I've never felt so disrespected in my life. How can she do this to me?

[Theproman50]

I've never felt so disrespected in my life. How can she do this to me? Girl for 2 years dumped me. I became clingy and she knew she had me on a string the past few months. She broke it off because she lost attraction she said. So now she finds small reasons to text me and I ignore them for a few hours so it can get her thinking about me and gain attraction.. she texted me at 7:30pm yesterday, I ignored it, then 30 mins later she said "said okay cool..". Because I was still ignoring her. Then texted me at 9:30pm saying "I'm blocking your number and never talking to you again" I replied a few mins after saying sorry I'm busy, then answered her question she asked me at 7:30. She said "too late, your getting blocked, don't try messaging me any other way". I said it's fine do what you need to do. But it didn't go through because she blocked me. I I know she's sooo immature. But does she want me back? She's obviously hurt. And she dumped me but texts me randomly... So what's the deal here? I'm trying to build attraction so we can get back. Any tips? This hurt me a little. Update: this happened 3 days ago, I just noticed today that she went out of her way to block me on Instagram. That's where we usually talk when things like this happen. What the hell... Why she do that?

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Obviously the only choice is to move forward. Id take this girl back if she wanted to make her intentions clear. But just asking this question to get a reasoning to why she's like this.

[thattallchick]

Honestly, this is the same thing my ex would do, he dumped me and he would still text me and get mad if I didn't reply but he wouldn't block me on anything he just would get upset if I replied late. This is a sign they miss talking to you everyday and it means they still love you and they can't let go what y'all had. I know it seems crazy because she blocked you, I honestly don't know why she would but she's probably embarrassed that she dumped you or regrets that she did so she makes it seem like she doesn't wanna talk to you anymore but in reality it's her feelings telling her she needs him and him being you in this situation.

[Theproman50]

Damn. Honestly the best answer I've ever got. This makes sense. She blocked me so she feel like she has the power. I'm the one blowing off her texts and stuff so she wants to feel equal I'm guessing. You think so?

[thattallchick]

yes you are right, she's telling you she will block you and stuff just so you would answer her back. She misses you and it's killing her when you don't reply. But since she already blocked you, I would just let her be for now, focus on yourself and when times comes maybe you'll talk about it but right now, you shouldn't be talking to your ex a couple days after you broke up, you need to heal and regain your feelings for someone else out there.

[Theproman50]

This is what I wanted to hear. This sounds completely right. We've been broken up for like 2-3 weeks now. Just recently (past few days) she's been messaging me and trying to talk. So I've recovered much, I feel better and happier. But I wouldn't mind having her back. Maybe I should reach out in the next few days? Or should I let it be and let her come to me? (Idk if she would) maybe.

[thattallchick]

well it sounds like you are recovered now and feel good about you and have no worries so if you want, I would text her to see how she's been as well! I bet she would be happy to talk

[thattallchick]

and I kinda need help to because my ex and I are talking now after a 2 month breakup and we ask each other how we are and stuff but sometimes if I don't reply fast he gets upset and idek what this could mean, shouldn't he not care if I don't text back as fast if we aren't together?

[Theproman50]

Yeah too bad I'm blocked though... I'll find a way to message her. I'll let her cool for another day or 2 and then do it. Girls man. So confusing

[Theproman50]

I've had that problem. He cares about you a lot and in my opinion he probably has trust issues with you. When I did that, I was worried my girl was doing something she shouldn't be doing.

[thattallchick]

ahaha yes girls are confusing but so are guys lol. but yes you should wait a couple days and see what happens and if not, then just keep focus on yourself.

[thattallchick]

yeah maybe he thinks I'm talking to someone else when I don't reply fast and it hurts him because maybe he just wants to talk to me?

[Theproman50]

Yeah he just wants to talk to you. Sounds like your not very interested in him though

[thattallchick]

I miss him lot, thats why. Hurts me that we talk everyday because i miss having that love between us all the time. Sad to seem how time goes by and it seems like nothing ever happened.

[Theproman50]

Yeah it sucks. My ex girlfriends favorites on Twitter are "this whole time I loved you, you didn't feel the same" and stuff like that.. Like I was the one who did this. I kinda implied it but didn't mean for it to go this way. She went straight out and blocked me on everything possible. Hate this lol

[thattallchick]

it really does suck, and the worst part is, our parents don't like each other :/ but we both have love for each other. and dang maybe she wants you to see that she favorites those things.

[xxbebosxx]

you did ignore her and became clingy that she lost feelings towards you

[Theproman50]

She lost feelings while dating me. We ended it and I decided to act the opposite to attract her back to me. and it backfired

[xxbebosxx]

nothing you can do about that

[Theproman50]

Yeah. Just wondering what's her reasoning for blocking me and stuff like that

[MrNameless]

Don't play stupid games man. If you like her, text her back. If you don't see a future, don't.

Games will only ensure it will never happen, have her do the same thing, and piss everyone off.

[Theproman50]

She plays stupid games. I'm at a point where I gave up. Towards the end of the relationship, I was wasting my time. I was clingy and she lost complete attraction. She told me she didn't want a relationship because college starting next year. We went no contact in August and she got led on by another guy and had sex with him. She came running back to me. Maybe you can justify your answer now

[Anonymous]

Lol you so beta. You failed her shit test son.

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[Theproman50]

How? I didn't try messaging her or anything. I left it as it was

[Opinion Owner]

Yes you did.

"she texted me at 7:30pm yesterday, I ignored it, then 30 mins later she said "said okay cool..". Because I was still ignoring her. Then texted me at 9:30pm saying "I'm blocking your number and never talking to you again" I replied a few mins after saying sorry I'm busy, then answered her question she asked me at 7:30."

Now she knows your still her beta bitch. Should of never broken your resolve. Showing women weakness mean they'll lose total respect for you.

[Theproman50]

She texted me asking me a question. I ignored it, she texted me again. Ignored it. She told me she was fed up and said she was blocking me. I THEN responded saying i was busy. She said "idc I'm doing it anyways"

[Opinion Owner]

Exactly. You responded. You basically straight up broke NC to respond and give a reason for why you weren't answering her. Thereby showing her you are still her submissive bitch and scared of losing her.

If u wanted to piss her off more you would have Ignored her threat of blocking you. Hell, you wouldn't even be checking your phone and would have blocked her first.

[Theproman50]

I didn't go NC, I still had slight convos with her every time she texted me. Last time I went NC, she was so hurt she hooked up with another guy ha

[FakeName123]

Even if she wants you back - do you really want her back after what happened?

[Theproman50]

True. if she wanted to change her ways I would but you're deff right. I'm young and in a small town where there's not many good girls. This is like the only good girl lol

[FakeName123]

You planning on staying in that town? If not, then there is no reason to just settle for some rotten compromise.

[Princeofanons]

Time to move on bruh. No point in dwelling over this

[Theproman50]

Yeah obviously. I asked the question so I can get a reason on why she's acting like this?

[animus1988]

she's trying to make her submissive little cuckold. classic cuckold relationship you are describing

[Theproman50]

Yeah I feel it lol. Too bad I ain't Falling for it. Still don't know what her intentions are.

[animus1988]

her intentions are to turn you into a cuckold that she can boss around. google cuckolding a lot of girls have this feitsh where they like being the dominant ones in the relationships with bitchy attitudes making the calls. when she realized you werent gonna be her submissive little bitch she could boss around anymore she got mad and blocekd you

[Daynada]

@animus1988 you seem like such an instigator. Maybe he blocked her on social media. You never know. You don't know the whole story here. It's one sided. Ok.

[animus1988]

@Daynada nah im scene this before. this a textbook cuckold relationship here

[Daynada]

Whatever