Do you agree women are incapable of feeling empathy for men?

[Anonymous]

There are certain attributes that all members of a species would have. In case of females it is hard-wired in their programming that the male is the one who is there to protect her from the predators and rival tribes and risk his life to bring back meat, his life is expendable and worthless, his purpose should only be to bring comfort to the woman even if it results in his own demise, he can be mutilated or killed and it would not make the least of difference to any female, nature decided that one man can impregnate a million women while one women can only produce a handul of children, so a woman will never give a man the same value she gives herself and other women. It's her instinct.

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Edit: If you ever wanted to know why women laugh and cheer when a woman cuts off a man's penis, now you know.

[Anonymous]

This is bull. And I'm sorry the events in your life have panned out in such a way that you believe this. I've had female friends walk through rain both ways to bring me food they payed for. I can't count the number of times my friends have stayed up late into the night just to help me pass a test. Or the number of times they've driven me home or let me sleep in their rooms when I was drunk. When I was in a car accident three of my female cousins walked out of thier job immediately to come find me because my mom was too far away. And Jesus Christ the amount of effort those women put into helping me career and relationship wise is ridiculous. My ex girlfriend has gotten into a few fights over me (I was never their when it happened I just saw the aftermath). And my mom is just my fucking mom. That women does everything for me. Women don't see men as disposable. Or at least my female friends and family have proven to me that I'm not disposable. It's not thier instinct. If anything thier instinct is to care for thier loved ones. How often do you actually talk to women? And I don't mean talking at work or ordering food. I mean sit down and talk about life love death poverty politics science and things like that. Because I can't believe that you've had too much experience with women and still hold such a disjointed view of who they really are.

[Anonymous]

I don't want to generalise by agreeing but I have to lean slightly towards agreeing. I've seen so many things that support this hypothesis.
- Saw a movie where female cuts man's penis... everyone laughs. That character didn't deserve that film. Girls said that it's "Love and obsession" of woman and it's okay.
- Before that, we saw film and in that a guy grabs wrist of girl and brings her out of room and confessed his feeling. Girls said, "It was degrading for women. Guy is jerk *blah blah blah*."
- Hundreds incidents where guys get falsely accused and no one takes a guy's side. It's like guy = must be wrong, & girl = victim. Whether it is queue, seats in bus/train or footpath or any place. "Guy is always wrong".

I don't believe that women can't empathise but sometimes I feel that it's coming closer to truth. Brainwash of women is in progress due to feminism.

Instead of feminism... follow humanism and spare guys. Please.

[Opinion Owner]

That character didn't deserve *to have his penis cut off in that film.

[Opinion Owner]

Same set of girls reacted that way.

[nalaa]

well have you considered that that all nurture not nature, which is what the asker seemed to imply. what you say goes back to cultural double standards that we have mainly because of patriarchal past. In some historic era women could literally not commit another crime other than adultery, because men, who made the laws didn't believe women were capable of murder or rape.

As for rape, sure there are some false accusations, but there are also plenty of women who don't even report because they think it won't benefit them in any way. And the latter far outweighs the former

And it's no secret that our culture and in fact most cultures are far more sensetive to violence against women than men. why? Well largley because we see men as strong and independent and women as weak and in need of help. And it's not feminism's fault that it is that way, quite the opposite actually

[Opinion Owner]

@nalaa I never mentioned only 'rape'. There are so many things. Girls cut queue = no problem, girls take reserved seat of some guy on long route bus = guy is bad for asking girl to give him his reserved seat.

Feminism's fault - not that much but it's definitely getting more and more involved in this brainwashing as time passes. They're more focusing on females > males instead of female = male.

[NormalUser]

Its a movie -_-, movies can be ridiculously stupid and its of 1's action (the person who made the movie) you can't just take them on a large scale of people... It can be true to many women being brain-washed, but sorry to say, its not here at least you see the votes^. When I read your opinion, I get the feeling that you want to think that way and too lazy to think or witnessed less women being capable to have empathy for man. Maybe you're also brain-washed by these movies that women does not have empathy for man, think bout that :D. Otherwise I am happy to be proven wrong :D

[Opinion Owner]

@NormalUser There are other things I mentioned and still you focused on movies. Even when you focused on movie, you missed entire point of what I said. Did you even try to read and interpret it?

[KRIEL55]

hmm. i dont exactly agree with it all but then i kind of do.. i mean we aren't HEARTLESS, i personally can be very caring and loving, but sometimes i do find myself thinking about some very messed up things. for example with my ex, this one time we were just joking around about me suffocating him when we were playfully wrestling and i was on top, and i thought about it to myself like what would i do if he really did die for some reason and i was there while it happened but it wasn't my fault, what would i have done? and tbh the first thing i thought of was to just leave him there and make sure nobody saw it so that nobody would think its my fault. its crazy but these kind of thoughts to occur and make me wonder. there are only a few people who i actually genuinely care about, all family. and it seems to just stay that away

[lumos]

Your issue here is that you view all women as some kind of mindless computers.
"In case of females it is hard-wired in their programming"
We might have a harder time being empathetic about something that's specifically a male-only issue, because in that case it might be hard for us to imagine what it's like since it's not something we'll ever get to experience. Empathy = being able to put yourself in someone else's shoes completely. In that case you might "only" get sympathy (which should still be enough).
Your view on women is pathetic and it seems like you're projecting your own lack of self-worth on women.

[Asker]

Strange thing though is that guys dont have tits yet if they would ever hear a story of a man chopping off a woman's tits they would never laugh nor cheer, instead they would be outraged and demand the man be put to death or castrated. Makes you wonder if it's really a matter of "I don't have this body part so that's why I'll laugh and cheer if someone cuts off yours" as you said, but rather it's just women instinctively seeing men as disposible utilities who are only there to serve women's needs.

[lumos]

I've never met a woman in my entire life that would laugh at something like that. And I'm pretty sure that plenty of woman hating men would laugh.

[Asker]

Umm, you do have Television right? Or the internet right? Just watch a women's talk show, or go on facebook.
"I've never met a womam who's etc etc" is just bs. Women are programmed to be like that.

[lumos]

Go troll somewhere else.

[RedThread]

Finally you put a real pic of yourself up ;)

[lumos]

@RedThread I felt like Gag was ready now to see my final form.

[Asker]

Look who's talking.

[lumos]

Sure, because joking a little with a friend is the same as trolling badly about like half the earth's population.

[Asker]

How the love am I trolling if what I said was factually correct?

[lumos]

Go on then, give me the stats to prove that you're factually correct.

[Asker]

I'm afraid none has yet made official statistical studies on how many women cheer and laugh when a guy's penis is cut off, but from TV shows where the entirety of a completely random audience is jubilant and when 99% of female facebook posts are celebrating, I can safely say it's the vast majority.

[lumos]

Then show me the TV shows and the posts.

[shephardjhon]

Here is the video in question. It is someone else talking about the video but it has uncut clips.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rYkuJXqLDkQ

[GirlScout]

What women are cutting off sucks while others watch on and cheer, the women in your dreams?

Totally disagree, totally. I've seen many women put their sons and husbands before them. If this were true... you know what, it just isn't. Stop hating women and you might find the world isn't as shit as you make it out to be. Or just go live under a rock hiding from us because we want you dead.

[Mesonfielde]

You just have to say "he cheated" and everyone thinks physical violence and permanent disfiguration is perfectly reasonable.

[GirlScout]

@Mesonfielde so do men, people are disgusting sometimes.

Still does not change the fact women are not stood around cheering as other women cut their dicks off... ok, I bet somewhere it's happening... I also bet the person deserves it.

[shephardjhon]

PROOF https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rYkuJXqLDkQ

[samhradh_leannan]

I feel empathy for men all the time. We are all humans with feelings and worth, and I am no less capable of empathizing with men than I am of empathizing with anyone else.

I don't know what kind of people you hang out with. But I have never, ever seen anyone- regardless of their gender- laughing or cheering because a man's penis was cut off.

[NormalUser]

I disagree with that, at least way after this era come... I mean most women now actually do feel empathy for men but they just does not show it and some just don't feel empathy as they thought men are supposed to feel okay about not getting empathy from them like what the asker said about them being programmed... but truthfully most women that I know of, do actually empathise men.

P. S. If you're my age.. and do not agree with me, maybe (just maybe) we're in different culture... And for those; like way older than me, if you wonder why I say this era though I didn't know you're era , I'll just say it this way (I know why they don't empathy men, there are reasons that I've heard from people from your era).

[Mesonfielde]

I agree that this is a common problem, the inability to relate to members of the other sex and relying on sexist stereotypes from pop culture magazines to figure out the behavior of your partner and others - but it is not a biologically determined thing.

This is because people think males and females inevitably and always have sex with one another over time and "they can't be friends" and kids bully each other saying "you're in loooove" if you have an other sex friend under the age of 20, and thus end up stereotyping males as they don't know enough of them to invalidate the cultural bullshit like "women are fragile and love flowers and being treated like a princess".

[moistycakes]

I'm shocked at how many guys said agree. I feel empathy for men just as much as I feel empathy for women. We're all human and if something bad happens to anyone, I feel empathy. I have no idea what kind of person would laugh if a mans penis were to be removed, they're just fucked up people.

[swirlywirly169]

Not true at all. Even if you're talking about tribal living, there were songs and dances to pray for the men to come home. Overall, I feel empathy for human beings! Don't automatically wish for men to die for my benefit. I would sacrifice myself for someone I love's benefit. Most women definitely feel empathy for almost all human beings!

[Poppykate]

I was having this same conversation with someone the other day. Women need to express more kindness and compassion towards their men. Like everyone else they like to feel loved, safe and looked after too. It gives us all a sense of belonging to someone.

[YouRAllCrazy]

I agree with this to an extent. Many women will not feel empathy for men whom aren't in their circle, but that generally goes for everyone else. Men relate with men and women relate with women. They aren't men, so they might do or say some ignorant sht when it comes to us. But this includes us too. The people you're talking about are just crazy sheltered degenerates whom never experienced any real struggles or are harpies, but humans are batsht crazy in general so I don't anyone. Remind yourself that and you'll see an even mad world. Forget about sheltered babies laughing at clips of dicks getting cut off, there's an even degenerate evil that lurks. Kids are being kidnapped around the world, just laugh at those harpy lunatics and move on.

[Anonymous]

I used to be unable to feel empathy towards men. That changed though. I used to think guys are just shallow horny idiots. But that isn't true at all. In general I'm very caring and loving person. If I had a boyfriend I would really love him and appreciate him, but also understand him and his needs aslong as he did that to me.

[9mfeo]

LOL at the update. That really doesn't happen as often as you seem to think it does.

[CourtJester]

Yea... we're suppose to "man up" for every situation, right?

[Jessicocoa]

"If you ever wanted to know why women laugh and cheer when a woman cuts off a man's penis, now you know. "
What kind of sick women do you run into?

[Anonymous]

I have a lot of love and compassion for men special to me and I would do anything for them. People do not get empathy when they treat others badly. Women dont go around cutting penis's off men - for a. woman to behave so extreme she has either suffered years of abuse or the f*cker interfered with her children.

[Asker]

Or maybe she's a sick sadicstic jealous cunt who should in turn have her tits cut off and a burning rod shoved up her snatch?
You're the type of person I'm talking about, whatever a woman does to a man, mutilate and disfigure, you'll say he "he deserve it". But in the reverse situation where a man does it to a woman you would never say that, you'd call the attacker a monster and demand justice.

by the way, if a woman cuts off my dick I don't care what her excuse is, I'll cut her face to ribbons and make her a disfigured freak for life.
You yourself are just surrounded by so many beta submissive males who do your bidding and always take the side of the woman over the man that you've come to see men as worthless utilities.
People like you make our blood boil, if you ever said something like that to my face I'll bash right in the fucking teeth.

[Opinion Owner]

I feel sorry for you... are you actually out on the streets because you are one twisted f*cker...

[Asker]

What the flying fuck?

Are you for real? Please dear god tell me you're trolling and you're not actually likw that in real life

[AnnaLeighMarie]

I've shed quite a few tears over men in the past, I'll leave it at that.

[dwiller943]

In her instinct? Sorry. But we don't all have the same "instincts".

[Anonymous]

WHERE ARE YOU GETTING THIS? Laugh and cheer when a woman cuts off a man's penis? What are your sources?

[apple24]

I feel empathy for you. It must suck to be a guy. But it suck even worse to be a human!

[XNicholeMariex3]

I worry for your brain :D

[Goldie757]

Most women do not laugh and cheer when a man's penis gets cut off. It's more like "that's one crazy bitch".

[Asker]

Yes they do.

[NormalUser]

Maybe, in your community / country, but it's few in mine..

[shephardjhon]

PROOF https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rYkuJXqLDkQ

[CHARismatic110]

Yeah, that's a load of bull.

[Asker]

No it isn't.

[Sexualchrist]

Closer to the truth than one might like to think.

[existing_not_living]

Lol, just another rant hating on females.