She has already told you all you need to know. She is confused she loves you but she feels your relationship is all about sex, she feels under pressure, she feels that if she doesn't say yes every time you will be upset which on some level is true because you are posting here.
You have to do more than sex. Get flowers, chocolate, dates, cook for her, cards. Not every day maybe not even every week but you have to give her something she can tell her friends about and sometimes even show them. She loves you but needs to be able to justify this love to herself and her friends.
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Pretty normal really. Once you're comfortable together a lot of women start to pull back sexually. And most of the time it doesn't get any better. Unfortunately, it's not her. Like I said, it's most women. Just don't stop being honest with her about your disappointment if that's what you're feeling.
You said she told you she feels that's all you do. Okay, take that under advisement. Plan out some couple stuff regularly. Maybe that will make her stop thinking about how much she needs to have sex with you and get her thinking about how much she wants to have sex with you.
maybe youve just left the honeymoon phase she's been with you long enough that she wants you beyond the physical. you have to realize even though she is cutting back on sex it is still was more than most couples do it. enjoy it when you get it. also you sed she is stressed if she refuses don't be upset just do something else snuggle up watch a movie, play a game, or just talk. don't make a big deal out of it change can be hard but when the transition is over you will be a happier stronger couple.
You guys are saying the girl is pulling back, what if its the guy that don't want sex as much no more. Is there something to worry about?
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It aways tapers off...
it took about 2 years for me and my girlfriend but its definately leveld out now..
1 or 2 times a week is a pretty normal number
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