Why do women constantly sabotage their female friend's relationships and post break up encourage them to be sluts?

[Anonymous]

It's just something i notice with girls and their friends. Their friends will try to sabotage the relationship either by getting the boyfriend to cheat on her with them or play mental games
on her encouraging her to eventually break up with her man.

Some fun mental games:
1. Making her think her man is cheating on her.
2. Looking for signs for weaknesses or problems in the relationship and then blowing it out of proportion for why she should not put up with it and leave him.
3. Using any transgression the boyfriend did in the past or current as reason to paint him as a bad boyfriend.
4. If the boyfriend realize that these bitches are trying to sabotage the relationship and limit off contact they would play he's too controlling card.

And once your back on the dating market they'll encourage you to go out and mingle and sleep with tons of guys to get over her ex.

[swampfawkes]

Women do not want other women to be happy when they are not happy themselves. Also women do not want other women to be happy when they are happy becuase it makes them even more happy to see how much more happy they are when thier friends are not happy. In short most women can be pretty awful people, petty, selfish, and manipulative. All of my best relationships have functioned on the principal of treating the woman like she is a child. She wakes up and screams because the toilet seat is up, she's not really mad about the toilet seat, she's ornery because she hasn't woke up all the way and she does have the emotional maturity to channel her emotions in a positive way, make her some coffee she'll be fine lol

[JohnDoe3000]

When her female friends do this it's because they're jealous of her happiness, jealous that she, not one of them, got to be with you, or they really don't like you and think you're bad/not good enough for her. I think this only happens in a minority of relationships.

[musicbrain5]

Every woman does this? Since when? I stay out of my friends' relationships as they are none of my damn business.

Sounds like this happened to you and you're just mad about it.

[Asker]

"Sounds like this happened to you and you're just mad about it."

No this hasn't happened to me. Just something I've observed having female friends and then talk to other guys about who had girlfriends and said they did the same thing.

[musicbrain5]

Then your female friends are dumbass bitches and your friends are dating girls who are immature and can't think for themselves. That doesn't mean we're all like that.

Do you think there aren't guys who do the same shit, talking badly about their friend's girlfriends? Because there are. There's guys out there who tell their friends to break up with a girl because they think there's something off about her based on what he says about her.

[Asker]

I'm sure there are guys out there but for the most part

when a Boy have a girlfriend none of his male friends care about his relationship and whats going on between them unless something big comes up that effect that guy and his friends only when he ask for it himself then they will talk and try to fix and help.

but Girls , they just talk about almost everything from the first date , first kiss, first sex, all the sex they have together and all of the things that boy does, which most of them are private and girls think that they are just good friends for sharing such information.

the result of all these talks and telling each other everything is that they will stick their nose in their friend life and never get it out.

[musicbrain5]

Personally I don't believe it's appropriate to talk about those things with friends. Women who do that have ZERO respect for their partners or their privacy.

[fauchelevent]

I have never known any woman to do this with me or any other girls.

[zombiebabe]

only B****y girls would do that... no need to generalize

[AlwaysAGoodDay]

I don't think it's really nice to generalize women like that lol. You should be more clear about the fact that you understand this isn't a behavior all girls participate in. If a lady made a similar post and said all guys I'm sure it would be pretty offensive to guys that know we wouldn't do such things.

[monorprise]

its funny but its true, many women seem to have the attitude that if they are not happy nobody else can be happy so they try to tear everyone else down. Our cultural leaders have been encouraging this idea with popular memes like " mommy not happy nobody is".

When its really just women being extremely selfish and in the case of her friends jealous. This is why if your married or want to be never hangout with divorced or single people.

[Kkaos]

I don't know man, definitely not all women are like that. The video's pretty funny I remember watching it ages ago but it's more looking at a stereotype. It's usually a girl who has slutty friends who will get jealous and try and mess up her relationship and then encourage her to be a slut like them afterwards...

[ZenithDawn]

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[LaVilaine]

I have never done this nor have I ever seen this done. It sounds like the only knowledge of female interpersonal relationships you have is from porn.

[Tdieseler]

hehe, the female support group train. Those bad girl friends whose solution to every relationship problem is "he is just a jerk, just dump him, you deserve better, you are too good for him" lol... dorks.

[Ace757]

You’re right, think about it. A successful relationship is tough and a small percentage of the population succeed. Sabotage, misery loves company. It’s also funny that girls on here are getting pissed/denying/attacking. Hint:cause it’s true. People reveal themselves eventually and it can be tough when you’ve been investing in them. If they want to join the circle of misery let them. Find your queen that’s smart enough to see through it!

[anonman32]

many women do this. they are never gonna tell you though. there is strong competition amongst women in the social hierarchy.

[selphie1984]

I have never done that and what do you know? I'm a women!

[slimstiffy]

Only bona fide bitches do that mann.
You shouldn't date girls who are friends of bitches

[ModernDayCrusader]

I hate these bitches, my last 2 relationships have had similar symptoms.

[chintita]

any friends who do that aren't proper friends

[GreatnessRevamped]

Misery loves company.