Is it bad if my girlfriend is stronger than me?

[Anonymous]

I never fought about it, but now I know that my girlfriend is stronger than me and I think she nows it too, is that bad?

[GamerArtNerd]

Does she work out alot? Do you? If she does then I'd recommend you hit the gym for some peace of mind. I wouldn't particularly say it's bad but as long as she accepts it and doesn't feel turned off by it then it shouldn't be a problem. I can understand how it may be emasculating though but as long as she's not flaunting it to other people and as long as it's not causing any other problems then I wouldn't worry about it.

[Asker]

I work out a lot, but she dont. I'm just worried if its bad for our relationship

[jgokgotit]

Hopefully this has been resolved by now, but if not, just ask her how she feels and wait for her answer then tell her how you feel. If she is ok with it then no biggie if you can be ok with it. If either one of you is bothered by it, then start exercising and eat healthy. Sounds cliche but gotta take care of yourself, both mentally and physically.

[Anonymous]

In what context is it bad? Men are almighty any women and delicate kind of way?

[Asker]

I mean is it bad for the future between us

[NearlyNapping]

If it's because you never get any exercise then it's a negative. That's super unhealthy. If you are reasonably fit and healthy and she is more fit, not a big deal. If it was me, it would bother me, but that's just me. However, it doesn't matter what I think. It's only what you and she thinks that matters.

[SerUmbras]

Is it bad that she's stronger than you? No.
Is it bad that you feel the need to ask? Maybe?
Is it bad that society feels that girls shouldn't be stronger than boys? Definitely.

[Anonymous]

I had a girlfriend who was very strong, not as strong as me but the strongest girl I ever encountered by far. She was 6' tall and muscular rather than thin, she worked in a stable brushing down horses and heaving sacks of grain. I thought it was great.

[Illusive_Man]

Well... uh... are you any good at cooking?

[cinderelli]

LOL... 😂😂😂 this was awesome!!!

[Illusive_Man]

@cinderelli
Well to be honest there's this girl who's stronger than I am back in gradeschool.
She weighted as much as an adult and is as tall as one as well... in gradeschool.
So maybe she's one of those Amazonian princess.

[cinderelli]

But you are not dating her.. she may want someone stronger than her too.. or maybe she should just go for a chef.. 😁

[Illusive_Man]

@cinderelli
Someone stronger than her?
She's gonna have to walk into a forest and find a good grizzly bear who will take care of her.

[cinderelli]

Than a chef it is! XD

[Illusive_Man]

@cinderelli
Well I hope I'm stronger than you are at least then lol

[cinderelli]

Lol.. I m sure you are.. I have never worked out in my life.. (I will tho.. in future )

[Illusive_Man]

@cinderelli
Oh I don't know about that. Girls always have a few secret tricks up their sleeves.

[cinderelli]

I don't.. at least not now.. maybe in future tho.. 😏

[Illusive_Man]

@cinderelli
I for one did not expect a skinny girl in my gym to be doing handstands and backflips suddenly just as I was failing horribly and getting my knees all bruised and scraped up lol
She looked so smug lol maybe I should talk to her.

[cinderelli]

Haha.. cute.. and maybe you should.. 😊😊

[Illusive_Man]

@cinderelli
Shall challenge her and make smug faces when I perfect my gymnastic skills

[cinderelli]

Yes!! You tell her who is the man.. xD 💪😎

[Illusive_Man]

@cinderelli
She's no small woman lol
I am 6'0 and 165lbs but she's almost as tall as I am.
She doesn't lift weights but she's VERY fast , VERY flexible and she's Russian probably.

Ahhh yes...
The Asian life, every advantage must be trained for ha lol
MAN!
I wish things could be easy for once.

[cinderelli]

you should try and find out if she really is stronger than you.. :)

[Illusive_Man]

@cinderelli
Some day.
I've trained with guys before , I wonder what's the training tempo of a girl is like.

[cinderelli]

oki doke.. :) :) :)

[ninda]

U mean physically? I think it is fine, i wouldn't mind dating a woman who won gold medal on martial arts

[thotramus]

i think it is bad (for me) if my girlfriend is stronger than me. it is actually a deal breaker. i wound not date a stronger girls than i am

[MarcusBorino]

Why not?

[cinderelli]

It is bad if you think it is bad..

[GamerArtNerd]

Not really. Men are naturally stronger 90% of the time. I think he has every right to feel emasculated by it. Not really. Men are naturally stronger 90% of the time. I think he has every right to feel emasculated by it.

[cinderelli]

Depends on the guy.. some will not have any problem with it and some Will.. you cannot say for all.. @GamerArtNerd

[GamerArtNerd]

sorry for the double paste.

[GamerArtNerd]

I'm not speaking for all. I'm just saying it should be a pretty normal thing for him to feel emasculated by it. I'm sure many girls would feel turned off by the idea of being stronger than their boyfriend. I think they'd probably like being stronger than any many as long as it's not their boyfriend. But as long as @asker's girlfriend is willing to accept it then there shouldn't be a problem

[cinderelli]

I get it.. I personally would like a guy who would be stronger than me.. @GamerArtNerd

[SonicRiver]

I personally would not like that.

[Asker]

And why wouldn't you like that?

[Octavius]

Depends on what you're worried about.

[Asker]

Our relationship

[Izzex3]

No?
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[Sam19XX]

No lol
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[DarthGameRuler]

That’s so hot! How big is she?

[WizardofDarkMagic]

That’s so hot!

[MarcusBorino]

It’s kind of hot!