Why do some girls wear revealing clothes like these and complain when they get attentions from guys?

[Anonymous]

[Katerina_Belle]

These clothes aren't revealing, and we don't really dress like that for attention from guys at all. I personally like to dress sexy/cute/nice for myself and depending on the mood I am in, and that should not give any guy the right to be a right pervert.

However, that being said as girls we just need to get used to being looked at it but that doesn't mean guys have any right what so ever to think that we do that for them.

Mate... I don't spend a hour a trying to get my brows fleeky for some wasteman lol

[ThisAndThat]

Common sense says if you don't want to attract as you say perverts, then don't dress to attract perverts lol

[Asker]

@ThisAndThat This... Why don't you girls think modest clothing fashionable?

[Katerina_Belle]

@ThisAndThat No, common sense would say not to dress like a slut and I wouldn't describe the above images to grab anyones attention, except maybe the first one on the right.

[ThisAndThat]

But you know what grabs my attention? GIRLS DO! LOL no kidding I don't care how they dress either.

[LyssaNicole]

Those aren't even revealing haha! We don't mind getting attention but, just because we wear a short skirt doesn't mean we want to have sex with a guy. I don't understand some guys logic on that. They need to watch Amber Roses videos on that because she speaks the truth

[Katy16]

What would you call revealing then? 0_0

[LyssaNicole]

I'm not sure but I don't find those outfits paired revealing! If wear that kind of stuff with my parents

[Asker]

But what you are wearing in your profile pic is revealing to me though

[TheBraveLion]

I rep that!

[LyssaNicole]

@TheBraveLion lol what do you rep?

[TheBraveLion]

Haha it's from a song :p I agree with what you said! x

[Anonymous]

they complain but they like it when boy stare at them like this. they wear this kind of clothes for be noticing if boy doesn't stare at them they complain that they are gay and if they stare at them they call men pig.

[Asker]

I agree...

[Opinion Owner]

Thank you for the MHO :)

[Jrizzy]

Are you like ultra conservative or something?

[Opinion Owner]

@Jrizzy not really, why?

[Dave20154]

Simply put, the women who complain, are just immature, they know they're going to get attention because they're hoeing skin, but when they do, don't knowinghim to handle it, it's all about immaturity. They need to grow up

[Dave20154]

Showing*

Don't know how to*

[Opinion Owner]

@Dave20154 Yes, you have reason. No need to show your boobs for being pretty, it's just for getting noticed

[Asker]

Cannot agree more

[Opinion Owner]

thank you for understand and being agree with me :)

[fulloflife]

Cause they're not doing it to get attention. It's just how they dress which is really cute. there's a difference between dressing reveling to be cute and classy rather than dressing revealing to want attention

[Asker]

But don't they even take into consideration that they might get unwanted attentions when they put revealing clothes on?

[fulloflife]

No we just think about how this outfit is really cute. I'm gonna wear it today. Despite unwanted attention and cat calls

[Asker]

Then that's your fault. I don't think you have a right to complain about that because you lack thoughtful.

[fulloflife]

Well, i like the attention and I like wearing revealing clothes. So it works out for me

[Asker]

Good for you then

[fulloflife]

Yeah

[fulloflife]

U don't?
Why?

[Asker]

I'm just not into getting attentions in that way. I used to want any attentions but I got tried of it because most attentions were sexual lol Now I'd rather be loved emotionally

[fulloflife]

R u saying I'd rather not be emotionally loved?

[Asker]

Huh?

[fulloflife]

Nevermind

[ThisAndThat]

Hogwash!

[JRICHARDS1996]

I don't know. Similarly, why do women complain that guys never approach them and yet then when guys do, they call us "creepy" and complain about that? To be honest, I think that most women actually like the attention, but they also like to complain because it gains them even more attention as well.

[Words_and_Wisdom]

They're incongruent with themselves. They want to feel "sexy" but at the same time don't want to feel like a slut. They want to be noticed, but complain when they're approached.

[Asker]

Makes sense haha

[Words_and_Wisdom]

Thanks for MHO ^^

[Tdieseler]

Been asking that question for years and eventually had to come up with an answer myself... even women don't know why they do it... have no clue..
Do one thing, know exactly what they are doing but act like they don't.
Bottomline... they just want attention (1)... and (2).. to get More attention than other women... from other women AND men.

[Mesonfielde]

Because they aren't wearing it to have random creepy guys hit on them whom they don't know. Strangers are scary.

[Asker]

But don't they even take into consideration that they might get unwanted attentions when they put revealing clothes on?

[Mesonfielde]

The behavior of others is not their own responsibility. That's like saying if you get mugged, the reason behind it is that you were in the wrong place at the wrong time, and you shouldn't have gone there in the first place. You can't know that you'll be mugged, normally you shouldn't have to fear it either.

[Asker]

Mmm I personally feel like that can be a good reason though.

[Jrizzy]

Because we should be able to wear what we want and you should control yourselves. My wardrobe is not a license for guys to stare at me like a creep.

[Dim_121]

So why do you think that most guys can control themselves? It is something that has to be taught to them these days just like common sense needs to be taught now.

[Jrizzy]

@Dim_121 I don't know, maybe society is telling boys it's ok to stare? Or that they're gay if they don't? Either way I wish they'd stop😠

[Asker]

But don't you even take into consideration that you might get unwanted attentions when you put revealing clothes on?
If you really hate those attentions I hardly think you wear the kind of clothes

[Jrizzy]

I don't show my stomach at all. I wear skinny jeans and tshirts most of the time. guys don't stare at me like everyday because I'm not all that pretty but when they do its SOOO uncomfortable and creepy. It's just not something I want anyone to do no matter what I'm wearing

[Asker]

Okay then what you are stating is out of my point now. Thanks for your answer though

[ThisAndThat]

The by all means wear your stuff in at home behind your own walls lol.

[Jrizzy]

@ThisAndThat I know there's nothing I can do about it, but I still don't like it.

[ThisAndThat]

Every guy knows girls mean what they say in reverse.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4VQFvXkz-oQ

[Jrizzy]

@ThisAndThat well not me. If I tell you how I feel about something, then that's how I feel about it.

[Mochagoddess]

I don't find it revealing... so that being said a lot of us just don't find it revealing if my shoulder is showing or a bit of my midriff. We just don't see it like that. Simple

[Asker]

Oh really. Where are you living in

[Mochagoddess]

Pretty sure it has nothing to do with where I'm living. I live in Chicago. And I've been from the worst parts to the best and I've seen more "revealing" items of clothing then these chicks who have their... Not even their whole back its just slits. If its cute its cute. If they want to put it on and then play all hard to get or whatever when I guy hits on em... not really my business. They have their ways I have mine. They aren't dressing like they work on a corner... it looks like typical LA Cali girl wear. Where are you "living in" if i may ask?

[Ginnyweasley97]

Because they didn't dress to have creepy guys stare at them. And I really don't think that guys find shoulders sexually enticing but my county school board might disagree.

[Anonymous]

They complain when the guys they aren't attracted to approach them

And then feel flattered when the guys they think are hot approach them (that's when the girls in the revealing outfits don't complain... but go home with them and fck the guys brains out all night long)

[Juspham]

Its a fashion statement to them, not a way for them to guys crawling all over them

[Maxemeister]

Guys should be allowed to stare. Not grab booty. Not touch.

But then again if you're dressing to "look cute" for yourself then I don't understand you.

[jjmarvin]

They're really complaining about the amount or the aggressiveness of the attention. Sometimes the polite ones pay for it too, but mostly the negative ones.

[TripleAce]

They want attention just from the right guys/girls

[ThisAndThat]

Exactly they're living in a make believe world all others stay out.

[Bandit74]

The top left and bottom right dont seem revealing to me :/

[Asker]

I feel like the top left is too tight and the bottom right has no cover on shoulders and the only lace covers the collarbones so

[Bandit74]

I respectfully disagree.

[Asker]

Oaky

[Asker]

Okay*

[Anonymous]

'Cause girls would like to follow cool trends and dress how they want without being harassed. I don't think it's too much to ask.

[ThisAndThat]

If a chick's wearing something like that I'm noticing and I don't care how offended she gets, but we guys know the offence is make believe anyway.

[sicosico]

I wear them to kook sexy, I dont mind getting the attention as well

[truthhammer]

I always talked about this and pussy men falls back and stupid women attack me for it.

[Anonymous]

Because the guys they're complaining about are usually creepy or old.

[swampfawkes]

Because some girls are stupid

[TheSpartan]

Women are just weird.

[Anonymous]

Got me, it always makes me look because of that

[Anonymous]

They want attention but they will not admit it