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We had sex but she has a boyfriend?

Hey there! thanks for reading! So i've met this girl for a year or so... I met her through a web dating site and we clicked instantly. She was gorgeous, intelligent and very funny, we got along very well. We started to go out until she disappeared because of supposedly something I say... According to her, I said something like I was kissing her just because I was drunk ( we were drunk that night, but I was fine) I don't remember saying that, but i think I said something that could be misunderstood. She contacted me again at the end of last year, we started talking and we grabbed a drink in January. She told me she had a boyfriend. We kept hanging out and it was really fun but I thought i didn't stand a chance of a relationship or anything with her having a boyfriend. But yesterday she told me to grab coffee and we did, talk for hours and she suggested watching a movie at her house. Everything was normal until she started getting closer and started playing with a whip cream she was eating. First she dare me to lick it up of her arm and then it escalated to her ear and neck. She then ask me if ever had sexual fantasies with her. I responded yes. We started kissing and I was unsure about starting to undress her but I eventually did it and we had sex three times, I stayed over and had sex again the morning because she asked for it. She had to go to the gym, so I left. I honestly like this girl a lot, I always wanted something serious with her and I even have told her this. The sex was amazing and she is beautiful. I told her I would give her time and to let me know whatever happens with her boyfriend. She got a bit upset because i'm also dating this tinder girl, she said she was being irrational and to ignore her but I said that I was going to see her this week. She said she understood. She is in a long distance relationship and they are having a lot of problems, she seems confused. The guy never calls, or skypes... What can I do? thanks guys
give her time
Vote A
she is playing with you
Vote B
go on dates with the tinder and forger her
Vote C
go on dates with the tinder girl and continue to sleep with this girl
Vote D
fight for her
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Most Helpful Girls

  • If she doesn't even have the decency to break up with her bf while being on Tinder, pursuing another man, and cheats on him then she is not a person worth being with. Stop wasting your time on this loser and find someone who will treat you better. Think about it: if she's cheating on her current bf, what do think she is going to do if you were her bf?

  • definitely back off. no guarantee she is gonna be with ya and not respectful to her boyfriend either. she must have had a dry spell with her bf to come to you for sex. basically harsh words but take our word for it.. back off :/

    • I know!.. the problems is i'm already attached. I'm head over heels for this girl

    • are you sure you're not confused with lust? sorry if i sound brash but just asking.

    • No, i really liked her from the first day I met her... i always wanted to pursue something real with her

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Most Helpful Guys

  • I say you cut that bitch off. You heard she got a man. She ain't nothing but a creeper I'm just saying. She already cheating with you, so you can't expect her not to cheat on you. You should leave before her man find out about you. That could be bad for both of y'all.

  • She cheated on her guy most likely she will cheat on you as well. So go for what you think is right.

    • Is not like that... she is not a bad person. Even the best of us cheat, I think is something that can happen.

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  • I don't know you know she has a boyfriend. Though she wanted to have sex you should respect the guy enough to back off. Instead you keep putting yourself in the position to keep having sex with her.

    • I don't understand... you advice me to back off?

    • Yes. Back off. It's disrespectful to the guy. Would you like that being done to you? Regardless if she wants it, she needs to be respectful and let him go before she starts messing with someone else. It's one thing if they had an open relationship but I'm almost certain he knows nothing if what's going on.. even if he's a suck ass boyfriend

  • Thatta boy Elliot!

  • Listen she's in a long distance relationship they never work

    Bang her every which way till Tuesday band the tinder whore too. Nice guys finish last

  • This isn't starting off right. You are seriously jeopardizing yourself.

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