Girls, What does a girl mean if she told me to back off?

[badboymacho]

Okay there is this one girl i find attractive. Then suddenly one day I notice in my peripheral vision that when ever i get near her she is looking at me, almost staring but when i look she always turns away. So, i ask a friend to help me. I said to my friend that if i get near her look if she's looking at me. I stood near her for like 5 mins and my genius friend timed how long she was looking at me and to my surprise she was looking at me for almost 4 mins 30 sec.

So i started catching her if she's looking at me, then every time i look at her she always looks down and then to the side. Right then and there, i knew she likes me.

She and i have mutual friends but we don't really talk ( we don't even say hi ). While she was talking to my friends, I sneaked up on her then wrapped my hands behind her touching the other side of her shoulder, then i said "What's happening?". Then she suddenly made a scene pushed my hands to the side and said "Please don't ever touch me". I'm am also a shy guy so i felt really embarrassed. Now i'm the one avoiding her even avoiding my friends when she's with them.

I really liked this girl but that scene she made was a serious blow to my self-esteem. I don't know what to think. Does she really like me?

[swegcat007]

That means either she doesn't want people to touch her... okay maybe look in her perspective IF someone did that to you and you barely knew them how would you react? and just because she looks at you often doesn't mean she likes you (maybe) the best thing to do Rn is to apologize and get to know her better with small talk then make your way up to being close friends (if your on the friends/friend level ask your friends--mutual friends- bring them and maybe they can bring her along to go to a movie or dinner or something like that... ... and think on the positives
If all else fails... at least there are plenty of skittles in the rainbow

[badboymacho]

Well she is an extremely shy girl, and i use to hang out with her brothers and always at her house.

[swegcat007]

Maybe she's not used to having people wrapping their arms around her--besides that she barely knew you--so it was abit unexpected... therefore she just had to say it

[usedname]

Grabbing a girl you've never talked to from behind is really creepy. You gotta work up to showing that level of affection. She has to trust you and like you in that way for it to be remotely okay. She may hav liked you, but if she'd never talked to you, she didn't trust you enough.
If you apologize and explain waht you were trying to do you might still have a shot.

But don't let it hurt your self-esteem It wasn't who you are that made her react the way she did to you. It was how you acted, and how she related to you. Think it through next time. Use your words.

[dede_g_10]

She is stupid to be making a scene you can just find someone else

[ArabianPwincess197]

She seems the attention seeker type

[Anonymous]

No she doesn't just leave her alone and move on

[badboymacho]

Yeah maybe.