Girls, How do you feel if your crush suddenly ignored you?

[Anonymous]

How do you feel if your crush suddenly ignored you?

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Would it make you sad or angry?

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What if you come to conclusion that he has done it purposefully?

[inlovewithyou2014]

I'd be angry at myself, and upset, but then I'd just ask why he's ignoring me and what I did wrong, and did I do something so serious that he'd stop talkin to me over it... I've done it once before, and he's just always busy so he ignores my messages a lot. Lol.

[Anonymous]

Disappointed mostly. If we weren't dating, I wouldn't be sad or angry.

When my boyfriend does this, I get a bit angry, especially if it is over a week of being ignored.

[Asker]

So if you got angry what happens next?

[Opinion Owner]

Well, it's a build up. After silence for a week, I would send a casual "Hi! How are you? :)" text, if there's no response a few days later I will say something like "Just letting you know I haven't received anything from you yet." (because sometimes my phone won't send/receive). Next day I will call, if he doesn't answer then I get upset a bit. I will wait it out a few more days, but unless he has an excuse as to why he's been absent, I end it. I hate mind games, I don't need that in my life.

[MosaicMind]

I would wonder what I did wrong. First I'd feel angry, then I'd feel sad and hurt. My crush once ignored me for a week and it felt like someone slapped me in the face.

But I'd get to the bottom of things and figure out the reason.

[Asker]

So do you think of not to give him a chance again?

[MosaicMind]

If he apologized, than yeah. I'm a forgiving person. Besides, it gives me an excuse to hug him and get comforted 😏

[Asker]

What if you two were not in that phase yet which one person can apologize or hug?

[MosaicMind]

I'd still expect an apology

[beyonder]

I'd feel pretty bad. I usually just try and be friendly towards my crush and if he starts ignoring me I'd feel like he not only wasn't attracted but doesn't like me in a friendly way either.

So yeah that's always sad to think about.

[Anonymous]

Not angry, just disappointed really. It would make me feel like I had done something wrong and that I'm not good enough. I'd also find it a little awkward. I'd much rather him give me hints that he doesn't like me, or start talking less, than full-on blank me.

[anon839]

I'll ask them what did I do wrong. Or at least try to find out the actual root cause. Sometimes the other person is going through a difficult time.

[Asker]

If you are not close enough to ask, like ice isn't broke yet, then what do you do?

[anon839]

If they were initially interested and suddenly have started to ignore you that means either you are taking too long or they are doubtful of your intentions, they'll think you're are fooling around.
These could be the reasons your crush is ignoring you :P

BREAKING THE ICE is what you have to do.

[Asker]

What if it happened the other way? guy suddenly ignored her?

[anon839]

She'll probably be sad, angry and would fall into pits of self pity. She'll think she's not pretty enough, will blame herself. And would ignore and avoid the guy for rest of her life.

And she'll end up with a playlist full of sad songs.

[TriSARAHtops]

It sucks and I would feel like I did something wrong.

[Anonymous]

I feel sad, upset and wondering if I did something wrong on my part. Pretty much I would feel like sh*t.

[Asker]

If you don't find anything wrong from your side?

[Opinion Owner]

If I wasn't at fault then I'd be angry at him for ignoring me if I didn't do anything wrong.

[Asker]

ok imagine that this happened for real. what do you want to happen next? I mean do you expect to do something or him to do something?

[Opinion Owner]

Honestly if I tried to talk/contact him and he ignored me I would expect him to reach out to me. After all he's the one that ignored me and the ball is pretty much on his court.

[Maki-Roll]

Well, my crushes never know I'm crushing on them, but it kinda feels sad? I mean, they don't really have to talk to me or whatever and life goes on, but yeah it's kinda sad for a while

[Anonymous]

I would probably wonder why. I would think that he does not like me and would be sad.

[ivanka]

ignore him too. i am too proud... my bad.

[Asker]

What do you think he should do to get you in the track then?

[ivanka]

what u mean? who should do? my crush

if he ignores me ,, probably its the end... ignorance is the worst..
is he likes he should call and ask me out.

[Asker]

Yeah I mean if you got angry what he can do to have a chance again?

[ivanka]

never give up.. i love men who fight for their love.. i mean call her, ask out for a coffee, send her flowers, show her u still care, write her messages..

[kaminalove]

Ask myself what I have done wrong..

[Asker]

Ok... soo question 1 : what if you able to understand what you have done wrong

question 2 : what if you don't find anything you have done wrong?

[kaminalove]

One has happened before, I asked his friend and she told me. So I tried talking to him but he avoided me so I wrote a letter.

As for two, I either try to confront him (if I can) but if he avoids me, I'll be angry, lose interesr and kick him out of my life.