Not sure what exaction she is taking leading you to assume hard to get but if she is being evasive your texts just give it a break. She may be seeing someone. She may be waiting for you to ask her out. Not enough detail here to really know. But maybe lay off for a while and see if she initiates contact.
If she is responding to your messages just enough to keep you around but being noncommittal it could mean she is seeing someone but wants to keep you lined up in case it doesn't work out. I've never done this as I don't think it is fair to the person I'm dating, I give them my complete attention but I some who do.
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If she's playing hard to get, then, if you stop responding, you can never tell what she will think. She could think you're taking a "two can play at that game" approach or that you're not interested or any number of things. I think that you should tell her how you feel about her playing hard to get. If you tell her what you think, she will probably stop.
Just tell her straight you are interested in her, but if she wants to play games, it's game over for you! She will find it so sexy for a man to take control!
I voted ignore her, but you should do so without hopes to win her over.
If you're ignoring her to get to her, then you are playing games too.
Just walk away and find someone that doesn't play with your heart.
Trust me, it feels much better to like someone that you know feels the same way. If she's playing games now, she's unlikely to stop tomorrow, or even months from now. She'll just break your heart, then blame you for pursuing her because "you knew what you were getting into"
Just ignore her and move on, go look for another girl. If this girl really wanted you she'd stop playing games, games are stupid.
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Hard to get should equal = get the fuck out of my life.
Don't play along. Too many other women to deal with a girl who is being a nonsensical, game playing, status-jockeying cunt.Well, if you ignore her then you're also playing hard to get
Just move on.
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