I asked this question half a year ago about us. Note that I am now 19, she is now 16, and school/personality problems no longer apply. Old question about her.
Anyways, I waited until she was 16 and I was 19 as I have previously said. In April I asked her to meet up with me to talk about things. You can read it below, but please take note that: (1.) Instagram Direct was my only way to communicate with her. I didn't have a number nor could I meet her, what I asked to do was to meet her. (2.) This was not a date, I gave her low risk/cost activities we could do that could be seen as friendly only. I expressed catching up after not having talked in 4+ months. I gave her the option of coffee and going to a local indoor trampoline warehouse. (3.) I asked this on a Monday, which is why I don't see about her being sick matters. Probably an excuse.
Quite obviously, I got rejected for my request. That didn't matter too much to me. What matters is she was very ambigious with her answer (there wasn't a straight "yes" or "no") and now she's ambigious with her behavior.
PB has always liked my pics on Instagram (yes I know this stupid but for a 16 y/o girl this is how you flirt) and still does even she rejected me. This is what I'm asking about. If she doesn't want to date me or even meet up to talk as friends, why would she bother to still interact with me? Wouldn't that just be a waste of time on her part and wouldn't she know that would give me iffy signals? Should I even bother to interact back, or is a lost cause? Should I try again?
Thank you to anyone who is taking the time to help me and who read the other question first.
If she doesn't want to date me or talk as friends, why does she even bother to interact with me and like my photos?
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Anonymous
(30-35)
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I think she's a flake who leads you on for ego massage, not giving you a straight answer is a good example, she doesn't want to give you a definitive "not interested" because that would likely mean cessation of attention. She wants attention but isn't interested enough to tell you she can't meet up at this time, then suggest an alternative, like she would if she had any intention of pursuing something with you.. and not just fucking you about.
Who the hell is reading all that? I am just gonna guess that she is mentally unstable and prob. Needs meds
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Anonymous
(18-24)
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Her liking your instagram pics is NOT flirting, it's acknowledging your presence as a friend, not anything more than that.
To answer your questions: She would still bother to interact with you because you're still friends. No, she wouldn't know that it would give you "iffy" signals, you're just friends.
Wait, what is "iffy"?
Maybe you should wait for her to message you, so you don't seem clingy or annoying.
And what if she doesn't message him back? I recently was in a slight argument with a female friend because we were gonna hang out for sure but didn't. She didn't message me telling me anything. I had to, and if i waited for her she probably woulda not even msged me. So i woulda been there waiting like a dumbarse for her. Iffy - being uncertain about x because y happened Clingy? Gtfo, even friends hang out in person. I think he should block her on instagram if you ask me.
her answer was BS. She could have said," hey next week sounds good" because she is feeling better and there are other days of the week. Plus 16 year olds are a bit immature, we've all been there. I think you should forget about it. If she like you, she'll find a way to get intouch and make plans.
That is a good point... it's legal here and I just like who like as long as it's acceptable. I think if she's old enough drive I don't see the problem if I'm only 19, neither do my friends or parents.
Although that will cause some roadblocks since a 16 y/o girl doesn't understand adult stuff like responsibilities yet.
Even as a 19 year old girl, I'd never get along with a 16 year old girl. They're too young and immature. It doesn't make sense to me. This whole 'legal' crap means shit.
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