If you ask a lot of questions, and show you're listening as a girl talks to you, you're halfway there already.
Just think of what specifically a girl is wanting in communication-- she wants to know someone cares to listen, she wants emotional support, she wants to know you enjoy her.
Smiling, eye contact, relaxed body language, relatable stories, inquiring questions... all of these are great qualities to have in communication. Have a grouping of questions ready to ask a girl before you go up to her, don't look too eager, but don't act cold and awkward.
If you come across as a man willing to listen, that right there is the ultimate thing in communication that will make a girl appreciate you or be impressed.
Approach a conversation opportunity with the mindset of "This is another interesting person, with an interesting story I don't know yet." And gently coax some of that story out of her. Find things you have in common to form a connection.
These are things that impress me.
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Stop trying to impress girls, let alone people. Those who are easily impressed are easily influenced. Most girls are not attracted to a show. They want to know who you are as a person. If you feel like you need to put up an act, it means you're hiding something you know some people may not like. And I definitely don't like 'smooth talkers'. A smooth talker is often a manipulator, and can later become an abuser. If you want to get a girlfriend, you have to know what that one girl likes and needs in a partner. And that means you have to empty out nearly everything you've heard about women, and get to know and study 'your woman'.
When I say that a guy has great communication skills it either means he is funny and cracks jokes or he is well educated. I prefer for a guy to be both but more importantly the latter, since I hardly find guys that can hold an intellectual conversation.
Know a little about a lot of different topics. Ask questions. Listen. Relax and don't think too hard about it. Don't restrict yourself to short statements. Actually say something. Broaden your interests. It really helps a lot if you are truly interested in the topic of conversation. Practice. It's something most people naturally get better at over time.
I have to repeat, learn a little about a lot of different topics.
Being a "smooth talker" or a salesmen is NOT the way to go. Both of those imply a manipulator.
Confidence is king, be pleasant in your exchange, have an equal dialogue where the exchange is fairly mutual so she doesn't feel like she's doing all the work, and be attentive, she'll notice if you catch small details of the conversation for later reference.
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Girls like soft hearted boys... so while conversation with girls talk softly... understand what they are saying... think on it and then reply to girl...
while conversation give a sweet smile...
help them if they need u...
try to built up the conversation in which they are interested
N yes more important while talking... ur eyes should stick to her eyes... it should not roll up and down through her physics.. it makes wrong impressionSpeak slowly, at an even pace. Be direct. Try to be humorous. Make them feel included in the conversation by asking them questions about their interests.
Use precise tongue movement and double entendres and you'll win them over with your skill as a cunning linguist.
Good story telling can go a long way but most times with woemn it's not what you say, it's how you say it.
Tbh if a guy can make me laugh/smile then Im hooked
Listen. Be yourself. Ask questions. Nod to show that your listening. Smile.
First don't call it communication skills. You sound like Napoleon Dynamite talking about his dance skills. One tip is don't think so much about skills just go with the flow.
just talked to people like everyday conversation and it will end up getting better
jokes. break the ice. the girls will eat it up or be super sarcastic.
First of all... you can never impress a girl with my communication skills...
check out the grammar...
😂😂😂Confidence is the key
Sense of humor.. sweet and polite, bring it on.
Look up casanova and his book bio book
Annunciate, use big words and good grammar
Practice, practice, practice...
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