Am I snob, narcissistic, stuck up, full of myself, sadity, etc?

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So I am a 20yr old female and i think im extremelyyyyyy hot, beautiful, gorgeous, etc. Like i walk a certain way, as if i own the place, straight posture, nose to the sky, head held high, chest out, hips swaying, i dress reallly fancy, and everyone thinks im always "over dressed", but i feel like you can NEVER be OVER dressed, but thats just me, i have to look good EVERYWHERE I GO. i won't do certain things because i guess you can say that i think im too good, my vocab is up to par. i do have many friends and a boyfriend, i can say i have about 3-4 friends, but i consider them family, and all of them even strangers consider me a snob, stuck up, prima donna etc. the list goes on, i just want the finer things in life. it takes me about a good 2 hours to get ready, i'm literally always in the mirror, like a mirror is my BFF, a mirror isn't even bigger than my ego. everytime i pass by one its a must that i stop and look at myself. i can honestly walk into any public place and feel negative energy from girls that dont even know me, most of these females i dont even know ENVY ME and want to be me (even my own "bff"). i can TOTALLY say that, when it comes to me, i can honestly see NO competition with ANYONE. i won't talk to certain people because of the way they dress and act. like if someone thats not on my level talks to me i say things like "why are you talking to me?" or just completely ignore them. on a daily basis i say things like "who's hotter than me?, none of you females have shit on me, im always on my shit, get out of my face, you're not on my level and never will be, im that b*tch" etc, i also flip my hair a lot, my hair is always done. i won't argue with ANYONE thats not on MY level. I think EVERY highly of myself. i take selfies/full body pictures of myself EVERYDAY to remind everyone who that b*tch is and so they can hate (: like if i can get paid for taking pictures of myself id be a BILLIONAIRE ! i literally get compliments everywhere i go and i loveee it.

AnonGuy99 · Accepted Answer

Self Confidence is a great thing. And is sadly something that too many people lack. However you are far beyond that. In short yes you are extremely conceited. Some apparently find that attractive. I personally think its extremely ugly. Physical beauty is only skin deep and you are a prime example of that. A lot of men and women may check you out but once they got to know the real you they would most likely find you extremely ugly.

You also have yourself set up to be let down romantically. As it sounds that (in your mind) no one, male or female can come close to you and you better them in every way. You will always consider yourself way out of your partners league (if you'll allow yourself to "settle" for them that is). That will also most likely lead to your partner feeling a number of negative feelings in their relationship with you. And that will ultimately lead to breaking up or divorce.

To sum it up, you are NOT the hottest girl in all the land. Not by a long shot. I dont need to see a picture of you to know that. Your shallow and conceited mentallity puts you among the ugliest. But even without that mentallity you would still not be the hottest. As you apparently have yet to learn.. "Different strokes for different folks"
As media acts like skinny flat chested women are hot.. To even be considered for a a super model position a girl has to have ribs popping out of her skin and hip bones that can cut glass. Myself and most other real people would find this type of woman unhealthy and unattractive. Then some people prefer girls like Beyonce or Jennifer Anniston.. A small step up from those super models... in my opinion. I prefer healthy women. Women that have curves, not fat.. But curvy and thick. Nice chest, semi small waist (maybe a small belly) with wide hips and a nice butt.. And short, maybe 5ft or a bit taller. Everyone is different. Your idea of hot can be wildy different from everyone elses.

Also if you treat your "friends" like they are ugly trash compared to you. You're not a real friend.. And if they think you're a conceited b*tch.. Well guess what.. They probably aren't real friends either. Sounds more like acquaintances that put up with each other for whatever reason.. Maybe popularity?

It sounds like you're probably still just a kid in school.. High school maybe. My advice to you is to learn to see the beauty in people. You will eventually learn beauty comes in all shapes and sizes. And So does ugly.

roxy_362 · Accepted Answer

Wow! You created the Worldwide Manifesto of Vanity, congratulations! I don’t know if you wrote all this seriously, or just wanted to elicit some reactions. However, either way, the more troubling outcome seems to be the number of replies that play along with the main theme of superficiality.

Assuming you wrote this post seriously, I hope you realize that there are many men and women who are attractive, but choose rather to leave a trace in the world through the good they do, rather than their looks, over which they had no control to begin with when they were born… Just like none of us chooses his/her sex, genetic makeup, ethnicity, color, etc., we also do not choose the most part of our outward appearance. The choice comes in when we want to deliver reward or punishment for things that cannot be controlled, as opposed to things that result from our free will.

Yes, humans are weak, and they generally respond quite favorably to physical beauty. Yet, any physical beauty is only 20-25 years away from fading and falling out of favor, if not earlier out of an unforeseen accident…

So, while they are still alive, those who think they own the world out of something so ephemeral as beauty (but also not to forget money, power, or other similar temptations) still have the chance to make a choice about things that really matter, and make a positive impact in the lives of others beyond their own ego…

At the end, there always is a choice… Do we want to fool ourselves, thinking that the universe revolves around us, and then join the millions of indispensable (!) people who lived before us, but filling the cemeteries now? Or, grow up beyond vanities and help changing something, anything, for the better, no matter how small?

Gryffindorl0ver · Accepted Answer

Hmm it matters very little what we feel it matters how you feel about YOU. Now seeing as you posted this I would have to say that I believe that you must have a little bit of insecurity and be one to all of what you mentioned and just because you get dirty looks from women in public doesn't mean right away that they envy you...

It means you may be putting on that body language of well yeah I'm better than you so I mean if someone is around me that I don't know if they aren't smiling at me or being friendly they will get the same look from me of why you gotta be so rude lol.

But it's great so have good self confidence good you have that but you can use that in a better way rather than be OMG I don't wanna sound rude or mean myself but I can't think of the word but basically bitchy to the others lol.

I know some confident people but they aren't like well I'm better than you. I wouldn't want to be around someone who feels they are better than I am. Like you said even friends are telling you how you act.

So like I said awesome for the self confidence really. But maybe tone it down a bit so people can really see the beautiful person you are.

Beauty shines through.

AidaRoma · Accepted Answer

This type of outlook on how you view yourself is a mask. A mask that covers some deep rooted issue. I've met a number of narcissists, and they lack empathy, compassion and humility. Chances are you're beautiful, smart etc. It's important to love yourself but where do you draw the line. I believe we're all here for a purpose, and I can tell you using your gifts to worship yourself is not the answer. And it will only end badly. The good news is you have an awareness of your behavior and how it affects other people. Most narcs don't believe there is anything wrong with them. Two of the narcissists I know have had difficult relationships with family and friends because of their abuse, and their out of touch fantasy world. One is an alcoholic, and he has tarnished his relationship with his children. Sadly, he never takes responsibility for his actions. And he uses people for his own gain. mainly, because of what you stated, he feels he's superior to others. Get help as soon as you can. Find something bigger than you... so you can gain some humility.

CHARismatic110 · Accepted Answer

I wasn't going to feed the troll, but why not? There's a fine line between confidence and cockiness. You've completely obliterated that line. Flew right through it. You may very well be a beautiful, hot, gorgeous girl like you say. But your attitude is horrendous. Humility. Find some. ASAP. You're welcome.

IronicallyInnocent · Accepted Answer

This is literally the definition of Narcissistic Personality disorder, and I would highly recommend for you to seek medical attention. www.mayoclinic.org/.../con-20025568

Oh, FYI, if you where that perfect, you wouldn't make so many punctual/spelling mistakes.

WhiteSteve · Answer

Well, I mean, I was with you through the vanity part, I'm pretty vain too. Not so much as I think I'm better than anyone, but I'm very focused on how I look when I leave the house. I'm a million years old, so I don't take too many selfies, haha. But you gotta chill with the "I'm better than you" attitude, and not associating with people who you don't think are on your level. My best friends these days aren't "on my level" in that regard either, but they're still ride or die dudes, even if they aren't on some prettyboy shit. Being narcissistic is one thing, being sadity/sediddy (did we ever decide on an official spelling for that?😂) and snobby is a bad look on anyone, regardless of their physical beauty. It's cool to be confident in yourself, and even use your looks to your advantage where you can, but you have to treat people right or everyone will just think you're an asshole, and that gets you nowhere, regardless of how many likes you get on Instagram. Be confident, but stay grounded. Remember there's always someone badder than you out there, in whatever area you hold yourself in high esteem.

MrMuffinMan · Answer

Your so vane I am not even sure if this is a real question. One way or another, you look like this.

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Sooner or later you will realize that you are a mere mortal and regress into a state of either disappointment, degeneracy or delusion. If for no other reason, do you think you are going to be conventionally beautiful when you are 80?

I used to be like you, I based all my self-worth on how others saw me and thought I was a God. Then I woke up and realized how wrong I was. In the real world there will always be people that are better than you. Virtue of 7 billion other people out there. Think about it, are you realistically ever going to be Jackie Siegel, Madonna, Giesel Bundchen or even Pamela Anderson? The answer is no because your so obsessed with yourself that you don't have the sense to make good use of your short-lived youth to even attempt to make the smart business decisions to get you there. In order to get anywhere in life it takes brains, using whatever you have been dealt to maximize your chances at winning the pot.

mrmog · Answer

I find girls like this just hot.

But think of one thing when you talk about "your level". Do you think Einstein would be your level when you would have met him randomly anywhere? Without his obsession with maths GPS would not work. Emmy Noether did not look well and probably was not fun, but without women like her quantum physics that run the micro chips you send and read messages with would not exist. Most of the guys and girls that invent big machines to build cars, streets, fridges, houses, and more surely ain't your level. But we're all lucky they exist.
Don't call yourself bitch. Make all those smart people being your bitches. Many smart people love to use their brains to bring comfort to the life of a hot girl ;)

MaiNameIsSunshine · Answer

Go out without your makeup and fancy clothes then you'll see that you are not actually a confident ass bitch but your makeup altar ego is. The fact that you went anon to post this suggests that you are really not as confident as you say you are so it seems like more of a facade. As for being a narcissist, maybe, I mean you do recognize you may be a little on the crazy side which is something narcissists struggle to do. You should try to get a better attitude because you will do poorly in the world if you can't treat people well. Also, I is always capitalized when speaking of oneself and it's I'm not im.

Also, I think you are probably trolling, one can only hope society isn't this screwed over.

loveisbeautiful · Answer

Is this for real or you just trying to test everybody, to see how they handle people like this? Because, on this site you never know. If you are actually like that, I suggest you take yourself down a few pegs because one day life's gonna give you the rudest awakening there is when you find the right situation or wrong person to show you, acting like that is not okay.

I don't know you and I don't judge people I don't know but if you truly are how you describe yourself, I'd say you do think highly of yourself but that's not something I'd be bragging about or proud of. I don't know how old you are, but if you're young wait until you get a job or a career and try acting like that, see what happens. I can promise you won't be to happy with the results. Confidence is good but a little humbleness, has never hurt anyone.

BCRanger10 · Answer

Based on this, it sounds like you are. It's perfectly fine to value your appearance and think that you're pretty and beautiful, but you've taken it to an extreme here.

Yes, you can be overdressed sometimes. If I'm a supervisor and I'm interviewing someone for a job, I want them in a suit and tie (for men) or a clean professional dress (for women). If they come to my office dressed like they were going to prom, I'd tell them to leave because I would look at that as "you're mocking me and my organization."

It's definitely not good that you dismiss people who speak and think differently than you do. It's also not good that you, based on your own words, seem to set out to make people hate you.

Honestly, I really don't know why thinking this way is so appealing to you. Or anyone for that matter.

fueledbythc · Answer

After reading that, I suddenly had a huge craving to crush your ego. It's disgusting. You're probably a troll saying this as most guys I know would never give a girl with an attitude like that even a second of their time or any respect.

Like one time I saw an open seat on the skytrain and noticed I competed with a girl who fits that description in your question. She gave me a look like I needed to be a gentleman and give her the spot because she's good looking. I ingored her and she just stood there the whole time looking at me.

That being said I've given spots to elderly and people who looked like they needed the spot more than me but if you're an able body human being im racing you to that spot. No female privilege for females.

LaikaFreefall · Answer

What about when you're old? :( Old people can be cute sometimes, but if how you value yourself and others is through your looks,. you won't be shit once you're like... 40. Which by most standards is still somewhat young. But the best you'll be able to hope for is "milf" status. Or "pretty hot, for a housewife/mom/older lady/etc."

I'm not judging you too harsh right now, I'm legitimately concerned for you... Your life is not a life I could live, even if I was a very attractive and well groomed female. It's not a life I'd want (but to each their own I suppose, right?)

MaskedSanity · Answer

>claims to be an ultra confident narcissist >posts as anon >no pics provided

bluenose1872 · Answer

You sound like a nightmare from hell to be honest. You've got all the worst parts of humanity down to a tee

maryem · Answer

Yeah you're obviously narcissistic and self absorbed. Enjoy it while it lasts and try to treat people a little more nicely for your own sake. Not all people are good looking, but all of them are capable of doing terrible things, so be careful.

Goldie757 · Answer

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Jersey2 · Answer

Uggg perhaps this isn't a troll... If not, good for you, and in many ways I mean that. Just know though that I see smoking hot women quite often in certain places, kind of a dime a dozen. You have about ten to fifteen years max of that and then onto milf/cougar status so make a plan for the second half of your life before you get to caught up in the mirror.

aliceinwonderland69 · Answer

Yes you are a narcissist. Even I have more than four friends and I'm an introvert. Now post a pic so we can rip you to shreds.

kaylaS91 · Answer

To answer your question, yes. Yes, you seem nothing but narcissistic, stuck-up, full of yourself, etc..

poopedmypantsagain · Answer

Well there is nothing wrong with a person carrying themselves.. but the way you you talk about yourself.. sounds like no one is good enough for you or will even come close.. and based on all that you typed.. yes you are just what you asked

Steelcore1085 · Answer

You sound like a fucking twat. Yeah, I would never want to even be around you. The fact that there are so many women like you also disgusts me. Some guys may find it hot, but a lot of us guys find it to be a turnoff. You're never gonna find a guy who's decent with that shitty attitude.

Enjoy being alone.

CoolSky01 · Answer

narcissistic? maybe , A bitch? yes indeed, you are the literal defition of a bitch congratulation if thats your goal , kids this is what you avoid.

Anonymous · Answer

Sounds Like You're Stuck Up, Self Centered, Shallow, Egotistical, Conceited Bitch.
You Really Believe Most Females That See You Envy You And Want To Be You Whether They Know You Or Not And You Think You're Better Than Everyone Else?
You Need A Reality Check And Get Over Yourself.

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