Okay so I think I am well suited to answer this question. As far as some of your friends starting to avoid you it is probably a combination of them stoping socialization with as many people when they are in a couple, possibly some kind of jealousy, and people maturing and starting to form more close-nit friend groups as you get older. As far as men not approaching you, you will slowly learn that we men flirt with you more when you seem more approachable. The perfect example is Camron Diez (at least the character she plays in movies). The exact opposite would be Kristen Stewart in all of those twilight movies. If you had to approach a random person wouldn't you pick someone who looks like Camron instead of Kristen? Keep in mind that you should not change your personality to accomplish this. When you are talking to a group of people in any setting besides a professional (work related) one then it is an opportunity to gain friends and maybe develop the relationship further. In those situations be your most optimistic, bubbly, and outgoing self you can be. You will find that the power of positivity is contagious and people will gravitate to you more. I am an approachable guy and although it doesn't much help me for dating (because I am supposed to initiate things because I am a guy) it does make meeting people outside of my zone of usual friends easier because people are attracted to my personality. Don't be afraid to flirt with guys, we love it, it makes our day, just don't go over the top (a line you will have to find our your own!). I hope this helps!!
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