As a reformed (sorta), I liked guys who were accepting of me, who first like me as a friend, who aren't afraid to play sports like Baseball, Softball, maybe even Football, Basketball without having to constantly treatment like a girl. I grew up between two brothers, the nearest girl my age for the longest time was probably a quarter mile down the road, so my playmates were all boys. My BFF growing up is now my husband, we fell head over heels for each other and decided why fool around trying to find the right person when they were already there. No one ever pushed us towards marrying young, (18/19) in fact the opposite in some cases, we wouldn't change a thing. Right now we are focusing on finishing College/University together and starting a life together.
Back to your question;
1.) He has to be accepting of me.
2.) He has to have a nice personality, honest, good rep.
3.) I have to think he's pretty good looking.
4.) He can treat me like a girl when we are sort of changing to boy/girl roles.
5.) He knows who I am and likes who I am.
6.) He is genuinely attracted to me.
7.) he doesn't want or need me to change to suit him.
8.) I really like him in a girl way.
9.) He might give me that slugged in the gut butterfly feeling when I see him.
10.) for some unknown reason (to me) he makes me want to show him my girly side, attracting me to him with his personality and attractive looks.
So, I guess at the heart of it, Tomboys aren't that much different that girly girls when it comes to what we find attractive in a guy. We're still girls after all!
I'm mostly attracted to pretty masculine guys, but they need to be intelligent and confident as well. Handsome is in the eye of the beholder, and a guy definitely doesn't need a sixpack to secure a starring role in my fantasies... although it can help ;)
Physically, all guys I've really been crazy about in the past have been pretty average body-wise, leaning towards the slender side. All have had a happy, care-free and fairly easy-going attitude to life and been able to laugh at themselves. That is really important for attraction in my opinion.
I like guys who like me, don't want to talk about their feelings for hours on end because that would probably annoy and bore me to death. I also don't want to hear any shit like "you are such a delicate little flower" (except in a joking sort of way) or be expected to "act like a woman".
I have a friend who is a lesbian and only into women but he has a friend with long hair and a beard who she finds attractive. Actually I just want to say most women find long hair and a beard attractive. It's amazing!
i dont like it
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i used to like tall guys and i didn't care about their appearances at all but then i joined a mma gym and i started to like strong, masculine and tough guys they also have to be kind, not stupid and not too perfect cause its boring
none because they're lesbian scum
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