How do girls act when they are nervous, or when they like you?

[Anonymous]

I go to a gym and these 2 girls act quite strange around me. I catch them looking at me a lot, they flip their hair, adjust their clothes, position themselves close towards me, but I notice they also act extremely strange/nervous around me. They have no problem talking to other people/guys but when it comes to me, they act super weird and its just confusing for me. What does this mean, and what should I do?


What other signs do you girls give when you're nervous or when you like a guy?

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Also I noticed the girls changed their schedule (could be a coincidence) to come to the gym at the same times that I do.

[jabbahut]

It's sound like they definitely like you are somewhat attracted to you. Girls often become shy when they are about guys they like. You can sometimes see Girls shaking when they talk to you.

If you like them I say you go and talk with them in a friendly manner. Ask them what they like and their personalities. Since they are shy it might be difficult for them to open up however it will happen if you give it time. Just be nice with them and see how it goes and of course be yourself.

Very rarely will a random Girl come up to you and start talking. I had this only happen once recently with one of my Female Friend's friend. It's something that happens very rarely with Girls.

I say just talk with them and see how I goes - their's nothing to lose!

[Junlian]

When girls pays more attention to you than others, when her friends mentions her to you a lot. When she asks you out.

[Asker]

Hmm you're right but it doesn't really apply to me cause these girls are strangers, and I dont really talk to them. I just kinda catch em staring at me all time.

[Junlian]

Meh, you want sure actions. That's how girls get you. They drop hints and signs and body language. Boring. Be a woman and talk, hang out, shoot bring your friends along. Your shy, that's cool but it's creepy to stare and not say nothing. You know. Them looking don't mean a damn thing to be honest.

[Truthatanycost]

It's possible they are just enjoying the fantasy of a stranger. I always see guys asking what they should do when a woman shows interest but I ask myself, what exactly have they done to deserve our time?

[Junlian]

What mean by be a woman is she should be able to get something started by talking and all that stuff, if you want to approach her then do it out of fair intent.

[Anonymous]

They clearly like you. But they do seem nervous. They're afraid to say something because they either feel that you're way out of their league, or that you'd reject them. Who knows what's going through their minds, they're nervous. Do you find them attractive?

[Asker]

Hell yes I find them attractive. One of them is older than me too (I overheard her say she's about 27) and I'm 23, so I find it surprising that she finds me good looking enough to make her shy and weird. Older girls are usually more confident. And yes they are very nervous. They act like school girls around me, when I'm near.

[Katyyy10]

They probably think you are attractive and are too shy to go over and talk to you. I'm the same way, if I see a really good looking guy I may find myself too nervous to talk to him. Maybe say hi next time you're at the gym? 😊

[Asker]

I'll try :) what signs would you show if you were nervous around a good looking guy?

[Katyyy10]

Well for me if he was a stranger I'd probably just be trying to look at him without him noticing cause I'm awkward like that haha.
Someone I know though I'd go up to talk but I'd definitely have butterflies and may stumble over a few words lol but every girl is different, some are more confident around guys some are more shy

[Asker]

The girl im talking about does the same thing. Looks at me through her peripheral vision haha

[Beautyxox]

When I talk to a guy I like I usually use a different voice... it kinda weird but I use a really soft calm voice. i use different voices talking to my crush then I use with my friends

[Asker]

Funny thing is, I have spoken to her maybe twice around the gym, and when she speaks to me, she stuttered, spoke very softly and in a lower volume... but if she speaks to someone else when she's standing close to me, she'll speak loudly and flamboyantly.

[NyomiMcClinton]

They are attracted to you. When females tend to do this, they usually are hoping that you approach them. You have some females that are open about what they want.

[Asker]

Girls are very cryptic/shy around me. I've only ever had 2-3 girls approach me. The rest just act all shy/coy/scared around me.

[kikawi]

You probably seem a little intimidating to girls. That's not necessarily a bad thing, though. It just means you need to take the lead in the relationship and make the first move.

[Asker]

@kikawi I am tall, have a decent physique, and have been told by other girls that I'm handsome/good looking. I have come across as intimidating to girls my entire life... I think its more of a curse than anything.

[ikissedtheskyonce]

They giggle for no reason around you
Talk fast
Shaky voice

[Asker]

True. What do you think of the signs I mentioned in my original post?

[ikissedtheskyonce]

those are signs as well

[Enaya]

They eye you, that's the easiest way to tell. Flipping hair is a major give away too. You need to make a move.

[Asker]

She's been doing this for ages too. Like months...

[Enaya]

Then talk to her already

[sois_pas_basic]

Either they think you're cute or they know something about you.

[Asker]

These girls are total strangers. We just go to the gym every week and I see them there.

[sois_pas_basic]

Do you have any public accounts on social media? Most girls have FBI level stalking skills.

[Asker]

Yeah but they dont know my name. We just see each other around the gym is all.

[sois_pas_basic]

They probably think you're cute.

(You'd be surprised by how much they can find out about you without knowing your name, but that doesn't sound like it's the case)

[Asker]

Oh believe me I'm very aware of the female investigative/surveillance ability. Haha. But do you reckon they think i'm cute? not tooting my own horn but a lot of my female friends (behind my back) say that I'm good looking. I also get checked out a lot at work, college, etc.

[quinnypham13]

If you have a nice body or good looking , they might be attracted by you at first sight so they want to make you notice that they look pretty in front of you. And that's a sign that they nervous too cuz there are many people around you.

[Asker]

I'm 6 foot 1, broad shoulders, slim waist, big arms and chest etc. Obviously from being in the gym lol. And yes i've been told by female friends or girlfriends that i am good looking.

[quinnypham13]

Then it's a good advantage. However if none of them approach you then they just like your look and that's all.

[Asker]

What if theyre just shy?

[quinnypham13]

Even though they're shy or not if a girl really want to know you then they will try anyway to make it happen. If they don't like you that much then they have many options.

[Adigelunar]

it changes person to person - for example I'm quite normal

[blondfrog]

They play with their hair and stumble over their words and stuff.

[Anonymous]

I get nervous, my face gets red when I talk to someone attractive

[Asker]

She looks down a lot when she sees me and her face goes red.

[TheSolivagant]

Dude, don't overthink it. They like you.

[Asker]

What makes you so sure haha

[TheSolivagant]

Everything you described seems to perfectly describe girls seeking your attention, in the event that you are describing and reading their behavior correctly. If so - go get 'em.

[kikawi]

They totally like you. Try just talking to them.

[Asker]

Any suggestions on how i should approach?

[kikawi]

Just start a casual conversation. If you don't know each other's names, introduce yourself. But be sure to keep it short the first time you talk, otherwise it might seem weird.
But yeah, just start talking to them. About anything. Just make small talk... see where it goes.

[Asker]

I might try that. I just hope they dont act all weird around me again though, it can be pretty awkward for me. Girls tend to freeze up and stutter and fidget a lot when I approach them.

[kikawi]

Try reading about how to make yourself look less intimidating. That might help :)

[Asker]

Haha I will try. Not as easy as it sounds. Girls are just always shy around me

[Mikaychay95]

Would you consider yourself attractive?

[Asker]

I would say so. All the girls I've dated have said so and I get a lot of stares from women.

[Mikaychay95]

These girls could be attracted

[Asker]

Do you think so? One other thing I noticed was that, she never used to go to the gym at the times that I go, and now I notice she's basically there at the same time that I am every day/week.

[Mikaychay95]

I definitely do from what you said

[Asker]

How do i approach this kind of girl? They act super shy around me

[Mikaychay95]

Have you ever tried just going up to her and saying hi as well as introducing yourself?

[Asker]

Not really... I'm kinda shy myself lol

[Mikaychay95]

I get it, I'm not shy in general but when it comes to guys I get quite nervous. Could you try it some time?

[Asker]

I might. The thing is, i have no problems going up to girls in places like school, university, work, parties etc.. but since the gym is sort of a public place, I feel like its kinda harder to just walk up to a girl. But I might take your advice and try it. Do you think she'll be receptive, considering the signs i've told you about?

[Mikaychay95]

If she does seem interested then you should have no problem and you approaching her is probably what she's been wanting. You could try making some sort of eye contact before approaching her and smile and see how she responds.

[Asker]

I notice she sort of positions herself close to me. Like she'll just stand around close to me, she takes out her earphones/music and just sorta stands there awkwardly, flipping her hair around, adjusting her clothes, and I catch her looking at me through the corners of her eyes. But she won't say anything. Is this a sign she wants me to approach?

[sois_pas_basic]

^ This sounds like me when I'm around the guy I like. Smile at her and try to catch her eye. If she smiles back, good. Keep up the whole smiling at each other thing for a few days and then approach her. If you go too quickly, it might make her uncomfortable.

[Mikaychay95]

^ what she said!

[Asker]

@sois_pas_basic This sounds like a good idea. Thanks for the reply!

[sois_pas_basic]

No problem. Keep us posted.

[locathepug2]

when I'm nervous I bite my lips

[salonixiee]

there is no set rule. all girls act differently

[Anonymous]

They would blush