She disappeared after the third date, even though she agreed we should do another date?

[Anonymous]

Girl I went on a date with a girl, and we had 3 really good dates that ended us kissing/making out each date/going back to my place etc and us planning a 4 date, but we didn't solidify the time.

Now all the sudden she's ghosted? Answers my text a day later if it all.

What gives?

[XRabbitHeartX]

There could be many reasons for her behavior but I think in general if a person's behavior changes after a few dates it's a good indication of a lack of interest. Sometimes it takes several dates for someone to realize they're not as interested as they initially thought they were or the interest just faded. It's natural and happens to a lot of people. That's why you date in the first place to see if you are feeling that connection with someone.

[eddzeeman]

Did you sleep with her when she she came back to your place?

[Asker]

No she got cold feet and freaked out because she thought we were moving too fast

[eddzeeman]

So thats why. She got cold feet, you didn't push for it, then you probably went on as usual as if some sort of friends, now she's backing off and giving you a hint. If you want to save this, you need to let her contact you. Dont message her until she misses you, then try to make your move again.

[Asker]

Just sent you a follow request, please accept and follow back and I'll explain the full situation

[Asker]

You accepted my follow request, but you need to follow me back :)

[Anonymous]

She's not interested anymore.

[Asker]

Do people really lose interest that quickly? I mean she was the one that was all over me in public every time we went out, and acting like a couple! Even when my friends saw us (even though it was only our 3rd date) he mentioned that she was all over me... I mean he said I was all over her too but she seemed really full on with me,

[CorruptedDocument]

Women lie, get use to it.