt with me (I still don't know if it was intentional). I thought he liked me, but a new girl came who was more open about her interests (they're both gamers.. but he never knew that I did too) started speaking to him, and slowly he started to pay more attention to her. The next school year, his best friend told me that the guy had a crush on me. So I tried to find out more, and I heard that he denied it. I was heartbroken, but I'm still not sure if he was lying or not. Because he also denied liking this other girl (not the new girl), but everyone knew that he really did like her. Eventually, I got over him. It comes back sometimes when we talk to each other about schoolwork or whatever, but it isn't as strong as before. It's just that tiny part of me that always hoped he was lying about not liking me.
All girls are different. I personally wouldn't want to be ignored like I don't exist anymore. If I like them, I like them. No playing games. I don't play games, they don't play games. I enjoy spending time with them or talking to them, but if they ignore me or play games with me, I don't like that, and I'll just walk off.
So the person who got MHO--keep in mind that doesn't apply to everyone. The best advice I can give you is really just be yourself. you don't want someone to like you for someone you're not, you want someone to like you for you.
Just a first, confuse her, sometimes give her your attention and flirt with her (we love being complimented by a guy) and then suddenly do nothing, stay busy. That way, the girl will wonder if you like her or not, because you give mixed signs, so she'll think about you more. We usually think about unfinished business. So thinking more and more about the guy who confuses her will make her go a little crazy and like u more. She'll try not to show it tho. But just at first do it, or it just gets stressing and she'll move to the next.
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Ignoring people might make them wonder why yoyre igniting them but it's jit going to make them like you. The only people it "works" on and I use the term works very loosely. Are people who don't actually want anything to work out or people who can't wait to turn the tables.
If you stop talking to me I'll ask you about it ir ask you out to make sure you know I'm intersted snd that there's no misunderstanding. If AFtER I've made a gesture you ignore me then I'm out. No regrets. I'm not curious it troubled or thinking about you. I've just lost respect and interst in you. That's it.If we'd already talked a lot, or texted - basically if it was obvious that you liked me and the feeling was mutual - no, I would not appreciate you suddenly ignoring me. I would be confused and maybe hurt (depending on how far we'd gone - and I don't mean sex, making out, kissing because then if you start ignoring her that's just a dick move). If it was only texting I'd just be confused, and after a while I would figure out that you weren't interested and move on, and probably you wouldn't get another shot.
The idea behind ignoring, for both genders, is to get them thinking about you and promote jealousy, which promotes competition.
If a girl is into you, and you start ignoring her, she'll go nuts thinking about you and trying to figure out whether you're into her. If you flirt with other girls as well, she'll feel like her place as your #1 is being threatened, and will work harder to prove herself. If you just give her attention, she has no incentive to prove her worth, and will probably start getting bored and/or taking you for granted. Same thing applies with the genders reversed. This is the basic idea.
This idea only works if she's into you, though. Just ignoring girls period does nothing, unless you're attractive enough that your looks alone draw female attention. Otherwise, you have to do a bit of courting/flirting, then become distant for a while, and repeat. This is what's known as the "hot & cold" method.The answer is... NO! Some girls might get confused and try to get closer to you, but it's not worth the try. Other girls will get completely emotional and "Why isn't he texting me back? Why is he ignoring me? Does he think I'm too low for him?". Trust me, play it safe. I know for a fact that I hate it when guys ignore me. If you go too much, I will completely give up on you. It's not good. It makes the girl think that you have better things to do or that they are lower than you therefore you don't like them.
You'll save them a lot of ranting or depression (I may have exaggerated a little, but you get what I mean) if you just simply talk to them when they talk to you. Girls like to feel needed by a guy. They like to have the feeling that they mean the world to a person.Dont read articles on how to date. A person opinion doesn't work for everyone. This is life.. experience is well preferred. Learn from your own mistakes.
If a girl is not into u, ignoring her won't make her like u. she won't give a fuck. Probably feel relief u stop txtn her.
If she likes u & u ignore her... depending on the type of girl she is, she might wonder why you're ignoring her, thats normal but she's not gonna start liking a guy she's been friendzoning for the past 2 years because he ignored her. An interest had to be there already.
OR if she liked u but u start ignoring her , it can turn her off & she moves on completely. Thats for girls who's been there, done that, know the game well, & have no time for the bs.Rule of thumb: give her as much attention as you'd like a see if she reciprocates. If you find that the conversation is one sided or the she's never up to talk, stop. Do something else, talk to other people.
This is what I do with guys. That's why "ignoring her to make her want to" will fail with me. Guys have done that to me and it's a turn off... I just redirect my attention to someone who actually wants to talk to me. It's the same as trying to make a girl jealous just to get a rise out of her...At first, you could. But you have to keep her interested. If you keep ignoring her, she'll feel like she isn't as important to you as she thought. And besides, being ignored a lot just gets annoying (personal experience). If you plan on ignoring her, just don't do it for too long or for too often. Know when to do it and when not to. If you dont, you could jeopardize everything.
Guys who ignore me I just assume they have other things going on and let them be. Most mature women don't need a lot of attention. If she really likes you and you her, games are unnecessary. Ultimately treat people as you would like to be treated. Ignoring people is immature.
it depends what kind of girl she is, if you are in a relationship with her or not... an immature needy girl might become mad if you ignore her, or a girl really in love with might get wrong impressions..
personally i wouldn't bother much about a guy ignoring me, so many out there, got all my time to find the right oneDon't ignore her, but don't be all over her all the time. Don't be available for her all the time, because this means you have nothing to do with your life, but if she really needs you (like she's having a really bad day), ignoring her is not gonna give you points.
If you want to attract women by "ignoring them", don't do so in the sense that some pickup artist would.
Instead of ignoring women, avoid living your life on the premise that your life needs to impress women. That is your number-one backbone breaker.
In fact, I think that's one of the big reasons you get hit on more when you have a girlfriend. Some people think pre-selection is the cause, and maybe it is to an extent, but it doesn't explain why girls who don't know your relationship status show more interest.
The big reason is that when you are taken, you aren't running on the basis that you need to attract women. You are more authentic and perhaps expressive. You're also much more comfortable to be around if you aren't trying to attract anyone in particular.
If they ARE interested in you, and you flat out ignore them, they aren't going to put in much effort to break that bubble. It usually winds up pretty awkward, which is why they complain so much about guys doing it.This is my personal opinion based on what I've dealt with with guys and what not:
If you like her, flirt with her. Even a simple little compliment will give her the hint that you may be interested. Some girls like guys that are vague, but don't completely ignore her because eventually she'll move on. If you talk occasionally and you can tell that she is possibly into you or someone hints that she is, DO NOT IGNORE HER! Show interest back or you'll just lose her in the end.We'll my crush ignored me and I just let him be he sorta bullied me then my friend bullied him. he called me names he gets a broken nose. turns out hurting each other showed our affection but he set me up with his mate now I always stab him with extra sharp pencils.
Definitely not.
It just makes me want to ignore you too.
Why would I show interest in a guy, that seems to have zero in me?Give her space, don't ignore her! Two different things. For example don't always be the one to text her first (and same goes for her), you don't always have to send "good morning" and "good night" texts when first starting out. Let the conversations grow and your relationship grows, don't push it but don't ignore it either. There is a balance between being coming on too strong and "ok i don't think this guy is into me anymore..." keep that balance!
Yes, I have had many guys I like reveal later on in the relationship that they ignored me to get my attention. But It drives my crazy and made me go coo coo, for them. But it also put me through hell, cause I thought that the feelings were not returned. long story short, it sucked. And the funny thing is, if the guy would have just told me he liked me away first, I would have liked him JUST as much. So don't put a girl through that if you really care for her. Just tell her the truth, it'll be a breath of fresh air. Not many guys do😃
I hate it when guys ignore me.
A few weeks ago i was really hitting it off with some guy and then suddenly I was nothing and I was thrown to the curb and he never talked or texted me again. I called asking for an reason but he never answered. So I gave up. It hurts but I got over it. ignoring a girl to make her want her is going to make her think your moving on.Girls tend to see a lot more in a text than you meant when you sent it. If you act hot and cold or completely cold, she will think she is annoying you if she is already interested and feel bad and avoid you or she will not become interested if you never make any move. Never ignore, but be mostly normal with just a little flirting.
A guy I really fell for snapchatted me two times both times I sent a snap back (the second snap I took a little more time cuz I was busy with school) and after I answered his second snap he never answered back to me and he stopped talking on whatsapp, I was sad and felt stupid, but I said to myself he's not interested fuck him there are many more better than him.
"It ain't nottin' to cut that bitch off"
Moral of the story: ignoring a girl will only result in her cutting you off.I persoanlly like it when a man casually flirts with me, without being too obsessive about it. And is persistant. Meaning if he likes me a lot, hell ask me out and wait for me to ready to date him, even if i said no the first few times. He can even joke that one day hell get me to say yes. that really gets me.
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