My girlfriend hasn't texted me back for 14 hours?

[yeomansb]

I've been dating this girl for 3 months and things have been pretty good! Just two days ago I surprised her by bringing her a coffee to work, and she loved it. She even kissed me in front of coworkers and acted happy to see me. I asked her if I could see her on Thursday and she said yes.

The next morning I texted her "I lied, turns out I have work tomorrow, but I'll be free anytime after 3!" And she responded "that's okay!" Which I thought was pretty vague but she texted me again changing the subject.

Later that day around 8:30 pm I texted her "how does 4 sound for tomorrow? ha also did you find your beanie? " it's 11:40 am and she still hasn't responded to me!

What's going on in her head? Do you girls sometimes forget to text a guy you're dating? Should I text her again or wait for her to eventually respond?

Please help :(

[crystalt70]

I would just text her again. She may not have seen the message or she may have gotten busy and forgotten to text you back. I have done that. I have even texted back and forgotten to hit the send button. She may have even fallen asleep and hasn't checked her phone yet this morning. Don't overanalyze. I would not be worried at this point if I were you. It has not been days with no response. Send her a "good morning" text. I love getting texts from my boyfriend that say, "Good morning, beautiful. I hope you slept well." texts. Make sure to end with a question to ensure a response. "I look forward to seeing you later today. Is 4:00 okay with you?"

[super147]

I think you need to wait a bit longer than 14hrs before you start seriously worrying, especially when the majority of those hours would be during sleep time. Anything could have happened, she might have had a family emergency, she might have dropped her phone in the toilet, she might have run out of battery and her charger has broken, etc.

Wait at least a couple of days before you start getting nervous.

[yeomansb]

But don't you think if she didn't respond today, it would be a bigger statement because we're supposed to hang out today?

[super147]

It might be but you are negating the fact that something really important could have come up. Why don't you just send her a simple message saying "Hey, are you ok?". I think that's reasonable without being clingy.

[Cosytoasty]

Dude, go find something to do with your day and forget about it. You changed the date and she is obviously busy so its not her fault for not rescheduling.

You're also overthinking it.

[ShaunaM95]

I think you should text her again. She could have just forgotten.