Women are not attracted to nice guys or shy guys with no confidence, don't believe me?

[Anonymous]

that's the proof and i have even more evidence.

[ekc8295]

Yeah, because a few hundred examples of shitty people is reflective of the other 3 billion people. Even if 300 million women are horrible people, that's still less than 0.1% of the female population.

Furthermore, people with no confidence are not very appealing. Why would anybody want a person without any confidence or self esteem? That's just exhausting to deal with. If you can't be bothered to work on fixing your own problems, why should I?

And "nice guys" who think they deserve a relationship on the sole basis that they are nice people have no understanding of how relationship actually work. Being nice is a basic quality that most people meet. The guys you think that are dicks that women are dating are usually guys who are nice but have shit days where they act like dicks sometimes. You just choose to look at their occasional shitty behavior.

Women who actually date people who are really shitty human beings are not women any normal, healthy person should want to date anyway. They have some issue that leads the to date or stay with an asshole. They probably make poor decisions or have low self confidence. They are just as incapable of having a healthy relationship as the shitty guys they date. That's not someone you should be with.

[supernerd99]

dont bring logic to the subject. lol. yeah as most women say "i'm not his mother or his therapist". sounds cruel but is true. if you have issues to solve, do it yourself and find a woman later. god he can even find a woman that she will nurture him and accept him the way he is (yse even those exist), but he can't meet any of thos from his basement. he should get "out there"... .

[udolipixie]

Women are not attracted to nice guys or shy guys with no confidence, don't believe me?
That's not proof those are memes. Graphic images anyone can slap words on are not proof of a claim.

Women are not a hive mind and generally differ on tastes. Some gals aren't attracted to nice guys/shy guys with no confidence. Some gals are attracted to nice guys/shy guys with no confidence.

More likely the gals you want aren't attracted to nice guys/shy guys with no confidence.

[Asker]

Unbeatable proof https://youtu.be/tMrLGmr4bk8

[udolipixie]

Again that's not proof. One video is not proof about a claim on the general female population. Using a miniscule sample is delusional and skewed.

[Hopefuldreamer8]

As someone with social anxiety, I prefer the shy type. We relate to each other better. He'd also understand why I don't like going to parties or social events all the time. I don't mind sometimes, but most of the time it's too stressful. I'm just happy with people I am comfortable with and going to places I am comfortable with.

[ShaunaM95]

That's the most stupidest "proof" I've ever seen in my life lol. I dated the shyest guy in my course at college for two years so you are wrong, women can be attracted to shy or nice guys.

[Asker]

Thank you, adore you then, you are a hero for guys like me :)

[Asker]

now this proof is unbeatable https://youtu.be/tMrLGmr4bk8

[ShaunaM95]

Ok I literally just said in my opinion that I dated the shyest guy in my course at college for two years. Solid proof that women are attracted to shy and/or nice guys.

It just seems like to me that you are obsessed with finding proof that girls aren't attracted to them.

[Asker]

Well i guess some are attracted to us, others aren't, thank you for your time and contribution to my investigation.

[JohnDoe3000]

Actually you didn't provide evidence, but what you said is true. The lesson you can learn is to not be a shy guy: social skills can be learned.

[Asker]

nope, i can learn to be more social but shyness is something you can't get rid of.

[JohnDoe3000]

Yes you can, you just need some successes to give you confidence. Luckily these successes don't have to be with girls: getting a bunch of extraverted guys at a bar to see you as a fun, cool dude already does wonders to help you become less shy. Note that I said less shy, not the most popular guy in the world, but every bit helps.

[ibodi]

I try to breakthrough the first step ”How are you?” for men.
It is so complex nowadays
like edge of tomorrow.

[BiscuitesSwag]

Guys who call themselves "nice guys" = homosapiens of male sex who haven't killed anybody yet and think that because of this they deserve a badge and the hottest girl they could find in the world without making any effort to see her as actually a human being.

[HappySquarePants]

I 100% agree.

[danayla43ver]

I'm a girl my opinion is that all that is bs thats one thing that I fell for the most in my boyfriend is how shy and quiet he was at first it made him unique

[Asker]

Yeah and we are very sweet and nice, girls have to be crazy to not like that.

[danayla43ver]

Yea exactly most shy guys have a really good heart and its cute I dont see why not

[LoveHolyGod]

I think that if a girl is a nice girl, she wants a nice guy. If you are looking for a girl who is trying to do not so relationship type things, like partying all the time, then she may not want a nice guy because they won't match. There are nice females out there, hopefully one you are attracted to because not all attractive females want to use their looks to party, in my opinion. If the nice girl is not pursued by the nice guy, then yes she will get discouraged with him because women and men both know that men are the natural pursuers so we expect them to either pursue or not. If they pursue, we are at liberty if we want to to reciprocate and the relationship can further if they do not pursue, most women will realize they are not that interested and try to move on.

[Asker]

Why do i have to be the pursuer?

[LoveHolyGod]

It is natural, if you are not the girl might slip away

[Asker]

Then i'm not a real man because i'm shy?

[LoveHolyGod]

Of course you are real, I just think if a guy likes a girl enough he will pursue her, shy or not

[Asker]

Sorry but i'm too ch of a coward to pursue a girl, and i si makes me suffer because i wish i could be assertive instead i let girls go away :'(

[LoveHolyGod]

our just have not met the right one. My faith in Jesus and God gives me confidence in being and I hope you see you have worth. If you find a girl that you truly want maybe you will pursue her because you do not want to lose her or she will make it obvious enough for you to feel open about doing so.

[Asker]

I feel like i'm a weak man.

[LoveHolyGod]

If you really like a girl, I am sure you will pursue her enough or if it is meant to be she will make you feel comfortable enough to purse. :)

[Asker]

Sorry, this is why i don't believe in God anymore, men are meant to pursue women yet i'm too scared to do it, bottom line i'm not a real man, i hate myself and i hate this world.

[LoveHolyGod]

Well, not believing in God does not change Him, it changes you. He brings peace and joy, I used to be not sure and then I asked Him to show me the truth about Jesus and started reading the Holy Bible. Of course you are a real man, don't be scared because the right woman will say yes!

[Asker]

Then she will be waiting forever.

[LoveHolyGod]

I hope it works out for you :)

[Asker]

It won't work unless she comes to me, that's for sure.

[Anonymous]

No, just you. There's a reason tons of nice guys can get girls. Majority of my guy friends treat girls (and people in general) very nicely, and they're in high demand.
It's only actually losers that think nice guys can't get girls. They say it to excuse their lack of success and push the blame away instead of looking at the true reasons. Denial is a wonderful thing.

[cchris989]

Nice guys can get girls but they can't get all the girls that's where their bitter, hot girls can get all they guys regardless if there nice or not

[Opinion Owner]

@cchris989 yes they can. Tons of nice guys do. Certain types don't. They wouldn't get one if they were nice or nasty. It's something to do with them, not because they're a nice person.

[ElissaDido]

I'm not attracted to guys who aren't confident. It's a turn off honestly because I think it can affect the relationship A LOT.
i don't care if he's shy, I don't associate shyness with being self conscious.

[bobbyxx]

All feminists are the same.

[ElissaDido]

@bobbyxx I'm not a feminist lol.

[Jager66]

you give way to many fucks about this, that's like 70% of your problem solved if you stop giving fucks.

[Cosytoasty]

Wow those last two <3 <3 <3

But yes, i think most people believe you. Although internet memes are not really the most convincing "proof" you can come up with lol.

[datgirl]

This is your evidence? A bunch of memes who were most likely written by butthurt men?

Being confident is an attractive and desired quality in both men and women. I sure wouldn't want to be with someone who was depressed/depressing, indecisive, not brave (couldn't approach me) etc.

[Asker]

I know but it's not my fault that i'm so pathetic, you think i want to be this way? of course not!

[Asker]

by the way here's your evidence https://youtu.be/tMrLGmr4bk8

[snai7]

I'm sure that the last 2 memes has been done by men lol.
Shyness is cute. I don't date bad guys, nice ones are the best. However, confidence is importante for both men and women.

[JohnDoe3000]

Shy and confidence (with the opposite sex) don't go together. You're probably attracted to hot guys who choose to be loners, then again shy guys should put in some effort and not play the victim card so much.

[supernerd99]

then dont be a nice or shy guy with no cofidence. also choose women better. not all are crazy party animals. you watch too many movies... .

[Asker]

But i want to party too and be accepted.

[supernerd99]

then RSDtyler is your guy. practice his youtube material daily and you'll become what you want. this ain't for pussies though, you'll spit lots of blood and sweat in the process.

[Wonderer89]

😂 memes are now evidence

[Jager66]

lol apparently...

[Wonderer89]

@Jager66 media3.giphy.com/media/oFRI4g517yWaI/giphy.gif

[Jager66]

haha nice

[Asker]

an what about this evidence? https://youtu.be/tMrLGmr4bk8
can't beat that!

[JSmuve]

First chick is ugly
Second chick likes to be degraded
Third chicks are rug munching lesbos who are gay for each other

[Table20]

thats true.. im nothing but nice to everyone whether theyre male or female and chicks avoid me like i have a disease or something

[HappySquarePants]

Does this site make anyone else want to commit suicide?

[bobbyxx]

Yep, yep