HOW CAN ANY GIRLS FIND K-POP GUYS ATTRACTIVE OR CUTE?

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I'm not talking about the actual Korean Pop music, which I occasionally indulge in. I'm just talking about the idols and how anyone, mostly girls, can find them good-looking. I'm a girl myself, but it's impossible for me to comprehend the fondness for guys with long bangs, pink lipstick, and highly pale skin. I don't think it's just because I'm from the U. S. where feminine men are frowned upon. If I find a guy good-looking, then he's good-looking to me. That's it. I hate how these guys try sooo hard by making "heart signs" with their fingers, blowing kisses into the camera, and wearing caked-on makeup. I also don't like it when people said that it's just the Korean culture. I've been to South Korean before, and people there aren't all like this. They DO care about their appearance but not to the extent like it's portrayed in K-Pop.

It makes me want to vomit when I see selfies of BTS or EXO backstage where they're all wearing required outfits for performances, have extremely pale skin, cherry pink lipstick on, and making the same kissy/duck-lips with their eyes wide open like they're crazy or something. That is THE very last thing I want to see when I wake up. They try TOO hard; I hate guys like that. Even if you don't like One Direction or Justin Bieber and think their music is complete insipid nonsense (me too), at the very least, you CAN respect how they take pictures naturally, not really worried about their perfect, lush bangs or how pink their lips are. Some have thin eyebrows or long hair or no beard or a mustache. They're all different! A beautiful smile is a beautiful smile. Guys don't need all that makeup and all that cat whiskers and fancy outfits and lush, wavy bangs and cheery pink lipstick to look good. If they cover their eyes, you won't know who they are at all! If Justin Bieber took a K-pop-like selfie where he makes the duck lips and eyeliner, everyone would say he's gay! Goddangit! How can anyone find K-pop guys good-looking?

HOW CAN ANY GIRLS FIND K-POP GUYS ATTRACTIVE OR CUTE?



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READ THIS: Seriously, in the photo, it seems like they're wondering, "Hey, girl, are we hot enough? Are we cute enough? You wanna kiss my lips?" For god's sake, if I find a guy hot or cute, then I find him hot or cute! Period. I don't need him to put on all this makeup and lipstick and do all these kissy/cute poses to make himself look attractive. It's like they're trying way way way too hard. I don't like it!
HOW CAN ANY GIRLS FIND K-POP GUYS ATTRACTIVE OR CUTE?
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