Girls, Do you feel bad , sad and sorry about men?

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Do you feel bad about men for having LOTS of facial hair, it's almost like a curse. Even if they shave it daily they never get to have smooth absolutely smooth face like you all have, naturally.
Guys have way lots of body hair including sometimes HAIRY chest, stomach, shoulders as well. While women don't have this, naturally!!
Yippee for women.
They have saggy hairy balls, EW..
Once they get older men get balding head , women rarely do... Their beards and body hair turns grey adding to his ugliness.

Women, ever feel bad sad and sorry about men?
Plus why do you date and give sex to men? Out of sympathy?

MlleCake · Accepted Answer

Where did you get all these silly ideas? There are men who get really hairy and men who don't, and men who fall somewhere in between and they are all fine and normal. Periods cause physical pain every month, and a host of other symptoms depending on the woman, plus periods are stigmatized and in some places women are even shut in a chicken coop while they have their periods; but hair on a man doesn't cause him pain. It's normal to get hairier after puberty. It's not yucky or gross. Where did you ever get this idea that women have less pubic hair? Women and men with a similar ethnicity tend to have very similar amounts of pubic hair. Where did you ever get this idea that most women hate body hair on a man? Some women dislike it, some women love it, some women don't care either way - in fact, I think most women don't care either way. Women are not naturally hairless. There are women who have natural mustaches, natural beards, our armpits get hairy, we get pubic hair, we get hair on our legs, and after menopause we get even more hair. Women have much more pressure to shave than men. There's also nothing wrong or ugly about a bald man.

Jigsaw_Gal · Accepted Answer

No. Men should be proud of the beards and chest hairs.

tough_cookie · Answer

I actually like men better if they have a nice beard.. but I like it short and well trimmed.. I think having a beard and hairy body its like for women having a nice hair cut.. but men never think about all the work it means.. You have to put time in combing it.. buy treatments.. special shampoos for your type of hair.. for the rest of the body hair.. we.. in majority wax, shave or depilete parts of our body.. like armpits, legs, the bikini zone, arms, some facial areas.. the eyebrows..
You should stop worring.. If you think you are too hairy, just invest a little more time and trimm nicely once a week, and about the beard.. if you grow to much beard, you have to have to have a nice machine so you can give form, or if you like it long.. then you have to go to the barber and stop worring...

And about the last question.. well.. I would feel sorry for a man that dont loves himself.. And I will never date a guy or have sex with him just out of sympathy... I have to feel attracted to the guy.. for sympathy I just would accept a coffee if he is already my friend.. and I would be clear about "BEING just friends".. I would not lead him on..

JeonJungkook · Answer

No, we don't feel sorry and why do you think women need to feel sorry. And why would we let anyone invade our privacy out of sympathy? Do you think were nuts? and a little correction girls do have naturally growing hair. Obviously because of female hormones its lesser than males. If I sound rude, I don't mean to be.
A bald guy looks clean but it is not quite attractive, but a lot of hair is too disgusting to lay with. You know what I mean right. A little trimming will do get the look. There are some woman who love hairy and some who love bald. For me i like a Chris Brown type of hair growth. I like a little facial hair around the jaw and above the lips but a beard is a little annoying if it comes to getting over the face. But honestly I don't feel sad. And I believe most woman would only let you lay with her if she is interested in you or for her own purposes, and would date you if they like you. Hair is not really problem. Women also get hair but we clean it. Only Because it seems unhygienic and would you guys like a girl who has hair in her armpits? No right. Keep it clean but don't get bald. At old age use hair oil.

Bananashine25 · Answer

To be honest I don't feel bad for them because of this. This a trait that makes men even much more Marlier. In many situation it makes them look handsome when they have it very well kept. That's for facial and as for body? Chest hair is not all that bad, my husband has chest hair not a lot but it's decent and I find it very sexy especially for his body because he works out a lot. Facial the same. He keeps it nice and neat. As for hair in the genital areas. I really don't mind it, but it's best when it's not around lol I don't wanna keep taking piece of pubes out of my mouth 😅 but men should embrace their hairiness and be proud and confident because there's nothing sexier than a confident hairy man who doesn't give a crap of what anyone thinks of it.

jarofawesome · Answer

No never felt bad, because 1 not all men are Extremely hairy and usually only take care of their facial hair and 2 women aren't naturally shaven everywhere, we just shave, and some women even have it worse than others just like some men do.

Based on these three posts it sounds to me like you have a hair complex and or fetish, blue anon

I dont really date in general because I don't care about having sex and don't want to get romantically attached to something when I'm still trying to figure out my life path yadda yadda.

simplyaramdomgirl · Answer

No, not really. Being a girls is not all pink and great. We have most of the hair that guys have, and some of us shave daily. The only thing that we don't have is beards, and some girls even have one. So no, I don't feel bad, sad and sorry for guys. It's natural to have hairy parts and for your hair to go gray. Even for you to go bald, everything that you've mentioned is just nature taking it's course. Also we date and have sex with guys because we find them attractive, it's how our brains are made. It's like asking a guy, why would you date a girl? We talk way too much
We fight a lot
We complain a lot
We feel too much
Honestly it's a miracle that someone tolerates how annoying a woman can be. by the way not saying that all girls are like this.

UglyKittenLovers9 · Answer

Well first of all you shouldn't think that you are not worthy as a man. You don't have to feel insecure about being a hairy men that is normal we are human ee have body hair that is normal and if you want to get rid of them then just do it. If that makey you feel insecure about yourself and makes you feel like people should think that you are someone who they need to feel bad. If you think that people need to feel bad about you is mostly because of that you feel bad about yourself. Try to love yourself and get rid off everything that makes you feel insecure that is gonna make you feel better 😊😊

LifeIsStrange13 · Answer

Ok woman still have to deal with shaving hair too! I mean we have it on our legs, armpits, private area, sometimes face (little moustache), arms (I have thin hair on mine).
We have to deal with pregnancy, periods and everything that comes with both of those.
Hormonal changes, birth control (which I have been very ill on before, damn side effects!)

So yes most woman may look prettier but that's because we maintain a beauty regime. Most of use face creams to get nice skin! It's not all that great being a woman.

Curlybeauty17 · Answer

No.
1.) I like facial hair on men.
2.) Women can have a lot of natural body hair and men don't necessarily have to have a lot of natural body hair but in either situation worst case scenario get waxed or shave.
3.) Having balls isn't as bad as having periods.
4.) Women can bald just usually not the same way men do. Women might lose patches of hair with alopecia.
5.) Everybody's hair turns gray when they get old unless you dye it.
6.) Women have sex with men because they are sexually attracted to them. Not out of sympathy.

Jemini_Crocket · Answer

I used to feel sorry for men only when they get kicked to their crotch but not anymore. Men don't feel sorry for women either. We suffer pain bcs period every month, most of us go through pregnancy sooner or later and we are laughed at because of our mood swings.

by the way hair is completely normal on both genders. Men tend to be more hairy, it's OK for normal girls! We aren't completely without body hair either, some have darker or longer body hair and it can make us nervous bcs it too. We simply like men, that's how most of us are born.

whitedahlia · Answer

Honestly, I prefer my man with body and facial hair. Something about it is so... sexy. And it's natural. If a man naturally doesn't have much body hair then that's fine too because it's *natural* and what he looks like. If he's covered in hair, that's fine because it's natural and nothing to be ashamed of - so why would I feel bad or sorry for him?
And why do women have sex with men? Come on. You can't be serious. Women get aroused too. Women get turned on and want sex too. There are so many things about men that we admire and appreciate. So, if you're asking if a woman checks a guy out for his body hair then, in my opinion, not really. Depends on the woman, I guess. But if it's a relationship then I'm with him for who he is and love everything about him.

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