Girls, prove that personality is really what counts (inquire within)

[Mr_is_fine]

This is in response to women, who are constantly claiming that looks don't really matter, and personality is what matters.

So this is an experiment. I want women to respond to this post admitting that they have had sex with a man they consider ugly. I would also like these women to rate their own attractiveness on a scale of 1-10(be honest). If you can post a pic of yourself and of the lucky ugly guy, even better.

Since we all know that saying "its all about personality" is bullsh*t, I'm betting that I will get no responses to this.

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+1 y

If I get no such confessions from women, then this may actually be the most important thread ever posted on this website, as it will prove once and for all that women are just as shallow as men: Looks are pretty much the only thing that matters

[Anonymous]

when we say personality is what counts, we don't mean that in the way you are taking it.

*i would not sleep with or date an unattractive guy that I am not attracted to just because he a good personality. would you have sex with an ugly woman because she was nice? come on now. don't expect us to do something you wouldn't be willing to do.

when I say looks don't matter, I mean if a guy is gorgeous but has a bad personality I'm not going to date him. now if we were flirting and had chemistry one night we might have sex hypothetically, but that's just out of pure attraction. if I am going to date a guy and share my life with him, he is going to have to be someone I enjoy being with and have a good personality and still be physically attractive.

*also in some cases there can be guys that you were not initially attracted to, but after you get to know him and you start to like him he becomes attractive to you and then you could sleep with him.

[Mr_is_fine]

Okay, I appreceiate your honesty. what percentage of women would you say agree with what you are saying?

Also, if it is possible to not be attracted to a guy, but after getting to know him, and becoming attracted to him, wouldn't this be the same as saying "if you have a good personality, I will sleep with you even thought I'm not physically attracted to you?"

[Opinion Owner]

I don't know about a percent but I know my feelings aren't rare among other girls. maybe like 40-50% just guessing?

no it's not the same because I can become physically attracted to a guy after knowing him. this doesn't happen with every guy I am not initially attracted to so no I can't say "if you have a good personality I'll sleep with you even though I'm not attracted" because there are a lot of guys that have good personalities that I'd never sleep with

[Mr_is_fine]

Interesting, so what is it about that one guys personality that made you want to sleep with him even though you thought he was ugly?

[lekeke]

ok...i admit I won't have sex or a relationship with a guy who I don't find attractive...i love history and the reoccurring pattern I find is that when people are deeply in love it is often cause the thought the person was extremely beautiful first ( don't bite my head off people I'm talking about like a centutry ago, but I still think it happens now) ...i rate myself about a five...and I only had sex with one gguy and I rate him about a 7...but there was this one guy I didn't find attractive until I got to know him then I found him hot...but he was so nice I think he was the exception...anywho I agree the whole looks don't matter thing is just crap to make ourselves feel better

[Mr_is_fine]

Okay, but you just admitted that you met some guy who you didn't find attractive, but then after getting to know him, he became hot. I would say that this contradicts the conclusion of your post.

[lekeke]

Ahhh but it changed what I thought was my type........i've meet a lot of nice guys that I love their personalities that I woulnt date because I don't like how they look.........there exception to every rule, opinion, and preference and he was the one what is meant by my so called contradictory statement is that in 99 % of cases looks win out but in 1 % sometimes it doesn't matter......because we tell ourselves looks don't matter and once in a while it can be true doesn't make it a contradiction!

[Cool-Relax]

Saying that personality is more important doesn't mean that looks don't matter at all. Any person, male or female, who says that they don't care about appearance on any level is in serious denial. Personality is very important, but there has to be some kind of physical attraction. If there's not, that's what the friend zone is for.

[InquisitiveMale]

Here are some things I've found out on this site. Most of the people here are single. The most active users are 16-21 and I dare to say 90 percent of the individuals on this site have little or even no experience in relationships and are socially awkward. Almost everyone candy coats the truth to receive positive feed back and no one keeps their mouth shut when they don't have an answer.

You may get the occasional time where some good advice or an honest opinion is given but when it is it's not recognized.

Want a straight answer that applies for everyone?

“I'm only interested in people whose looks are noticeably better then mine.”

Why settle of less when there are so many out there, who have the entire package, both looks and personality. Those of you out there who defy this rule only do so out of desperation.

MY opinion, not yours.

Cheers.

[Anonymous]

Here's your first response. I think in a way this is actually true. ALOT of people in general only pick partners based on looks or popularity not just women. However those people have yet to mature and have a lot of growing up to do. Not all people do it but a lot do...