I posted it here, because it all didn't fit in the reply box.
Here just read about my 1st time. Mine was a odd ball 1st time. I was 18 back then.
Now mind you we been dating for a little bit. No sex or nothing. But I was really trying. She kept saying not now time is not right.
We were doing some heavy petting for days. Then one she came to me with a box all gift wrap. The works you know.
I ask what with the gift box. She goes it time now. I go huh. I was dumb I didn't catch her clues and hints.
She said "open it come on open it" So I opened it. Guess what was inside. It was a bunch of lingerie and panties. I was lost and confused.
I go whats with this stuff. I kid you not this next part is going to be word for word. She said "These are are for you the wear tonight. I want our first time to be super special. So I went Fredricks and with your sizes. Got you some of these things I thought you might like."
Here is what going through my mind. This girl is freaking nuts and at the same time I was getting super turned on. By the idea.
I was like. No fucking way I'm wearing that shit. My mouth was saying and my brain was saying. Shut the fuck up mouth your going to blow your chance of getting laid.
Well needless to say I wore it and had the best sex of my life. She turned me into a lingerie wearing crossdresser.
We were together for 3 years. In those 3 years. I became real comfortable in lingerie. So after 28 years I still wear lingerie. I may not be with her any more. But her affect on me is still active.
Women after her think I'm fucked in the head. Maybe they are right, but at least I'm happy with my brainwashing from 28 years ago.
Would I change this event if I could? I thought about that. And answer is always the same. No way because I would have missed out on some great memories and lifetime of enjoying ladies lingerie.
Okay I crossdress as well and the wife knows. But I don't think I could do the sissy and passable woman style of crossdressing.
I go for the man up version of crossdressing. Like I would wear something female with my mans clothes. I don't try the look female at all.
Now back how the wife feels. Well lets just say tolerates it to a point. Like in the bedroom every goes and try anything.
Now outside the bedroom thats where she is not liking to a point. Like I can wear leggings and maybe something else. But a skirt or a dress forget it. But to be fair I have not really tried it on her either. To see if it fly.
Also I don't do make-up tried don't like. Makes my skin feel weird. And I don't do bras. Why because my body don't need one and I think they are uncomfortable as hell. So she glad for them two things I don't wear. But she likes me wearing perfume. I mean she really like it. More then I do. I like it a little. She freaking is shopping for it for me. I find that part odd.
Oh there is a rule I must follow I can't shave my chest if she is to be content with CDing. She has a thing for hairy chest and mustaches. So I keep them.
So what I'm getting at is compromise and comucate. Is the key to live with them. Like I told my wife you been crossdressing most of your life. I'm just getting started I only came to learn to except it in my middle 30's. So if I must have it in my life, might as well be happy with it.
Damm I talk to much. I just wanted to say a couple words and I wrote a freaking book. Oh well. I figure if it helps it helps. If not to fucking bad. I already typed it.
I don´t know anyone who is into it, so this topic is really new for me. Maybe I would be confused, because I don't know how far it affects your sexuality. Honestly I don't know how I would react, if I found out my boyfriend is into it. Maybe freaked out, maybe I would make it a fun time together. As already mentioned: Communication is everything.
But what is it, that you like about crossdressing? Is it something you just do behind closed doors or in public? How do you express yourself, when you do it? Just curious.
I think my biggest fear would be you stealing my favorite clothes ;) in all seriousness though, the woman already obviously loves you! I mean don't shock her if you can help it but lead her into understanding this side of you gently :) maybe talk with her about it and show her your favorite parts of cross dressing and talk everything out with her. Things like this work so much better with just a bit of communication :)
Uh... The only time I saw a guy crossdress in real life was when my friend and I were walking through Harajuku and this group of males cosplaying in lolita outfits approached us asking us to take their picture for them. I don't know if I would like a crossdressing guy. I think I'd find it odd, but if he wanted to do it once in a blue moon it would be fine by me.
I don't know if this post is old now, but I find guys who crossdress to be just as attractive and masculine. I wish I could find a guy who was open to it but I've been afraid to ask as I've hinted at it with exes and they usually turn up their nose. You can definitely find a girl who is interested in it. I sure am, haha.
I personally love cross dressing guys. When guys wear dresses and stockings and other things like that I think it's cute. Cross dressing can also be very sexy if done right. I wish I had a cross dressing boyfriend to dress up...
I'll tell you this much: I probably wouldn't date one, LOL.
Nothing against them; it's their life and choice. But attraction wise, I'm not into guys that wear women's clothing.
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Me myself I think it's because they don't understand why he's doing it and in today's world it's not expecting but to be honest i think a lot of ladies are missing out when you get a guy feminized he becomes more in touch with what a ladie wants no problems getting to help doing house work no fighting over what to watch not to mention he is not going to cheat if he's has panties on not to mention having a girlfriend to do stuff with that can still give you the sex you want and need
Good lucky sweetie. Some women end up being very supportive of their feminized men such as in this book where a crossdresser wrote about their positive experience. www.amazon.com/.../
Some women see it as another aspect of the man they love and embrace it. I wish you the best of luck
Don't say that women are scared/turned off by crossdressers. DISCRIMINATE people are scared/turned off by crossdressers. This isn't a chic thing, you just happen to know a lot of uneducated and ignorant women. If you think guys aren't discriminate against folks who choose to cross dress then you know nothing about the world.
I have a real awesome wife that wanted me to explore it more. That was 25 years ago and I am to still married to her today. I want to clear and I don't dress like a woman, I don't look like a woman and I don't want to be a woman. I just wear a mix of both genders.
I do, yes. It's loads of fun dressing him up all the way. ^_^
Not personally it's a bit strange to date a guy who could pull off my clothes better than I can lol no hate. Just ask her straight up and if she says yes u have to consider if it's something you want to do for her
i love being a girl, i just wish there were more females who enjoyed their company to hang out with!
No. If I wanted to date a woman, I would! Not a man pretending to be a woman, lol
My girlfriend seems to at least be entertained with my crossdressing. I think she is more excited to see me bent over and fucked by another male than she is actually having sex with me. I've been in chastity for 22 days but she is very entertained with it. I already have 3 chastity cages and a fourth one is ordered that she had personalized with my name engraved on the front.
Go for it just watch out she doesn't shove anything up your booty
People can do what they want in their free time, but id never be in a relationship with a cross dresser.
I wonder why females look so masculine in pants and jeans. So if it okay for females to look a little masculine. Why can't men look a little feminine.
Its not everyday when you see a man dressed like a woman. I wouldn't be freaked out but I would stare and look. I'm not used to seeing that
No, if I wanted to date a woman I would date a woman.
Some girls actually enjoy it. It's still not commonly discussed but i can tell it's gaining popularity
Do you want to know because you like dressing in women's clothing but want a relationship with a woman? It's problematic.
The LGBT feminist liberal broken transgender fat rude colored hair tattoo satanic pagan Wiccan atheist girls do.
Real women with standards have no time to entertain that.
No I'm not attracted to cross dressers because I'm stricky attracted to males so it kind of good es against thatbto a certain degree.
You can go to Experience Project and join a number of groups there who will help you with crossdressing. You would have much better luck.
That's something I've always wondered! D:
Back when I was in Year 11, I'd often bring up the issue of crossdressing during RP, and ask why women wearing male clothes is acceptable, but men wearing female clothes is seen as loopy :O
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