Do guys like really loving and playful girls or serious and mature ones?

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I keep switching from the latter to the former and vice versa.

I'm naturally very cute and adorable, always feel like holding a guy's hand, kissing him on the cheek, acting cute. I'm just friendly and I do none of the things I feel like doing lol.

But then life=maturity all of that stuff so then I try to act all serious and what not.

America1st · Accepted Answer

Your biggest mistake is trying to be somebody you are not. You seem to think you can't be silly and serious too. You have to consider what is going on. Each behavior fits different situations. I love a women who is strong (mentally), independent and intelligent. I like her to have her fun, silly side as well as her serious side. There are appropriate times for both. I would never be with a woman who is only serious or silly. The reason for not trying to be somebody you are not is that you will fail to keep it up if you have a guy who you have a long relationship with. You are playing games and you don't enter a relationship doing that if you want it to last. Good luck!

Discovery98 · Accepted Answer

You should be loving and playful most of the time. But maturity and seriousness is needed at times also. If someone dies you don't play around and tease you take it seriously you support someone through their lose. Being just one or the other will lead you to a very lonely life

Daynada · Accepted Answer

I agree. You need to have both. There is a time to be serious when needed but not all the time.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

It depends on the guy. They usually prefer the loving and playful ones though.

WantAnswersNow · Accepted Answer

lol I'm loving, playful, mature, and know when to be serious. I'm all of that

usbiv223 · Answer

I enjoy being around people who are fun, and I love it when my wife is fun to be around.

That said, I have very little tolerance for idiots or airheads, so the ditsy playful thing doesn't work for me. I chose my wife in large part because she is a competent individual who can largely manage her own life. So yes, maturity is important.

Stallion76 · Answer

One who is serious at all times, is a sign of insecurity, because they are afraid that once one sees the lighter side of that person, they are afraid that the viewers of the light side may never take that person seriously again, therefore they are afraid they may lose control and not be able to regain control.

jonas8991 · Answer

I'm often really seriously and not really open to hapiness because I see more often the bad things... thats why I would really like a playful /loving girl. I hope that it will kind of compensate my pessimism and together we will be happier.
But to be honest, its not like I would take only serious / mature girl... even with a those I think a relationship can work out well.

The best would be a girl who can be both (depending on the situation)

Anonymous · Answer

I like someone who can be both. Sometimes I like to have deep and meaningful conversations with someone and sometimes I just like to have fun, and I think a solid relationship can't be built without both.

disclaimer: I've never been in a relationship before, but I've heard many people's opinions and experiences and have thought about it extensively.

kellytheman · Answer

It really depends on the guy your with and it also depends when the time is to be mature and not mature. Me personally I like a girl who likes to hold hands and being playful and cute with me. I do like a women though that likes to speak her mind and make her own choices out of respect of her but I do when she wants me to take charge like order drinks and food on a date or something.

papak · Answer

I definitely prefer loving and playful as a personality. Its great that you can be serious when you need to be, but its the playful nature thats more attractive.

Geostigma · Answer

I like both but lean more towards loving and playful. Life is about having fun it's what creates a strong bond, but it's important to be serious when the time calls for it

03FreeBird14 · Answer

I really like the loving and playful ones myself coz the serious and mature ones act like they don't want to have any fun and are to worried about little things and they let life pass them by!

blutwolfe · Answer

being loving and playful would throw me off, cause I'm pretty serious most of the time, it would be pretty different I don't know how I'd react

Diego007 · Answer

A good balance of both. There is times to be serious, and definitely times to be a goof. Be yourself!!

SirRexington · Answer

Mixture of both. But loving and playful a little more.

ToastR · Answer

I love girls who have a great sense of humour, who laugh at my terrible jokes and whatnot. Playful girls over mature girls anyday.

Anonymous · Answer

Be the fun cute cuddly girl that you really are. Being mature doesn't mean being serious and not having fun.

Maxemeister · Answer

I would almost always prefer the loving, playful one.

Joswelch6 · Answer

Serious and Mature for sure. I can't say I am normal though

Anonymia · Answer

Loving & playful by far

DamnCurtis · Answer

You need a healthy mix. You got the right idea.

Anonymous · Answer

I found Xbox to be more fun.

letsseeà · Answer

loving and playful since I am

Noxifer626 · Answer

I like serious girls with a pinch of humor.

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