It can be a lot of pressure for a woman. On one hand they want to get out and meet guys on the other... meeting up with strangers can be stressful & a big potential risk, not to mention you have to worry about the paying situation... offer or no? Then you have to worry about what he is expecting to happen psychically. Just thinking you may feel guilt-ed into doing something you don't really want to sexually is enough to just start over thinking everything. Then the idea of a date isn't fun anymore, it's a burden... and who wants that? Basically you psyche yourself out. I think if people discussed sexual stuff before hand and decided that nothing would happen on the first date, it would take a lot of those jitters away and less woman would flake but that's just my opinion.
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Either they're scared of meeting up because they don't know you too well , or. just playing with you for some reason
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