Why do girls go to parties and do this?

[thatkaruguy]

they go to the party start twerking in the middle of the dance floor and when someone comes up to "dance" with them they stop doesn't matter what the person looks like but then immediately starts back dancing when they move away.. its like why did you even come to the party? go home and dance in the mirror.

[canbrave]

They are teasing is like I know you want these is and you can't have I'm to awesome girls and guys as well want to get in your mind and flirt and try to use their charm and win the most guys and big I know I'm too awesome and now your my botch is like on TV shows or movies it's little self explanatory

[summerphoenix]

Because just because a girl's dancing that doesn't give a guy a right to start invading her personal space, especially if they just start grinding up behind her. Maybe if they introduced themselves first girls wouldn't find them such creepers.

[thatkaruguy]

who introduces themselves at a party? the music is too loud for a normal conversation and unless you're meeting up later there's zero point.

[summerphoenix]

Literally all they have to do is approach from the front nod/smile and it is a hundred times less weird.

[thatkaruguy]

thats creepy crowded room where you every step is bumping into someone and someone who is behind you walks infront of you nods and smiles then walks back behind you..

[summerphoenix]

It just feels very predatory when someone you don't know is suddenly pushed up behind you especially because you don't know who it is. No one really wants a total stranger rubbing his groin up against you. All he has to do is approach from the front an manoeuvre himself behind her then after a quick smile

[thatkaruguy]

regardless of what you think thats not the same issue as the op

[summerphoenix]

I don't see how it doesn't address the issue. The Girl feels uncomfortable so she stops dancing, which is a clear fuck off signal. If the guy introduced himself in some manner she probably would just keep dancing.

[thatkaruguy]

it doesn't address the issue becase say you were at a party and twerking. 5-6 different guys approach (all at different spread out times) you and you see them coming before they even get to you stop twerking as soon as they get close but staart back as soon as they give up

[summerphoenix]

This mean I don't find any of these guys attractive quite simply so I'd stopped dancing so it's clear they shouldn't waste there time coming over.

[thatkaruguy]

what if 2 of the guys were hot and the others were mildy attractive but not ugly? have you even been to a party before might i ask? and not a school junction or any of that crap

[summerphoenix]

Yes I have been to proper house parties and clubbing so I know how crowded/loud it can be etc. If I found the guy hot and he made some sort of acknowledgement before dancing I wouldn't stop. Equally if he was hot but just started grinding I would stop. Mildly attractive would probably be similar though I may not be interested if not in a partying mood.

[oofoof5]

Still its inappropriate for both the guy and the girl to be doing those things. The girl is not innocent because she's the one doing a dance that she knows is a inappropriate dance

[TheEmma]

Maybe because they just wanna dance alone and have fun? not everything girls do is to attract guys lmao

[oofoof5]

Doesn't matter girls doing that are wrong for that. Also not every question thats about a girl is offensive lol

[MrChadeo920]

Twerking isn't even dancing. If I want to see a girl twerk I'll go to the strip club. At least they're professional twerkers heh. Besides man you don't want to be with a woman like that.

[Klaatu51]

maybe they just wanna have fun and not mess with some guy?

[oofoof5]

what?

[itsybitsy09]

U go boy lol she's either a lesbian or a Fucking tease lol

[Genie23]

Cause we don't like to dance with someone not unless they are my closest friends

[Hephaestus]

because they don't want to dance with someone.
it's just that simple.
peeps do like to dance alone without folk trying to join in sometimes.

[thatkaruguy]

meh they should do it in a corner somewhere so the people that are actually trying to have fun have more room.

[Hephaestus]

they are having fun... just not dancing with you
by the same logic you implied... perhaps folk who feel entitled to someones attention and them to dance, should sit in a dark room an enjoy a good ole wank.
leaving more room for functional humans

[thatkaruguy]

no i see girls who specifically go to a party. dance (twerk which is just shaking your ass!) with no one maybe their friend joins in every now and then but thats it. waving off all attempts to dance with someone else its like why didn't you just go home and do that?

[Hephaestus]

What part are you missing?
people.
don't.
Have.
to.
dance.
with.
other.
people.

[thatkaruguy]

what part are YOU missing these are the chicks that aren't even lesbians but go haywire on people for trying to get a dance. who goes to a dance and denies dancing? its stupid

[Hephaestus]

They ain't denying dancing... they are not dancing with YOU
How do you not get this?
because they are dancing... doesn't mean they have to dance with people.

[thatkaruguy]

no I've been to many parties and there's always a girl there like this its not ME because i can usuaally spot them out but i still see them doing this to guys (and some girls) whether their hot or ugly. a party is a social gathering but they aren't doing anything but displaying antisocial behavior. it comes off as a total tease and sometimes makes them look like a crazy btch when they yell at someone for approaching them.

[Hephaestus]

It doesn't come off as being a tease at all

It makes you come across as a psychopath, you feel they have to dance with other peeps? Hah no... no they don't.
And they don't want you in their space.

[thatkaruguy]

look man if 5-6 guys try to get a dance at a PARTY and you turn them all down regardless of their looks or approach and even yell at one of them i dont see how that makes ME look like a psycho.

[Hephaestus]

Because you have a stupid sense of entitlement.
as if; because these girls are dancing... that they have to feel comfy dancing with other people.

That sense of entitlement, makes you look like a psychopath

[thatkaruguy]

it sounds like you will defend these girls to the death no matter what i say or do and even worse equating dancing with twerking. when a girl is twerking at a party which is literally shaking their ass to sex or twerk music its pretty much the green light saying hey come dry hump with me (get twerked on) thats what twerking is at a party at least if they are just regular dancing no one is going to just run up behind them or something. but here's the scenario 5-6 dudes approach her at separate times she doesn't acknoledge their existence but instead stop twerking when they get close but start right back when they leave.. one of them asks why and she screams at him and even the girls there think she's crazy or somethings wrong with her. and while you're so intent on making me the wrong doer here mr white knight i wasn't even one of the people that approached her i SAW it happen and had seen this happen before at other parties hence my original question

[Hephaestus]

You're the one who said twerking was dancing actually lol

I'm gonna make this as simple as I can for you;
nobody HAS to dance with anyone if they don't want to.
it's really... really that simple

[nateboydog]

i wish i had a girl twerk on me, ;(

[Sabazius666]

News flash: females are morons.