Girls, what do you think of a 27 year old male virgin? red flag?

[Anonymous]

I've got my reasons but... what would go through your head?

Definite red flag, no questions asked.

suspicious. I would wonder and want to know why he's still a virgin

not suspicious at all. No problem

answers

[Anonymous]

I wouldn't care. Maybe I would just think that you are a person to settle down with since you held yourself all these years and less likely to cheat (hopefully).

I am sad that guys feel they are unworthy or their peers (other males) make them feel less than other men just because they are virgins. I don't know where guys get these ideas from.

[Cyclone4life]

It's the media. Because now in this age of sex sex and more sex and no morals if your a guy who is 25 or older and still a virgin, most guys and girls will probably be thinking, he has to be gay

[Opinion Owner]

@Cyclone4life So true. Unfortunately, it's like for some people these days, losing their virginity comes at the top of their To-Do list before even graduating high school and everything. It was normal for men to be virgin until they find somebody they are comfortable with. Why do people care what others choose to do with their lives? I respect men who wait until they find somebody they like and feel resposible for more than anything.

[Lilac79]

Kind of ironic how the boys were the ones that thought being a virgin at that age was a problem... for the most part us girls are fine with it. I'm not sure what your reasons are, but I know there's a lot of people who wait for religious reasons so I think there's a lot of people who are still virgins at that age

[MrNameless]

Because our society looks down on single people. And men are told from an early age to get with as many girls/experience to bring their social status up.

You hardly if ever hear about people making fun of female virgins. But people always sneer at male virgins like they do at hos.

[MrNameless]

Whats sad is that a lot of girls condone this behavior too.

[Lilac79]

Totally, and that's just flaws in their characters. There's a lot of rude girls who make fun of girls who are virgins too. It's best to stay true to yourself and you do you, no matter what. @MrNameless

[Anonymous]

I would vote B, but i wouldn't be put off by it. I don't think its a bad thing plus it would be a nice experience to be the first sexual partner and show him how I like things rather than with most guys who arnt virgins assuming they is so experienced but don't know what they are doing either.

[coconutelixir]

It's all good. I would be curious as to why, but no red flags would rise in front of my eyes the moment I hear that fact.

[Anonymous]

I'm a 29 year old virgin. But why does it have to matter? I know girls usually don't prefer virgin guys, but it's best to not talk about this aspect until she specifically asks you how many sexual partners you have had.

[Monsters]

I think it is admirable

[Richieswans]

I'm 46 and a virgin, the only advise I could give to you is not to be pressured into anything you are not ready to do.

[Richieswans]

I'm 46 and a virgin, the only advise I could give to you is not to be pressured into anything you are not ready to do.

[Mwolf]

Some people see virginity as a band aid to rip off and some people value who they are first intimate with/who they give themselves to. I'd admire a guy who went against society norms and had the resilience and strength to wait until he finds someone he actually wants to give himself to, plus less chance of STDs. Unfortunately society has a lot of peer pressure and guilt tripping that by a certain age things have to be done by. It's a personal choice that can't be undone, don't let anyone sway your decision. A guy who waits shows his heart's true intentions. Neither guys or girls should be shamed for or for not have had sex. As long as people are safe and consensual.

[Kirah]

Not a red flag at all, there are plenty of reasons for someone to be a virgin at that age.

Anyway I prefer virgins, as I get to show them the ropes.

[Vehii]

I'd be curious why, but hey, 25 year-old virgin right here.

[SidneyBeans]

I would definitely be curious as to why, but I wouldn't just judge you or the situation right off the bat.

[Anonymous]

It's curious, but I wouldn't call it suspicious or a red flag. I might wonder if he's religious and waiting for marriage or something.

[Anonymous]

no red flages.. actually envy guys that have waited ;)

[Anonymous]

If it was by choice, it is understandable and I would respect it. If not I'd consider that there is probably something wrong with him.

[BackInGame]

don't tale them. girls hate male virgins and you can see this by not a single girl entering this thread yet.

[Prettygurl12]

That'd be ideal for me.

[Lisa22]

Better safe than sorry.

[Monsters]

I would prefer that!!

[ElissaDido]

No problem

[Anonymous]

i would keep it hidden from the girls

[What_do_i_do]

depends on why

[Anonymous]

HUSBAND !!!