So girls what would make you give a guy the silent treatment?
Should I just confront her
I give people the silent treatment only if they really hurt my feelings of we had a fight or something. Like lets say there's a guy i like and he likes me. We talk a few times and maybe even go out. But then te guy start ignoring me for a few weeks and then suddenly wants to contact me again. That makes me give the silent treatment:) We do it because we know guys hate that but we only do it when we think they deserve it. Sure there are girls who might be wrong. Some are right.
In your case, she might have met someone else during break or found out something about you she doesn't like (like flirting with other girls etc). I might be wrong, but it's just what i think. Does she ever glance at you or something really quickly? Or does her face change when you enter the room?
Whenever I come in she will glance at me once then go back to pretending Im not there. If were with a group a people. If were alone together we will talk but she doesn't laugh at my jokes like she use to. She acts all serious around me now when were alone.
It's funny you mentioning the guy ignoring you in that I realize we had long texting conversations before but I would say she initiated 60% of the convos. Maybe that could be a reason.
Hmm.. to me it sounds like she's mad at you or something... Perhaps she heard something bad about you (that isn't true)? That might have gotten her mad. I think the best thing to do is talk to her about it. Ask her why she has been acting like this.
She might have heard something about you, anything, that may or may not be true. Ask her about it. Sometimes we might give you the silent treatment to avoid fighting, or maybe we may feel like there is nothing else to do, or most importantly that talking to you about something won't do anything- you won't understand or be cooperative. I've never had a boyfriend to do that to but since a lot of people I know have an assumption of me and never give me a chance to explain myself or listen to the words I say- I just stay silent, and especially when I'm mad at a family member. It's a feeling of helplessness and giving it up somewhat
It's weird because she acts like Im not there but will give the occasional glance when I say something then look away pretending not to listen. We use to be pretty close now... The only thing I could think of that might have pissed her off is I never asked her out.
Otherwise Im just planning to ask her if I did something to offend her.
Good idea
Silent treatment is usually about frustration, hurt, and inability to communicate. Instead of confrontation maybe use an empathetic approach. Could just be she's upset over something or she's not interested anymore but doesn't know how to express it.
Because they are too passive, cowardly and/or immature to talk about their emotions openly to the guy of interest.
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