Men are always called shallow first, yet I would argue women are more shallow then men. Why are women so picky when it comes to choosing a mate?

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Women always accuse men of being shallow, but I would argue that women are more shallow than men. Women are very picky when it comes to a man's appearance. Yet when a few months later they break up bc they don't get along. Women just seem to have no clue sometimes, its like everyone is telling her not to date that guy, but she can't seem to resist, why? Bc the guy looks good, says the right things, then when the guy moves on she can't understand what went wrong. Why do women choose a guy based upon only his looks and the things they say instead of taking in all the variables. Why do women get sucked into these circumstances? Are they really that gullible? Why can't the see that the perfect guy isn't always the best looking guy, or athletic or etc, but the guy who is just a common looking guy? Its like women want the guy to be perfect in everything b4 they will even date him. Thus is the reason I would say more women are shallower than men. Bc they expect the guy to be perfect and it just isn't practical. So why do women go after guys that isn't practical are they really that dumb? Or do they know it is wrong? Why can't a girl realize when a guy is good for her and when he isn't? Regardless of looks? Why don't women look past a man's looks and see what's inside, instead of judging him based upon his looks? Plus another example is when a guy is on tour (military) and he comes back maimed and dismember only for the girl to leave him when he did nothing wrong. Yet she can't stay based upon his looks, isn't that being shallow?
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Actually tbh this was just a thought provoking question, with observations of my friends and of my own personal adventures, this stuff really hasn't happened to me. It was just observations that I see from time to time in the opposite sex. I would say that I am a people watcher per se, I just like to observe and study people in a sense.

I do like how some people (not all) automatically jump to the conclusion that some girl dumped me or some girl did something to me to write the thought...
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provoking question, but its all good, I just wish more people would think out of the box, instead of trying to put everything and everyone in this tiny little box. Boxes shouldn't exist at all, there should be no boundaries and no limits to what a person can or is willing to achieve. So I think we all ought to be a little open minded and not put so many others in your box. Thanks for participating and have a good day!
Men are always called shallow first, yet I would argue women are more shallow then men. Why are women so picky when it comes to choosing a mate?
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