If I see a guy I think is physically attractive, I want to talk to him and I get nervous/butterflies around him. I don't get turned on though. A random guys naked body doesn't turn me on either. I only get turned on if it's a guy I have a crush on or some sort of emotional connection with. Even then he has to get me in the mood by saying/doing something. It can be something as simple as "f*ck my life", "wouldn't you like me to", but he still has to put the thought into my head.
I won't just randomly start thinking about him in that way. I don't think I've ever actually fallen for someone just for looks either. Usually the "obviously attractive" guys are the ones I ignore. I might think he's hot but I don't make an effort with them unless I'm feeling confident. I've always fallen for my friends.
Is this normal because apparently this means I'm demisexual? I thought most girls were like this? D:
Also, bonus question: what is the difference for you in terms of "feelings" when you see an attractive girl compared to an attractive guy?
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