Long story short, families are close, used to go to same primary school together, now we are both in year 9 at different high schools. I really like her, I am in love with her I swear it and I think she likes me too. Id take a bullet for her no joke I care about her so much, but I don't want to be embarresed. She apparently "needs to know", she still thinks we are "besties" but we only see each other a couple of times a year - which we go every year to a Christmas Eve dinner together (with a group of close family friends). You can read the full story here: https://www.girlsaskguys.com/relationships/q1878858-how-do-i-approach-my-close-childhood-friend-about-the-way-i-feel
This is the conversation we had recently.. She wants to know who I like. Should I tell her I like her?
After this I told her I would tell her, I can't handle it anymore. I told her I would tell her who I like (her) the next time I text her. We arranged for me to text her at 6:00pm TOMORROW becuase I was busy up until then (GETTING FEEDBACK FROM YOU GUYS!).
PLEASE HELP ME IM DESPEARTE I DONT WANT TO REGRET NOT TELLING FOR THE REST OF MY LIFE WONDERING HOW SHE GOT AWAY. PLEASE HELP ME.
She wants to know who I like, Should I tell her I like her?
I think you should tell her. If you're close, I feel like she would've just told you or mad something up, but the way she's responding it sounds like she wants to hear yours, probably hoping its her
Tell her you Iike her. What harm can it do? She may be very flattered that you like her.
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Don't i was in the same position a few months ago i regret it big time. Flirt with her more then ask her out, don;t teel her you like her because you'll still go nowhere and regret it.
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this isn't the first time we've texted. over the past month or so we've texted about 5-6 times considering we haven't seen each other. The convos go over 5-10 mins. The on we had thats in the post went for about 20 mins but i can't show the full thing because of identity and that stuff.
Yeah my point is only that you never, never tell her that you like her until you take things up a notch otherwise she'll find you needy. The better thing to do is sneak her into watching a movie with you or something and then put your arm around her and she'll get it. Essentially girls like it if you can talk to them with your body, right? :)
No. You messed up bro. She eventually said that she had a boyfriend because she got tired of it dragging on. One or two you tell me, no you tell me was enough. Let it go.
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