Girls: A female friend offered to have sex with me when she found out I'm a virgin. Does this mean she likes me?
Doubtful she likes you romantically/sexually otherwise there probably would have been signs or you two would be dating rather than friends.
Why would she say this?
Likely out of pity and posdibly thinking a way to be a good female friend is to f*ck your male friends. I know many gals with tnat mindset from being indoctrinated with the belief of poor friendzoned guys and female-male friendship is for male suckers.
Was she mocking me, or is she attracted to me?
I doubt she was mocking you or attracted to you.
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Who says there haven't been signs she liked me? You're reading a lot into this based on your own biases and hangups.
Asker, You haven't mentioned any signs that she liked you. I'm reading what you put and you haven't put any signs/mentions of actions/words/behaviors that signal she likes you. So what are my biases and hangups since I've read the same thing?
No she propably isn't, like. in love with you.
She feels sorry for you and has sex for you because of that and thinks she will be doing a favor for you.
I dom't think she is mocking you nor finds you attractivw. Though she doesn't thunk you ate an abomination
But isn't it a form of mockery to feel sorry for someone over something that isn't necessarily bad like being a virgin?
It's not mockery. Its not like she is thinking: "oh he is such a loser, sad little virgin boy. I'm going to fuck him just because it will make him less pathetic." That is mockery. Feeling sorry is not a same thing.
Somehow it does feel like she's thinking of me as "sad little virgin boy." Otherwise, why would she be concerned about my virginity at all? It's not like it's a defect that requires surgical intervention.
I think she was serious but... given your age it may not be because she loves you. More just to give you confidence. Ask her sue sounds cool either way.
Yes, she did say she wanted to help give me confidence because she knows I'm self-conscious around girls. Why would she do this, though? Does it give girls some kind of rush?
Well... you always remember your first. She would make it very special I am sure. She also would get a rush from helping you take that next step in relationships. So it isn't completely altruistic.
A lot depends on the conversation leading up to that. If you were complaining about being a virgin, then she probably likes you, is not too picky about who she has sex with, and would like to help you overcome your "problem"
If you were not complaining about being a virgin, then she probably is interested in having sex with you and is using virginity as an excuse to suggest it.
Do not believe that she is mocking you. For whatever reason she sounds quite serious. If this is something you want, go for it.
I wasn't complaining about it, she actually asked me kind of out of the blue. She was curious, which is why I thought she might like me.
Then it sounds to me like she wants to have sex with you and is using this as an opening. But she may only want to do it once, not in a relationship, though she might want that. Either way, you know that she is offering you at least one opportunity at having sex with her. Now do you want that?
Of course she does! No girl would say this to you unless she liked you at least a little bit. Since she's a friend, I don't think that she was mocking you, because sane girls generally don't joke around when offering up their body to someone.
So yes, she IS attracted to you and YES, you should've said yes on the spot ;)
I didn't say yes on the spot because I didn't know how to take this! And the whole "pity fuck" thing is something I don't want to be a part of.
Well, did you look into her eye when you she said that? Did you ask whether she's serious? Did she look like she means business (a look of lust or something like that)? If she looked like she really meant it (out of affection or heat), then you should've played along (and no, I won't consider it a "pity fuck" in such case). Thing is though that either way you probably won't get a second chance.
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From what uve told me she is either a REALLY close friend who wants to help you, unlikely
Or she's using the excuse of helping you not become a virgin in order to have sex with you because she likes:
You in the relationship way
Your body
Virgin guys in general
If she was serious I doubt she was mocking you, especially because being a virgin is nothing to be ashamed of, especially in ur age category
Hope this helps! :)
I guess the real question is:
why are you a virgin?
is she the one you want to do this with?
So, you have some consideration.
Only you can decide.
:)
the first is none of your concern and its rude to ask. is like you are telling the kid he is problematic or sth...
Why am I a virgin? That's like asking someone why they're a Muslim. Thanks @johnvanjohn for pointing out the rudeness of this question.
I don't mean that at all. This is all introspective. How do you not get that?
No, this is all just her lust for your virginity.
And maybe you're cute too, so thats a plus for her.
(If, u guys do have sex)
Oh and pussy for you ! *round of applause*
:( but really, im pretty sure she does like you because she asked.
Well she is probably concerned for you.
Yes otherwise, she wouldn't sleep with you.
Do you think she wouuld be so charitable to sleep with a guy just for his virginity? Not even prostitutes do that.
I she was serious about it, she might not be mocking you.
Simply put,
https://i.qkme.me/3q15fq.jpg
A bit of her liking you and a bit of her wanting your V card.
no, she wants to pitty fak you. or just go with a virgin for the experience. or she simply has a crush on you (less posible). if you dont want it yet dont rush.
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