Why do I keep messing up with girls?

[misplaced_downer]

Well... I don't think I'm ever gonna meet "The One" or "The Special girl" in my life ever and I've kinda given up hope on these things for good... it either happens or it doesn't. It's just a lottery that only a select few win... or it's just another opportunity that the so called "Players" use to lure innocent girls into their traps and have their way with them... Well for me ever since my break up, I keep messing up with girls, be it for friendship or otherwise. I don't know what I do or where I go wrong and I need help to correct this. I was brought up in a more matriarchal home ethos. My dad passed on when I just 15 and I have an elder sis, who's 8 years my senior and my mom. So literally my entire life I never had 'the talk' with my family... I learnt it from my friends and same way with girls... I managed to get a girls during my teens and early adulthood thanks to the time when I had a really fit body as I was an athlete. I was able 2 attract a few girls then... However, after I meet with any girl
after one good conversation she will rarely or never acknowledge my pleasantries. don't know y? Maybe it's fate or something else I will never know. Why does this happen? Am I doomed or something? Can anyone of u help me please?

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[Dansexual]

Firstly, you need to buy a book called The Game by Neil strauss, then, read it, then join the gym and jab some testosterone about 500mg per week will do the trick, buy some smart outfit.. Welcome to your new life where you like yourself and women like you too.

[misplaced_downer]

Thanks bro... I wish it were that simple... more ever, I don't think m ever gonna have abs again... phase's gone...

[Dansexual]

Mate, it is that simple lol. You don't need abs but for Christ sake don't let yourself get that women's pair shape, just keep your shoulders chest back and arms with some size on them, you'll feel so much more confident and women are attracted to that. Plus definitely read that book, it really is a game changer, its changed the lives of every man that's read it.

[UberTroll]

Probably because you're a downer and you're putting to much emphasis on getting a girl. Just relax and have fun with your life. You'll have a much easier time attracting a girl with an upbeat attitude.

[misplaced_downer]

U have no idea how much it hurts when u get ignored by a person u met the previous day. Its embarrassing humiliating and highly disrespectful. Girl or guy I hate such people. Worse is m a very straightforward person so I don't hesitate 2 point it out... so guys take it a little easy... but 4 girls it isn't... they come up with lameass excuses... I just wanna know y... y is this happening? Y converse with me? M talking a good long conversation... so where and what am I doing wrong?