My crush has a short temper with me, what does this mean?

[Anonymous]

I don't understand. I didn't do anything know as far as I can tell, she just snapped at me. What do I do? What does this mean?

[justbanANNAz]

I dont mean to be rude, but id like to warn u. This is easily one of the most difficult personality traits to deal with. there's no proper explanation for it except that this is who they are. If her positives outweigh this, then you'll have to live with it. If not, u dont deserve that treatment and must leave.

[Asker]

This is the first time this has happened? I am really concerned for her. I really like her, and she has been open and kind to me for a while now. All of a sudden this happened. I honestly don't think it's part of her character, but I am not sure anymore.

[cloudyybliss]

Is she like that when it comes to you only? Maybe, she was just having a bad mood. girls have a lot of mood switches, you know. And even though, we don't want to snapped or shout at someone, we just do due to our moods.

[Asker]

I think it might be just towards me, but I am not sure. Its been happening for a week. I have kept asking her what I did wrong, and asking why is she angry at me. She has given me nothing so far. Last time I talked to her, I asked her how was her day was and she told me: its none of your damn business. After she has been consistently ignoring me.

[cloudyybliss]

Well, that's complicated and hard for you. I know what it feels to be ignored by your "crush" but i never experienced it. I just know. Anyway, i do think that maybe she doesn't want to talk to you or maybe she has some issues with you like she likes someone and thought that you guys are a thing and the likes but that's just a guess. Girls can be really rude sometimes but most of the time they don't mean it but everyone is different and im not really sure what to tell since i do not know her. If she can't answer you properly, try asking her friends if they have any idea why she is acting like that to you.

[Rock_Steakface]

Couldn't say without any context. Perhaps you offended her somehow, maybe she was having a shitty day, who knows? But if it was completely out of nowhere, she could be crazy. And if she's crazy, you need to get out while you've still got all your body parts attached.

[Asker]

Its been happening for a week now.

[Rock_Steakface]

Well, I won't presume anything about your situation. But I WILL tell you that you shouldn't let her treat you like that, crush or not. As a buddy of mine says: "Those aren't feelings, those are lies your dick is telling to you!"

Don't take that kind of treatment. Either stand up for yourself or, if you want a peek at my personal playbook: ghost her. Don't say shit, just stop talking to her altogether. It'll let you clear your head and ask yourself some important questions about what you're willing to tolerate.

[Asker]

Okay. I guess I will give that a shot. Thank's for input.