Here is the thing: women dont make sense at all, they want a guy who is funny, smart, easy to get along with, who has a good personality among about a million other things. But seriously none of these traits are even tangible at all. I mean if girls judged guys based on looks I could just look in the mirror and be like "Oh so thats why girls dont talk to me, because I am ugly, I have a big head or big ears" or whatever, but instead girls judge us based on all this other crap with "personality" being the thing every girl in the universe says. How do you look in the mirror and see the flaws with your personality? I mean if girls are going to descriminate against certain guys because of who that guy is, isn't that worse then discrimminating based on looks? At least in the case of looks the guy knows exactly why the girl doesn't like him, with personality you dont even know what she doesn't like. Is it the way you act? Or the way you carry yourself? Is it your sense of humor (or lack thereof), is it your temper she doesn't like? Or your lack of emotion? What is it? Its just so cruel to judge a guy based off of who he is as a person. They say beauty is subjective, and in a lot of ways it is, but almost all guys can agree on a good looking girl verses a bad looking girl, there might be some disagreement in the middle, but generally we can all agree if a girl is at least decent looking or not. Personality on the other hand, what makes a good personality? Being nice? Being a bad boy? Being charming? Who freaking knows. Things are easy when its just looks because you dont have to have a degree in rocket science to figure out the rest of it. Why can't women just be simple like guys and require the opposite gender to look good above all else? That would save a lot of people a lot of questions about understanding women.
Why can't women just prioritize looks when finding guys, like guys do in finding girls?
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