Do loyal girls exist?

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I mean the ones who will truly be loyal, not text someone who likes them or have a thing for them. who doesn't flirt and mess with other guys. Who can curve guys no matter what. Who can say no and tell them that she has a boyfriend, no matter how hard the guy is trying, no matter how attractive he is. Do they exist? True loyal wife material. I am dating this girl. And she seems like a loyal girl but it's so hard for me to trust people, because my ex hid stuff from me. The one I am dating now tells me everything but I still feel sometimes she lies to me.

vonasaurus · Accepted Answer

loyal woman exist; i am one, as are my closest friends.
i like to think that we aren't a rare breed.

i've been cheated on many, many times, and watched the men in my family do it to their wives. i learned at a young age that "husband material" didn't exist, and had no interest in marriage, for the simple fact that a ring on your my finger wouldn't be enough to keep him from straying... that said, if i still felt that way, i'd have missed out on life with an amazing guy.

your choice of venue determines the type of woman you'll attract. so, if you've been meeting women in clubs (for example), maybe try bookshops or special interest groups instead. the right person can help you work through your trust issues, though you have to be open to it~ it's scary at first, but it can be done.

good luck :)

-von

Charcicci · Accepted Answer

Yes there are definitely girl who are loyal. I could NEVER cheat on a guy I love and I that thought even crossed my mind I would know I was missing something in the relationship. Then I would either try to find out what and fix it, and if not possible I would break up.

fauchelevent · Accepted Answer

Meh, I flirt with my close friends, the same way my boyfriend does. I'd still say that I'm loyal because there's absolutely no way anything would ever happen. So yeah, they exist. Maybe it's your own trust issues, not anything your girlfriend is doing wrong.

Russ1000 · Accepted Answer

Keep that up and she is going to dump you, it gets old very quickly. Trust is a huge part of a relationship and should be given immediately, without it you have nothing and are just wasting time and causing undue heartache. If she does something to lose your trust, move on, she wasn't the one for you.

bryon · Accepted Answer

We have all been there and done that , but if you insist on carrying bad feelings into future relations you are the one doing the harm from the get go.

Anonymous · Answer

I shut down men when I'm in a relationship. I'm not mean, but I do not go there since I'd rather focus my flirtation or care towards my boyfriend. I get what you are saying, though, my ex hid stuff as well. But I don't judge every guy after him the same. People are different. But hopefully the one you are with can gain trust.

AleDeEurope · Answer

Ehh there are a few out there, if you're lucky, the girl you have now is one of those, but who knows, you just gotta try.

CHARismatic110 · Answer

Sure there is. But if you continue to have trust issues, then no girl will ever be loyal enough for you.

ChocoLada · Answer

Yes, we do exist, but there are only a few of us ;)

Goldie757 · Answer

There are plenty of loyal girls in the world. The problem is that you have trust issues.

takumii · Answer

Let me tell you something brother,  Girls are more loyal than boys, in general.

Glue-Sniffer · Answer

If she loves you and thinks you are being 100% honest with her yes. If you play games with her she'll be doing the same.

martyfellow · Answer

China is full of them... pretty rare in the USA, though.

natrueall · Answer

Definitely , I'm one of those to hurt every persons feelings except my baby 😩

Anonymous · Answer

No loyal girls do not exist. Women's love is conditional. You don't have x, y, z and they'll bounce on your ass so fast and then rationalize that decision through hamster/mental gymnastic to make themselves less superficial.

Anonymous · Answer

Heck yeah, for the right guy who has good intentions and integrity

Anonymous · Answer

Your current girl isn't your ex. Stop fighting with the past.

RedThread · Answer

Yes they do. It sounds like you're borderline paranoid about that stuff though..

Mailo · Answer

Tbh I never had a loyal girlfriend!! I was cheated on in five relations (I had seven)

annawilliams7198 · Answer

wow really. like there are soo many women out there who are loyal. You just can't trust anyone. I don't know why... but u should fix it

Anonymous · Answer

There are too many of them. Sucks because you have to spent more time to get in their pants and most of the time they want a romantic relationship😂

croxy · Answer

You shouldn't date if you're still affected by your exs actions like that

ArtDent · Answer

I would say no. Women are slaves to hypergamy and solipsism

Ofelia · Answer

Of course, loyal girls exist!!!

JoahZ10nT · Answer

Man are nor as loyal but woman they are more royal

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