My ex girlfriend dumped me 2 weeks ago, and our mutual friend told me that she still cares about but is still angry, so a week later I gave her a call? She did not pick up, so I went into a meeting for about an hour, during that hour I got 3 missed calls from her in a space of 45mins.
After the meeting I called her and she picked up and she asked why did you call me? I told because I wanted to talk to her, then she started being all emotional in her voice tone saying I told you to leave me alone, she kept going on and on and wasn't giving me a chance to talk so I hang up on her.
I sent her a text straight after telling her that I was okay with the breakup, but I still think about her and miss her. needless to say she didn't reply!
I need answers pple! I wanna hear yo thoughts!
Girls waiting for you to tell me what you think? guys keep it coming!
Really grateful to all the answers I got here!
im movin on people life is to short! went on a date last night but I'm taking it slow
she seems like an emotional beyotch. she is obviously nothing but drama and she probably got butt hurt when you didn't answer those three missed call, but hey, you were busy. if she really likes you like she says she does she will reply your text and still try to work it out. if she doesn't reply or call you or anything you know you need to move on and let it be.
haha I meant that I like it when I say leave me alone but my boyfriend doesn't because it shows he loves me, and that's interesting then she's just upset and made a silly rash choice I would just explain that to her and be like I love you I would never miss it on purpose, just explain the situation and you going have to be her bitch for a little while haha
man...SHE LOVES U!,SHE JUST NEEDS YOU TO TELL HER..DUHH! AM NOT OK WITH THE BREAK UP I NEED You IN MY LIFE,OTHERWISE SHE WOULDNT HAVE TOLD UR MUTUAL FRND THT SHE STILL CARES..MAYBE SHE KNEW SMTHN ABT You AND ANOTHER GIRL OR SHE THINKSU DNT LOVE HER ANY MORE OR THSE STUFF,DNT GO ON A DATE SHE;S PROBABLYY DIEIN NOW,AND SHE;LL KNOW IT! JUST DNT LET HR GO SHE'S PROBBLYY SAD NOW.. SO TRYY OVE ND OVER AGAIN 2 MORE TIMES SHE'LL RESPOND..AND BLIEV FIRST TIME SHE'LL SURE B SAYIN NO I TOLD You TO LEAVE ME AONE AND AGIN AND AGIN AND THEN SHE'LL COME AL OVE UR PLACEE .;D;D;D;D:D BELIEVE M THATS EXACTLY WHT HAPPENED TO ME AND M BF!
What do you want? This is a question that I want to ask. Made that phone call just wanted to talk to her? You wanna be friend with her or still want to be together with her?
She needs some care even though she told you to leave her alone, so just give her a couple of days to calm down. She dumped you and she is acting like she is sad...well I don't know what was the reason you guys broke up. anyway, she is not acting maturely. Tell her you are ok with the breakup, and tell her what do you want.
Hmm sounds like she is mentally battling about something. I'm only thinking like that because she called you 3 times in comparison to your 1 call. If she really wanted you to leave her alone she wouldn't have called back and definitely wouldn't have called back 3 times just to tell you to leave her alone.
Advice: She's p*ssed about something so don't contact her again. Leave her alone when she calms down she my or my not ever talk to you again. If she calls and want to talk it's up to you if you talk to her but say what you need to say, and don't hold back your feelings.
see when I'm upset id rather have my boyfriend try to make it better as soon as possible, I mean when I say leave me alone and you don't it makes me feel good because its like no I won't because I love you and I know you love me, also is there a reasoning to why she broke up with you?
if she keeps blabbinn tell her to shup up and...if you wanna get back together then clearly your not okay with the break up and that's what she wants to here...shes def upset because she misses you as well so be all like I think we should meet so we can talk about this I miss you and would like to make things better she wants to hear that you still care
Shes confused man...just give it a little more time and so be it. She is saying why you called her, when she ended up calling you three times in general within fourtyive minutes man? Straight out she's confuse, just give her sometime, and tex her back, or who knows she might get in touch with you. When its all said and done, time itself is your friend right now at the moment man, take care.
Been there, just break it off man. Give her a call and say "Seems like you got some growing up to do, I still love you but not enough to put up with what you are doing to me. Gimme a call in a couple years and maybe we can work somethin out."
Oh boy, she misses you too and she is obviously still in love and can't believe that you're not bugging to get her back like she'd expected. I am sixteen so yea I do the same thing, but I think you all are grown so since you both are adults, I find her behavior to be very immature and you did the best thing by moving on. It's time for you to go fishing playa... there are too many fish in the sea to get annoyed and confused by just one.
ok well sounds to me like she is really confused about something, maybe your not getting the whole story about the break up... another thing, women are very emotional and if you want to reconcile anything it will require you to deal with some of the rambling and battering that she will dish out. maybe you should just text her and let her know that you would like to talk about things... she may not reply but she will still read it, and hanging up definately won't help... it sucks but sometimes people need to explode and let all their emotions out before they can maturely talk about something... you obviously must know her to an extent so make a light attempt to soften her up, and make her more willing to talk... only she can tell you why she is acting the way she is... its most likely just a misunderstanding about something you did or the way she feels...