Does it mean a girl likes you if she calls you a nickname?

[Anonymous]

I've known this girl for 2 years and recently we have become very close. Anyway she has said '' Andrew. I love you you're the best. Shas called me Andy and Andy poo. She does text me everyday randomly saying things like I'm so so sick or how was your day? etc

Things she has also said

- ' So much love for you face blowing kiss emoji and red love heart
- You're the best (red love heart) never forget that
- You mean a lot to me ( red love heart)
- I'm scared of losing you
- I feel safe with you
- Andrew. I love you you're the best. However she was drunk when she said this.
- She randomly says sorry for late replying to my texts
- When I get back i'll make sure your the first person I see
- We should watch a movie in the WARMTH and eat popcorn when I get back.

Things she has done physically

- Bumped my leg twice in like 10 seconds while sitting at a table and she just looked at me but didn't say sorry
- She was walking next to me and our arms bumped together once again she didn't say sorry
- She presses up against me when she was cold
- I cuddled her when it was cold and she didn't move away
- She looked up for me online where i can find my textbook list for uni when I didn't ask her. But i was complaining about not been able to find it.

[PainfullyHonest135]

Andy poo?
Broo, sorry to break it too you, but sounds like your DEEEEEP in her friendzone. When a girl is treating you like a child, calling you cute or adorable, she basicly has emasculated you.

A baby, baby-looking animals, kittens, kids, all those things are cute, adorable, and "Oh look at the little boo poo <3 :3 "

The reason she is so comfortable around you is because she dosent see you as a man, but as a child or puppy, so she isn't expecting any sexual advance from you.

Sorry but you done goofed. 2 years? Like damn, i dont see how you could reverse this. If you like her as a friend keep going, but dont expect that to change anytime soon (if ever). If not, drop contact with her, hell, go out and give your attention to another girl, while at the same time maybe trade a text word like once a month.

Women are more attracted to men in relationships, also drooping her might somewhat 'reset' her view on you (like your attention is only available to girls you date), and give yah a shot a her... maybe.

But yah, your deeeeeep in the friendzone dude.

[Asker]

But we weren't all that close before. Then suddenly we have become very very close. Closer than ever before. The dynamic just changed. Every other time she just calls me Andy or Andrew.

[PainfullyHonest135]

Exactly. FRIENDZONED.
Attraction has an expiration date, its strongest when you meet, and rapidly fades with time, not the other way around as we are led to belive, which is why so many guys take their sweet time, wanting to be careful, thinking attraction builds with time.

HELL NO, it fades, and if you dont sleep with the girl fast, she begins to stop viewing you as a man she wants to mate with.

The closeness your talking about is that she feels safe (sexually safe) from you. She calls you this nick name almost like you would a little brother. Your screwed dude. Your not getting anyware anytime soon with this girl. Im sorry but you friendzoned yourself hard.

Im telling you this because thats the way girls who i have firmly in my friendzone treat me, and I've had conversations with them on the topic. Where as girls I've gotten intimate with are the opposite.

Like i said dude, your in the 9th layer of friendzone hell.

[Asker]

She had a boyfriend at time I met her. So I never really knew that well so I wasn't close all that close to her. But now she is single.

[Asker]

I mean I never really knew her all that well.

[PainfullyHonest135]

Look, i dont care what happened in the past or how much you THINK your close. All sings you've listed point, and continue to point harder at you being in the friendzone.

[Asker]

So if I'm in the friendzone. How come other girls who put me in the friendzone don't message me everyday. This one sends me kisses, red love hearts. We have gone out to dinner and movies; and spent time together alone.

[PainfullyHonest135]

Simple, girls WANT ATTENTION. Second note, your really young aren't you?

But fuck it, your being so stubborn, put my theory to test. If she does like you, the she is waiting for you to make a move. Personally, based on what you have described, id say your super friendzoned bud, but the only sure fire way at this point is make a move.

Ask her out, next time your alone with her, cuddling her or just her and you got a moment of silence, look at her, and when she looks back, KISS HER (in the mouth obviously), just spontaneously kiss her. If she does indeed like you as more than a friend as you are so DESPERATE to believe, she will sink into it and WOHOO you can now start progressing.

If she pulls out immediately or just gets uncomfortable and pulls back, then i was right. Remember, attraction expires, based on what youve said her sexual attraction to you must be null. In which case, losing her based on a kiss won't be a loss, hell you took a shot at it at least.
Dont get your hopes up tho

[Klaatu51]

"Andy POO"? LOL

hahhah she's funny

she adds lots of hearts, and her words mean a lot... but since actions count more...

when legs/arms bumped it happened ON PURPOSE obviously
she feels safe around u indeed..
this about textbook... eh i guess she should've ask first... but still it wasn't bad wot she did... it was nice and polite.

so u can tell she likes u

[Asker]

yeah well the legs seemed alittle obvious cause she was looking into my eyes when she was doing that. The textbook thing not saying it was bad she just trying to help me, she sometimes does small things for me like that.

[Asker]

Yeah she was just calling me Andy Poo as a silly name thing hahaha. She does say my normal name a lot

[Klaatu51]

That's so nice then... and yeah she likes u indeed!!!

[Klaatu51]

Thanks!!

[Heavyhitter]

Yah that's a little far for just being friends so try texting her she likes u

[Anonymous]

It just means she's playful

[Asker]

what about all the other stuff she has said on top of that?