Like do you what kind
Im just trying to get some ideas for my summer body
Like do you what kind
Im just trying to get some ideas for my summer body
This is the classic douchebag look, which I don't like and I know all my female friends snicker that men fool none of us when they have this look and then take a picture of themselves in a bathroom mirror to show it off.
I have dated very skinny and very overweight guys - NEVER this look. This look to me screams that they are interested in showing off and intending it to impress rather than just workout to be healthy. When all a guy wants is to have abs like this, it doesn't just indicate that he wants his potential girlfriend to find him appealing, but all women, which puts off the one girl he is trying to get together with.
But, since guys are visual beings, they often think that women must be wired the same way and like this sort of thing. Look at a lot of these comments: we don't. And some do like it but in the end, it's not what is a deciding factor of the kind of man we want to be with.
very well put!
There's "being in shape" then there's the pictures you're showing of the guy tightening his tummy and lifting up his shirt to take a picture of only the abs. It's douchey. If a guy had his shirt off and was posing with his beach volley ball team and had a big smile and a cute face then it just adds to his appeal. But to just get this look for a beach body is showing off, yes.
guys like the douche bag/ alpha male look, so do hot girls, why do you never see ugly girls with guys like this?
easy https://i.imgur.com/fOy0MY5.jpg
I don't want to see a boy at the beach, period. I'd rather see a man be himself, having fun, maybe barbecuing or making drinks, laughing, having a good time with his shirt ON if it so pleases him. Less douchebaggery is always more of a turn on. If he has good abs or not isn't what makes him sexy.
Oh, I'm sorry - was I supposed to appreciate them? LOL There are lots of guys out there with toned bodies who don't go showing them off in selfies or on the beach. Those are the attractive ones. The ones that take their shirts off to just tighten them up for photos or walk around JUST to be noticed don't fool anyone. Still douchey. :) My husband has a hot body but I'm the one who gets to see it, which makes him all the more sexy to me. He doesn't take his shirt off for the sake of taking it off. There's a difference between guys who feel the need to work on their abs and show it off rather than be decent guys who may or may not be in shape. Sexiness is a complete package, not just the abs.
Ma cutie here knows whats up. GGWP 😎
In shape to be a complete dick
Thats freaking hilarious... I love how some of you girls come on here and say this but it's the exact opposite of what you really think and want. .. YOU don't want to be looked as shallow for wanting them. So you make up this fake BS.
If there was 2 guys in front of you and the only difference between was the abs you would take the abs every time !!
@Greenbins Exactly bro. What say one thing but the actions always show another. Which is why i laugh when women say they find these kind of guys unattractive yet they attract a lot of women
Yes abs are very hot as long as the rest of the body is toned as well. Since they also indicate that the dude takes care of his body.
The body type I always say futball (soccer) looking shape. So like toned/muscular but small. Kind of on the lines of these pictures.
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OMG! I think our answer on that would be obvious but there are obviously 2 girls that don't like abs! Weeeiiiiird!
Yeah.. I love them!!!
I don't know either! I'm still wondering! Don't worry though! Go do some situps and don't listen to them! Most girls appreciate it! :)
hahaha, thanks. I just can't lie and say I dislike abs while I even use the word 'Absolutely' because it starts with abs and it makes me feel better even saying it. :)
I always notice such things! I absolutely do! :)
I absolutely thank you. :)
I'm not a 'most helpful' seeker. I'm not just saying bs just to get it. I just lmfao with what I say and I like making others laugh too. :)
OK, now you can stop complimenting me bc I feel weird. :)
I'm not used to having people compliment me.
thanks again but other people might have a bad taste! :)
THANKS again. ;)
The girls that said no do like abs, just not the pop out ones the picture has. They're more interested in torsos like these:
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Muscles are there, but not bulging. (though from comments I've read on pictures like these, this is what they think of as an "average" body, but it's the most attractive one).
Bottom right: Cristiano Ronaldo wouldn't be that "average" if he flexed for you lol. . His 6 packs are fucking ripped.. like the most popular 6 pack known to women
@LukasTheLovely
Yeah, but when girls say "average" they mean lean and muscular without flexing.
Yeah, their ideas of 'average' and 'a bit of muscle' are sooo skewed high. not too big means only do a few cycles of steroids, not as many as pro bodybuilders.
I've literally gotten dates just for my abs and my body. From gym bunnies lol.
Having abs automatically puts you in the top 5% percentile of all guys. It just wipes away any competition lol.
PS: By abs I mean with muscle, like your pictures. Not skinny kid justin bieber baby abs that pop up because they are underweight twiglets.
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Yes they do.
Don't get fooled by some of the women here who claim they don't. That's a lie. The vast majority of women do. It's in their biology. The only reason why they claim they don't is because they believe that men with six pack abs are "douchebags" or "fuckboys". Which funny enough only proves that women go after these guys, in the first place.
Go to any beach or swimming pool and pay attention to where they start gazing. That muscular athletic dude with a six pack or that dude with a dad bod.
The women who claim they don't like it are saying that because they themselves feel inadequate when being with a guy who is in shape. It triggers their insecurities of not being able to keep up or other women trying to shoot their shot with their man. So they settle for the safer option. The one who isn't in great shape that is.
I flat stomach is good too. But it's necessary it have a 6 pack or a flat stomach. It's their personality that counts.
I was going to make a dirty joke but I decied better not bc I'm under 18 and everyone would be commenting go to school or ur 14 stop that. So better just keep that to myself😶
Nah I'll pass
Bc it's lame. Lol
Dude it's a secret! 😌 I can't tell no body!
Just cuz. I'm sorry 😞
We are friends!
Don't call me sweetie 😠 and bc it's a secret.
It's nothin. Lol 😂
Sort of. Lol
I'm a mean person! I'm sorry! 😈😣
Doesn't everyone? Lol
I do like abs on a guy yes, but Im more into the strong look, than I am into the 8% body fat look.
This is WAY hotter: images5.fanpop.com/.../...5_1344449308951_full.jpg
than this: www.feelforfit.com/.../six-pack-man.jpg
If the waist id too narrow, then Im not all for it :/
Good because it is easier for me to be like the guy from the first photo because it's very difficult to have so little body fat to me.
Attractive women want that look on a guy. Don't listen to all these women on here saying its a turn off or they are indifferent to it. They are the minority.
nahh.. I'm average but damn.. those abs!! *-*
@performerwannabe ur better than average
personality is a perfect 10 mr. asker. looks is close to average. I'm just being realistic. :D
No really sweetie i wouldn't tell u no bs @performerwannabe really your pretty
thanks but I so have a mirror. :) I'm not insecure or anything, I love myself! :D
Im glad u do beautiful @performerwannabe
*blushes at the moment-call later*
Abs are just a plus. Not a requirement. As long as his stomache is flat and he has nice pecs, it'll do. Lol I'll take 2 nice chest pecs over a 6 pack any day
Abs can mean you are serious about your health and it matters to you how you look and what other people think about you. Its not as if you won't have abs then girls won't be interested in you. Personally I would like it if a guy has abs, but if he's into all that muscle building thing, I would be repulsed by it. I'd rather date a steak, even though I am a vegetarian!! ;D
I just like a flat stomach. And are okay. Idiot think you'll be able to get that amazing of a summer body in two months but your you fans a boy so you've got a shot
Abs are not needed to make my perfect guy. Heck, as long as they aren't morally obese I don't care at all! If they are obese I would still like them but I'd help them get into shape.
Yea I would
No problem, good luck.
I mean they're ok. Nice to look at and all, but it's not necessary that a guy has them. I'm not like obsessed with muscles. If anything I'd rather he have a nice pair of arms over a six pack.
I'd pick a guy that kept my interest. Most times I'm meeting someone I won't be able to tell if they have abs or not.
Lol sure. Like I said, I don't mind them. They just aren't necessary. More of an added bonus.
The truth is no matter what answers they may give here , in general they love the look , those pictures you are showing there , perfect definition , great look , takes some work for most , nice.
Ehh, depends. I like a little definition in the abs for sure, but if a guy gets too much muscle it can start to look unnatural and less appealing. The pictures above look alright but I would prefer just a little less definition personally.
They aren't an essential and I'd never expect a guy to have them, but they're always an appreciated bonus 😋
I like them. They don't have to be so glaringly obvious, I mean as long as his tummy is flat I like it :)
YES I LOVE THEM! Ik most guys dont have them but ill settle for a flat stomach. as long as his arms are big enough with lots of veins <3
LOL. What guy said no? What do women like? Rollie pollies? XD
I like it, but a flat stomach can be nice too.
Both pictures look the same to me. I like abs on guys but I don't mind if they don't have them
All I need a guy to have is a flat tummy. Abs or no abs
My husband has a dad bod, not fat but i little tiny beer belly, still the sexiest man in the world to me, dont like abs, too high maintanence and usual ain't packing much else
I found 2 guys that are body type and I just got turned on by them I kept watching the video over and over again they were just so hot and they're abs were SO HOT , I like stong men and also wide shoulders ARE HOT
Yes I love the look!
But it would not make me wanna date him. It's a good sign that he is healthy and has disciplin but it doesn't say anything about his character or his morals.
i mean they don't hurt, but please go for the soft abs. Don't go insane because then it's unattractive. Second one is better, but it can be even softer than that.
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