True or not true? Do women dislike blonde men?

[DanHart]

So I am a 19 year old guy who happens to be blonde (a regular tone however, not that color that's almost white) ( good straight hair), I am German and have been told that I look very Scandinavian and have rather fair skin. When I try to get a tan, I usually lose it as quickly as I got it. Also I am 6'3 ( currently). Plus, I've beent told by a girl that I have a kind of angular face.

I have read that women prefer dark haired men since it is supposed to show masculinity, whereas blonde hair is allegedly related to innocence, or childishness in men.

What do you think about this theory?

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Note: Maybe it just depends on the particular kind of blonde color.

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Or are there women who strongly prefer blonde men?

[Anonymous]

Most women prefer brunette men, it is even clear by polls on here, but that doesn't mean they dislike blonde men. I strongly prefer brunette, but I have been attracted to plenty of blonde guys before, so it's nothing to worry about cause I'm sure most girls feel the same way, since there are way more important things than hair color. Plus, blonde hair is nice too.

[ToxicValentine]

I live in germany too and the male beauty standard in my town, is exactly the way you described yourself! Ich persönlich liebe es wenn männer dunkel blonde haare haben, also mach dir keine sorgen :)

[DanHart]

Mine got a little darker over the course of puberty which I am still going through.
Better don't write in German on here, I once replied with "Ja, die" and I got reported for that because someone must have thought I wanted somebody to actually die... ^^

[ToxicValentine]

Oh my god, really? Okay I'll keep that in mind :D

[DanHart]

yes, really ^^

[indie_rock_chick]

Well I like every color on a guy, but to tell you the truth I have a sweet spot for blonde guys. I guess it depends on the girls, by the way you sound very handsome so don't worry :)

[DanHart]

Am I or am I not?

[indie_rock_chick]

I saw your picture, yes you are :)

[DanHart]

I just got to know a new girl the other day and she has short dark hair, so, that's why I was wondering in the first place. ^^

[DanHart]

I like your looks too. Your face is very beautiful. It's angular, just like mine

[indie_rock_chick]

Thanks, you're very sweet :)

[Anonymous]

"I have read that women prefer dark haired men since it is supposed to show masculinity, whereas blonde hair is allegedly related to innocence, or childishness in men."

I would agree with that to an extent, but I think your height will more than compensate for that. The girls here would of gotten wet just reading "6'3".

[DanHart]

I'm telling you, man, this height is nothing special in Germany and a lot of men are tall there.
But when I was in the US last year in my summer break, I was still 6'1 and hardly any other guy was that tall ( I am talking about caucasians here )

[muspelhem_5]

I live in Denmark, and the handsome blond men seem to have no trouble getting dates.

[DanHart]

I'm from southwest Germany, few men are blonde here... :/

[muspelhem_5]

You stand out - that should be an advantage.

[muspelhem_5]

And dude you are great-looking. You can totally pick up hot women.

[DanHart]

It wasn't always like this, I looked nothing compared to how I'm looking now, and I am still getting better and better I think - as I get older and more and more mature.

[muspelhem_5]

Like wine lol

[DanHart]

That was when I was 16-18

[muspelhem_5]

What was when you were 16-18?

[DanHart]

Well, I was a late bloomer and would only get bullied and ostracized for being eloquent / intelligent. I hated myself to the core.

[DanHart]

At 16, I was only 5'6

[muspelhem_5]

Glad you're doing better now. Damn bullies.

[DanHart]

Nah , I am still struggling with this past. And girls seem to be somewhat afraid of me :(

[muspelhem_5]

Maybe it's because you don't have much practise? I hope you will be very happy man.

[DanHart]

You mean I am too inexperienced? How am I supposed to be experienced when I'd only get bullied and kind of left out by the others at school? I graduated this year in March though.

[muspelhem_5]

I mean hitting on women and having relationships with them is a skill you have to practise. Same for lots of guys.

[DanHart]

Ok I'll try my best, I just got to know a new girl the other day.

[muspelhem_5]

Cool, good luck :)

[muspelhem_5]

Thanks for MHO! :)

[risaharue]

I think it's just a matter of preferance. I would also be more interested in dark haired men but what's the harm of blonde men that are actually nice people? :)

[Anonymous]

Think about your own preferences. I bet you prefer a certain hair color in women. For instance, I prefer gingers. BUT, there’s are millions of black haired girls who could make me throw that preference out the fucking window, I imagine women are the same.

[60minman]

So I am a blonde man... I'd say with an average face. I'm a big guy at 6-4 230 lbs and I workout often. Luckily for me I like all women and I have no real preference. However, I will say that my wheelhouse is taller dark haired women. I have noticed that the lighter the hair color and shorter, the worse my chances are. A blonde petite gal... and forget it... I'm done before I even begin.

[Anonymous]

Usually you are attracted to someone with similar genetics and a opposite immune system so most women with blond ancestors/family will be attracted to a blond man (assuming they have opposite immune systems)

[DanHart]

Oh that's probably very true because when you take a look at many couples they look alike, especially in regard to how their facial features match

[Xtiix92]

Brown guys mehh no ever, blonde guys are more cute and beautiful and manly

[micheal727jovanie]

It s overated and immature

[DanHart]

I agree, it's ridiculous to judge people by their hair color !

[Anonymous]

I'm not sure if women dislike blonde men I thought the women liked german/nordic men?

[Succcesssfulll]

False, blondies are cute too.

[Despondency]

Theory is crap.

[DanHart]

Well, I didn't come up with this theory, but it's widespread.

[Despondency]

Most stereotypes are false at the core.