Girls, would you date a guy with narrow shoulders?

[Anonymous]

Every girl wants a tall guy with big broad shoulders, I don't have that. My shoulders are narrow compared to other guys but proportionate to my body. Is it a deal breaker? I'm pretty skinny and currently hitting the gym, I'd probably look much better in the future but for now, I'm scrawny.

Deal breaker at all costs. I need the shoulders of thor to protect me.

Not a big deal

It is a problem if he doesn't want to work out.

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Updates

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Ladies, think a little deeper if you can: is it more important to have proportionately large shoulders for your body or is the actual shoulder size what matters? Someone who's 6'4 will undoubtedly have large shoulders... but maybe not proportionately so for his build, you know what I mean? Someone who's 5'8 might have broad shoulders for his body type but it'll never be as broad as someone taller due to bone structure.

[nicole_SOA]

Honestly maybe a little gym time isn't bad but being all buff and masculine isn't always great. Skinny guys are good too. Thats my type at least. And as for the shoulder thing. don't worry about it. Going to the gym isn't a bad idea tho. it's really healthy for you And it does help in the muscle department.

[Anonymous]

I kinda have wide shoulders for my height, so I notice when his seem narrower than mine. I don't want to look bulky next to my man. But I'm not gonna lie and say I've never felt attraction for narrow shouldered men. They had a face that really made up for it though.

[Asker]

What if he had a good face? Does it equalize it a bit or is it still not enough?

[Opinion Owner]

That's what I said. The face equalized it.

[Asker]

can you read my update and answer it

[Opinion Owner]

"proportionately large shoulders for your body" is what makes me weak, but I'm okay with "the actual shoulder size" that is at least the same as mine.

[Asker]

Proportion over actual size huh... cool that gives me some hope. I can never be as broad as tall guys but I could look broad for my build.

[RationalLioness]

Nope. It's not attractive. I haven't seen a narrow shouldered guy that was attractive. And it's not about being protected. A knife/gun can do that for me.

It's that body with the large shoulders.

[TheSpartan]

Women generally prefer broader shoulders far more than they prefer height. If you are looking to beef up your shoulders, I strongly recommend overhead presses. However, you should start Stronglifts 5x5. Google it for the free ebook.

[Asker]

im already working out...

[TheSpartan]

What do you do?

[Asker]

fierce 5

[LY777g]

Not true, I'm currently attracted to a guy who's very tall yet his shoulders are narrow, when he stands behind me his shoulders looked more narrow than mine in the picture. He is like a pole straight up till down. Then again I'm a broad shoulder girl (part of hourglass traits) that worries if a guy would prefer a girl shoulders to be more narrow than him. Somehow short men with broad shoulders seem to have very huge egos which makes me unattracted to them.

[Klaatu51]

i have narrow shoulders as well... who cares bout big broad shoulders really?

[Asker]

me... and every woman

[Consultant]

I was born with narrow shoulders. Do a shit load of Deltoid work including side lateral raises particularly and lats.