Why are women so bitter?

[Anonymous]

Most women are bitter, insecure and fake... they are frustrated at some level. I don't even know if it's possible for a woman to be happy. It's no secret that women hate each other. A quarter of women are in bloody depression.

Also, I wanted to ask you if you think that this is what makes them so fucking argumentative and a pain in the ass to have around unless you want sex?

[Scrambled]

Men are more bitter. It's even being researched lately. They finding men are committing more suicide than women after divorce. There are countless studies lately on men losing their power and the effects it's having. Back in the day women more than men attempted suicide (men were more successful though) but now in certain age brackets, those figures are leaning towards men. On gag, hands down, there are more bitter men, you would be a blind fool not to see that. If there is one thing I admire about a women, is how they stay so happy and resilient despite all the shit they are up against. That's one reason why girls like a "bad boy" sometimes. They are fun and exciting, and girls love fun and exciting. I know my dating game would vastly improve if I knew how to show a girl a good time because you reinforce their happiness.

[Asker]

no, men are just honest

[Scrambled]

Ok brightspark, if that bitterness equates to honesty, then honesty in men is bitterness? Although what you said is a pile of shit to begin with, calling men's bitterness honesty, is still bitterness..., you prove my point. Men are more bitter (what you define as honesty).

[Asker]

Women are more bitter but less honest about it. Just like they say "I'm fine" when they're not

[Anonymous]

Here's what I think happens:

Both men and women experience bitterness. Men actually have more reasons to be bitter.

However, society has more empathy for women, so their bitterness is rewarded.

Men also have more testosterone, which helps with things like bitterness, anxiety, and depression. Men are also less emotional than women, and this has been revealed in brain scans (their conscious frontal cortex process information before being sent to the amygdala, which is the emotional center)

As a result, most men are able to cope with their problems and turn their bitterness into something neutral or positive. Most women are not.

However, men have many more reasons to be bitter, so it balances out. And you get the most inferior men and inferior women complaining about themselves.

[Edgeralanapoe]

What do you mean "men have more reasons to be bitter".

[Asker]

You're right. Men have many more reasons to be bitter yet it's the women who always complain.

[Opinion Owner]

Not being able to find a mate, and having people tell them that it's their fault, and that the system isn't inherently unequal.

[Opinion Owner]

@edgeralanapoe

[been_waiting]

You know what makes men bitter? Not getting the girl they want. Rejection.
You know what makes women bitter?
Sexual assault/abuse at the hands of men, physical abuse at the hands of men, experience with men who cheat, watching their moms be mistreated by men.
I daresay women have more valid reasons

[Asker]

Women love being treated like shit. The most common fantasy is the rape fantasy. Sexual assault doesn't make women bitter. Your moms choose jerks because they love them.

[Opinion Owner]

@been_waiting Do you care to explain why? Because all but one of those issues are issues men deal with just as much as women.

Rape (I'm not going to use "sexual assault", because the definition can be twisted to mean many things) is the only one that is uniquely specific to women. This is also an illegal act, there are severe repercussions for it, and very very few women actually deal with it. Furthermore, men in prison collectively experience more rape than women, on the whole.

Rejection/loneliness is much, much, more prevalent among men than rape among women. Just look at the messaging stats of any online dating site. It is a fact that men desire women exponentially more than women desire them, when all other things are held constant.

And let's not trivialize romantic inaccessibility as a non-issue. It is a huge issue.

But, that's just the way it is. I'm not prescribing any solution, just describing the problem.

[been_waiting]

Men are more likely to commit any violent given crime. Rape, armed robbery, assault, murder, etc etc. Name all the women who have touched little boys that you know of. Name the women who have beaten the men in your life. Name the women who have cheated.
In my short life, of all the evil I've seen, men have been the most common perpetrators.

[Opinion Owner]

Men do those things because they are inherently more disadvantaged, if they're not at the top. 80% of homeless people are men. Why is that?

[Asker]

women commit 40-70% of DV

[Anonymous]

I get the sense more men than women are bitter, actually, but who knows. Could just be personal bias, since I'm around a lot of women who are generally content/happy, though we all have our difficulties sometimes. Come to think of it, plenty of men I know are doing fine too, it's just on the internet I see all these hate rants and stuff come out of the woodwork.

As for me, I'm extremely happy and pretty much in love with life right now. And I have no ill will towards other women, lol.

[musicbrain5]

Well, at least you said "most" so it's not a complete generalization. Some woman in your life fucked you over so you think that most are like that, I guess. I don't understand why you don't just avoid women completely, because then you won't have to deal with our bitterness. Just remove yourself from the situation.

[Asker]

Dear, I like having sex with women. I need them. That doesn't change the fact that they're bitter.

[musicbrain5]

So just have sex with them then and don't pursue anything else. I don't see the issue.

[Asker]

Did I say I have an issue with women?

[musicbrain5]

I thought that's what this whole question was addressing.

[Asker]

Nope, it's about women's issues.

[musicbrain5]

Why are you so concerned with women's problems? Seems like a waste of your time to be wondering about why we're bitter.

[been_waiting]

You actually sound like the bitter one.

I'm a girl, and I am happy. I do not hate other girls either. Most of my best friends are girls. I'm argumentative when people are plain wrong. Because I'm opinionated.
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[Asker]

I never said there aren't exceptions. There are exceptions to every rule but that doesn't change the rule. How many times have you heard a woman laugh genuinely? Yeah. Not many times

[been_waiting]

Woah woah woah what women are you hanging around? I laugh every single say. So do all the women I know. I've never met a single human that never laughs

[Asker]

Honey, I never said you don't laugh. I said it's not genuine.

[been_waiting]

I don't fake laugh. But whatever, nothing I say is gonna make you pull your head out of your ass

[bubble_tea]

Asker.. it's possible that the laughs you get to hear sound fake because your jokes aren't really funny.

[Asker]

lol.

[been_waiting]

@bubble_tea hmmm maybe you're onto something

[Monicaa7690]

I've seen you commented on other peoples opinions a lot about "Doing anything to get sex" and it basically seems like you really admit to only using women to have sex with them. Ever considered that makes you a bit more bitter?

[Asker]

There's no reason that would make me bitter, in fact it makes me happy. I get what I want and leave in time.

[Monicaa7690]

But do these women know from the start that all you want is sex? Or do you really just lead them on until you get what you want?

[Asker]

Why does it matter?

[Hephaestus]

it's ok to cry buddy
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[Asker]

wtf? lol

[Hephaestus]

you are having a little cry
blaming women and calling them bitter

im just letting you know there are other ways to express yourself, than getting those panties in a twist :3
for example
a little cry ^^

[Asker]

Oh boy..

[Hephaestus]

that's it, let it out ^_^

[Asker]

Yeah okay.

[Hephaestus]

That's it...*hands tissue*

[Ceejay17]

We are always trying to re invent ourselfs. sometimes were frustrated because we dont have anyone there to talk to to vent to. and stress is stress it happens a lot.

[LovelySerene]

There are a lot of women as well as men out there who are incredibly bitter. Everyone has a different past. But I know there are women out there who aren't bitter

[Roycaryn]

Because they're lonely. Well, actually, it's a bit more complicated than that but this is the simplest way to put it.

[Asker]

Yeah they beg for attention lol

[Roycaryn]

Look, it's human nature to seek out affection just as it is to seek out food, shelter and physical warmth. Men are no less of an exception to his rule. Loneliness is literally deadly and there are many scientific studies to back this up.

[Asker]

Men don't crave attention like women. Women literally sell themselves to get attention.

[Roycaryn]

You could also argue the same for men who over-invest in their careers. They keep wanting to "make it to the top" with the goal of somehow convincing themselves that they aren't total failures. A similar thing can be said of women who constantly seek attention.

[Mgoods]

I can't take generalisations on this scale, too seriously.

Women span the world... You met them all?

Has some lady hurt you?

[Asker]

No dear, women are the ones who get hurt the most.

[Mgoods]

I don't even know how you can present this as fact, so confidently. Lol.

Need titles of experimental studies and the types of statistical analyses used, to conclude this.

How are the women of Namibia? Or those in Greenland?
Do Antiguan and Korean women also have this disposition? So strange. So it's innate?
If so, you can't really blame us...

[Asker]

Dear, I don't have to meet all the women in the world to know that most women are bitter.

[Mgoods]

Ok, love. Good for you!

[Anonymous]

They start out sweet little girls. They're told growing up that they're fat and ugly. That they're not good enough. Then some guys add the icing to the cake by trampling on their hearts...

[Asker]

but girls break men's hearts far more times... yet you keep crying and bitching about "those guys"

[Opinion Owner]

I think by the time a woman is out breaking hearts it's because her heart has already been broken. Not that it's right though...

[itsallover]

Women go through a lot. It feels as if the world is against us sometimes. Therefore the 'bitterness' is a mere reaction to the harsh cultural indoctrination regarding our gender that we face day in, day out. It's not an experience a male would understand, your gender in itself gives you privilege.

[Asker]

lol what a crock of shit.

[itsallover]

Could you explain how?

[Asker]

No dear, this conversation is over.

[itsallover]

So you say it's a crock of shit yet can't explain why? Hilarious.

[Asker]

Everybody knows you aren't laughing, it just makes you look stupid.

[ScruffyNerfHerder]

You can only feel like a victim if you choose to do so. Sip a little less victim kool aid and focus on what you can control and you'll realize what you're saying now is hogwash. It seems the only indoctrination you've been subjected to is by people who don't take responsibility for their lives.

[itsallover]

Ever heard of sarcasm?

[itsallover]

@ScruffyNerdHerder No I'm not playing a victim. I can safely say my gender does not define me and I still live a successful life, personally. But looking at the broader picture, there are many women to which this statement applies to. He asked why women are bitter, I gave an explanation.

[itsallover]

@ScruffyNerfHerder ^

[ScruffyNerfHerder]

Didn't come across in your writing, and what you said is a relatively common and seriously held belief. No apologies for calling it out.

[itsallover]

@ScruffyNerfHerder He didn't ask for MY personal experience, but whatever.

[itsallover]

Wow @Asker looking at your comments to others it seems as if you're the bitter one. If you hate us so much, avoid us. Jesus.

[Edgeralanapoe]

I just think you don't have the emotional maturity to handle women. So you just look for sex and that's it.

[Asker]

Men want sex, get over it. We have to put up with all your immature crap because of it.

[Edgeralanapoe]

Men aren't the only ones who want sex. Women do too. And if you want sex with no strings or attachments or emotions and no "immature crap" then go fine a prostitute. Or get a doll. Because yes women have emotions. So do men. The difference is women usually show it while men bottle it up. They balance the other out. It's not about women being too emotional. It's about you not being able to handle it.

[Asker]

The fact is, we don't want to handle it. The minute you stop giving us sex you're out of the door, because you're worth nothing else. Again, there are exceptions to the rule.

[Edgeralanapoe]

There are. Not all men believe women are worthless f*ckholes.

[Anonymous]

It's pretty simple really... the victim mentality and entitled attitude of women today just sets them up for failure.

[Asker]

What a 3rd class mentality.

[Opinion Owner]

Pretty much...

[Edgeralanapoe]

Whoah. "Victim mentality" and "entitled attitude"?

[Opinion Owner]

Yes, absolutely. Did you have another a question?

[BuchitaBuchys]

On this site I tend to see more men bitter against women.
But in real life I'd argue that men and women alike can be extremely bitter and can be downright assholes.

P. S. I am annoying as fuck. I sometimes don't get how people tolerate me lol

[Asker]

Why are you annoying? Because you're bitter?

[BuchitaBuchys]

Eh. I'm not a bitter person how I was before. But I laugh and joke at inappropriate times. That can be annoying to most people.

[Asker]

You're still bitter.

[BuchitaBuchys]

Maybe a little. Against idiots.

[Asker]

Don't say maybe. You know it's absolutely 100% true.

[BuchitaBuchys]

Against idiots oh hell yea.

[PiuBelloAmante]

bro smh...
There have been studies showing that many woman are unhappy but, that doesn't make them bitter
there are bitter women, and there are bitter men

Also many men are growing bitter towards women, this post seems quite bitter itself

[Asker]

hmm.. yeah maybe you're right that unhappiness =/= bitterness. How does this post seem bitter?

[PiuBelloAmante]

it seems bitter because the blatant generalization and language use...

[DennisOh]

Another women hater. I agree with you, but try to explore the good side of women or you'll get bitter too

[Asker]

That's why I don't keep them around for long. They're like time bombs, waiting to explode. You wanna leave before that happens

[zehel]

Women are not bitter or evil they are chaos itself.

[Asker]

lol, it's no secret that they're scatter brained as fuck.

[bubble_tea]

I'd be depressed too, if I had to deal with men like you on a daily basis.

[Asker]

bet you aren't happy.

[Klaatu51]

basically... YOU sem to be the bitter one, judging by your description

[Asker]

how do I sound bitter?

[musicbrain5]

You sound bitter because you're bitching.

[Asker]

Let the adults do the talking.

[KBob93]

The last part was pretty mean. :/
Probably from baggage or heartbreak.

[Dandeus]

I see far more bitterness and anger in men than women.

[Asker]

What are you talking about?

[been_waiting]

Fuckin preach.
Asker, there's guys on here saying they hate women and want them all to die simply because no girl will touch their dicks.
Eliot Roger, does that ring a bell? When was the last time a woman grabbed a gun and opened fire because she didn't get the guy she wanted? A girl on the news got shot at for turning down a prom invite and that's far from unheard of

[Asker]

How do you know no girl will touch their dicks?

[been_waiting]

They are complaining girls won't have sex with them that's how. Want to reply to the rest?

[Asker]

where?

[HappySquarePants]

@been_waiting I would much rather someone be verbally bitter and angry then to pull out a 9mm pistol and waste someone simply because they denied their romantic advances.

#sliceopenallhumanbeings

[HappySquarePants]

Can we pretty please with type 1 diabetic sugar on top force both misogynists and misandrists into killing each other for the entertainment of those us men and women whom date each other?

[chocolateismylover]

Dude , I already know I'm annoying.

[Asker]

What does that even mean?

[Anonymous]

Because there are men like you who never want to make me a sandwich whenever I ask. Damn right I'm bitter.

[Asker]

The sandwich joke makes women so bitter. Jokes in general, make women bitter.

[Opinion Owner]

You make me bitter anon! You did it!

[Asker]

Which brings me bitch behavior, which just reeks of bitterness.

[Opinion Owner]

Ugh!

[Asker]

Why are you so bitter?

[Opinion Owner]

I told you!

[Asker]

Oh brother..

[Opinion Owner]

Is my bitterness turning you on? ;)

[Asker]

lol. Why would it turn me on?

[Opinion Owner]

Avoiding the yes or no question, eh?

[Asker]

Dear, I'm asking the questions here.

[Opinion Owner]

Ah so it does turn you on? I knew it

[Asker]

Why would it turn me on?