I work at a bank, and she works 2 blocks from me on the same street at a fast food joint. She is 24 and thinks I’m 25, but in actuality I’m slightly younger. The very first time I saw this girl I asked her out, she blew me off in a polite way, giving me a very buyable excuses. ( she is a foreign... Show More
-Thanks for reading. Any honest and thoughtful remarks will be most appreciative and helpful. Cheers
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I can appreciate that some women are shy (is she Asian?) but what I can't understand is why you're being so shy.
You need to man up and either burn this bridge (so you can stop wasting your time... 4 months! Really?!... and start focusing on a woman who's not so much work) - OR - step up and make things happen.
Get her number. Get her email. Get her Facebook. If she's really shy she's going to need you to lead EVERYTHING.
- you call her.
- you email her.
- you invite her out for dinner.
- you pick her up.
- you pay.
- you hold her hand.
- you hug her first.
- you kiss her first.
These are all the normal steps every guy should do, but especially in your case.
Until she says "Stop. No thanks. I'm not interested."
Eventually she's either going to stop you, or she's going to end up married to you.
I imagine she would never last this long with you because ultimately her boring shy personality would likely push you away (long term.)
Now go back there, line up a date, and don't leave until you get her number.
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