Other than these things what do girls find attractive in guys?
What do girls find attractive in guys?
Other than these things what do girls find attractive in guys?
I don't understand your update. Most women aren't attracted to other women.
But, in answering... my answer my differ because a lot of women don't know what they want or how to explain it properly. And some know what they want, but will deny it (For example, feminists act like they want a guy to bend over backwards for them, but if the guy does, they end up walking all over them).
The truth is women like men for being the traits many women tend not to be. Forthright, bold, brave, fearless, unafraid of others opinions of them, analytical, logical, strong, grounded, protective, sexually aggressive, and affectionate.
I'm pretty sure what I'm saying is almost controversial though lol
but girls aren't sexually attracted to men. they are attracted to personalities and only then feel sexual attraction. thats not the man they find attractive then
Women don't really tend to have those tendancies.
Plus the fact that women don't have dicks or male bodies lol
Your argument doesn't make sense
But there's nothing attracting women to men other than personality which everyone in the world has.
And if theybdont feel sexual attraction to men they dont know ever then its not really me their attracted to, its just anything wih the right personality
No one said they aren't sexually attracted to men? Lol
You could literally say the same thing about men with the way you're phrasing it.
Just because we like personality and find other girls pretty does not mean we are thereby not attracted to men physically. You sound like a kid with your reasoning skills. Lol!
Girls claim looks dont turn them or arouse them slightly.
Girls claim looks dont even matter.
Girls are only attracted to men sexually once they have an emotional connection.
So there for how are women attracted to MEN. If nothing that makes men men is attracting them why dont they date girls?
Girls say they can look at attractive guys and appreciate but dont feel any attraction until they like their personality, so why dont they date girls.
Not true.
Not true.
Not true, but most girls won't be interested enough for sex until they have more of a connection than just looks.
I can't speak for other girls, but looking at a girl is like looking at myself in the mirror. Maybe arousing if I'm already horny, but nothing really exciting.
Most of what you're saying depends on how horny a girl is anyway. Sure, if they're thinking logically, they'll choose someone based on all factors (especially emotional/personality traits they share, and then attractiveness).
But really? Have you never met a women that dates solely for looks? They exist. I've met many women that actually date mostly based on appearance or material things.
That said... the majority of women want a friend, then a lover. Then a lover, then a friend.
So girls are able to look at attractive guys and feel arousal/ attraction without emotional connection but will only desire sex with said guys if there is that connection.
Yes to the first part. And I meant many will only act on it if there's more to it than physical attraction. But... I can only speak for myself. I'm sure there's some women who would just go for attraction only.
What I find attractive in a guy (non-physical traits): He can take care of himself
He knows how to cook and clean
He has a good sense of humor
He's smart
He's funny
He knows how to take a joke
He dresses well
He doesn't put people down
He doesn't pick fights
He's patient
He doesn't mind helping people
He's polite
He's easy going
He's chill/laid back
Knows how to have fun, relax, and doesn't pressure people into things
He doesn't do drugs
He's quirky
He doesn't get offended easily
Physical traits: He has muscle tone
Long hair/medium hair length
He's tall (like 6-6'5 since I'm 5'9-5'10)
What do you consider long/medium hair length?
Oh wow those all seem pretty long except the last one. My hair is like down to my neck but I can't decide if it looks good or not
@frozenhorizon If you think it looks good, be confident about it. It being up your length is something I'd say is medium length. As long as the hair looks good, I don't mind. But I'm no fan of buzzed hair or military hair cuts.
I constantly change my mind about whether or not I think it looks good, that's the only issue haha. But yeah I agree about the buzz cuts thing, I don't get why so many guys like that (lack of) style.
Preferably taller than me, if I chose between skinny and chubby I'd choose the last one. But really I'd prefer in between. Don't like muscles, just girthy body with normal amount of muscle is good. Cute boyish face, I always thought I was in to dark hair, but I actually have a soft spot for mousy blonde 😻 dark hair will always be in my heart as well.
Really, I'm not incredibly shallow when it comes to looks but yano if this was an ideal world an all^
I find guys more attractive when they have a talent since I am talented myself. It would be so cool if the guy can sing and/or dance well too. Also I find it attractive when guys are cute when they are with babies or puppies 💕 Lastly, it's more attractive when guys are really close
with their family
A lot of women are attracted to guys who can put some effort into presenting themselves as a successful/functional member of society. Guys are attracted to the same. The reality isn't as important as the presentation. Of course physical fitness is preferred but it's secondary
"So basically girls aren't really attracted to men themselves? They could just as easily be attracted to other women if they had the same personality... Great to know "
they was a study about that if I remember properly, turns out it is the case
Okay, maybe attracted to as friends? But want to be intimate/have sex with? No
@LovelyDisquiet what is the appeal in men besides personality tho? Nothing... how well he provides and can look after her? How is that in any way actual attraction to men?
@LovelyDisquiet that study was monitoring sexual attraction
and for the love of faith in humanity <.<
what has been studied and discovered to be plausible for a majority doesn't mean you're ultimately part of that majority nor aware to be part of it
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I like a guy who has love for travel, intellectual and humble. Physically I prefer someone who's 185cm or above and well, not fat. And whites only (yes I realize this may sound racist but can't help about romance and chemistry).
Not forgetting - if they're multilingual I'd be really really impressed.
... err.. guten tog?
Tall, funny, respectful, honest, loyal, patient, close with family, cooks, smart, laid back, doesn't fight or picks fights, and lastly doesn't put people down. I wouldn't care what he looks like I would just like for him to have these personalities.
so your attracted to women as well?
No just men.
If personality is all you find attractive why can't you be attracted to girls? Girls are just as capable of having good personalities
Well yes but to me the personality has to be the heart as well if he has a selfish heart then I won't bother but if he has a kind heart then I will give him a chance I just never have been interested in girls not that I have anything against woman who love other woman or men who love other men. It just not something I see for myself.
Thats what i don't understand if its not men your attracted to, its personalities.
What if you had amazing chemistry with a girl and got along unbelievably well and it turned out she had a thing for you.
What would stop you from dating her?
I like men's firm, yet gentle hands. I like having to look up at them. I like how they have shoulders that seem capable of carrying the burden of the entire world. I like how their bodies are basically flat, but then the penis just stick out from the rest. And, more... Is that enough for you?
What a ridiculous question in your update. There's something called sexual attraction...
Which girls seem to lack... Girls aren't attracted to strangers or people without an emotional connection.
Attraction and sexual attraction are there before the emotional connection, if not its their personality your attracted to.
Girls aren't attracted to sexiness, they are attracted to intelligence, confidence and wealth because it equates to greater provider subconsciously.
I notice humbleness, who their friends are, how they treat people, how they smell 😂😂, how masculine they are.
Assuming they are into visuals; Handsome face, powerful hands, strong arms, broad shoulders, muscular abs, muscular glutes, happy trail and genitals.
For me is how the guy handles himself. I also like guys who's good with words and says things out of his mind. I like guys who are honest and direct. Mysterious is good, but it's too complicated for me. lol
Deep sexy voice, beard that not long but not clean shaved, abs, being taller than her
I like skinny guys who are a bit taller than me and long hair.
why height? i mean why not short handsome guys (not too short)
Nice and smart face not fucked up with tattoos or lots of piercings. sometime with beards
Nice muscular body but not puffy like body builders they have man boobs. Voice... yeah that's it he will look smart
Well I got a small tattoo on my right arm and i'm not muscular. only my height is little short than average male. Just for general information :P
what is your height?
wow mine is 165 cm
pretty much same :D
There is no one, or generic answer for this. Nor does it matter.
The question you should be asking yourself is how can you attract the type of girl that you want. What can you offer?
Their voice and if they can speak French
Arabic and Urdu or either of those 3
why language?
@James_Castel I just like it. It's intriguing
For me guys playing any sorts of guitar I found attractive
What has been attractive to women for me?
My PhD... PRETTY HUGE DICK!!!
Humor, sarcasm and intelligence
so your attracted to women as well?
yes, i guess you kinda see my profile haha
Masculinity :)
abs..
Are abs sexually attractive at all or they just look nice"
they look nice
Do you find anything attractive in guys?
fit body is the first thing that I recognize
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