Why do girls always start drama 😂?

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Yeah, why do we always start drama? 😂
•fighting over a guy (I have never done that, but I know some girls who have... lol)
•fighting for no reason, whether it is a physical fight or a verbal fight
•stalking other girls to make sure they don't touch our man (Never done that, and never will. I think it is a waste of time... lol 😂)

And so on...

Why? I mean take a look at the guys. Life is so simple for them. I have never seen two guys fight over a girl, in real life... LOL
Why? Why so much drama? I was thinking about all of this right, now... lol 😂

Sadly_It_Fell_Off · Accepted Answer

Girls are terroritorial and if the border of their territory seems threatened, all sort of bombs are released. F-bombs, hydrogen bombs, nuclear bombs, gas bombs and c-word bombs.
The bombage should, in theory, sort out the issue but if it keeps coming, then bigtime drama is unleashed.
Girls ususally use a bit of harsh & petty language mixed in with some ridiculous made up gossip to deter the potential poacher whereas guys may sit down and talk about it in simple terms and then have a punchup, shake hands, its sorted.
Girls drag out the drama by using language, gossip, other intimidating factors so that they fight with words, looks and their friends ganging up to intimdate and scare off the potential poacher. Fisticuffs is usually a last resort (not always but usually).
Different strokes for different folks.

thegirlonclouds · Accepted Answer

I think guys have a tougher time expressing themselves because they feel like they can't. They feel like it's not their role to express what they are feeling. So they have like that "chill atitude" that most of the times hides someone much sensitive.
Girls are taught they need to look pretty so, I guess for us is always a competition. Society turns us against each other and we end up feeling hate for one other. I think that's the origin of all the drama. We need to feel we are adored, and the most beautiful, and the most sexy and young...
And in relationships girls tend to well... Feel the need to validate their partner's feelings all the time. Because genetically guys tend to feel a bigger need to have multiple partners. And on top of all the other stuff this makes us even more insecure

kaylaS91 · Accepted Answer

Girls may seem to start more drama but that's largely because women are biologically (an by proxy, thanks to society) much more verbal. Men are more likely to internalize their stresses, be it work/school-related stress, or stress about their relationship versus expressing it verbally or by fighting.

It may seem like that's better because less drama is starts by them (not that I've ever seen girls fight in any way over a guy but, I digress.) but internalizing feelings of stress is one of the worst things you can do in respect to your physical/mental health in the longrun. I mean, there's a reason why men have a higher rate of successful suicide rate, heart disease, blood pressure, etc.. Elevated levels of cortisol (the primary stress hormone) can truly fuck your health over.

GingerGuy · Accepted Answer

I've heard women say "it's fun". I don't see personally what's fun about getting all stressed out but whatever lol. I think women naturally get very bored easily, so they "need' to create this drama for entertainment and something to do. Just my theory.

AleDeEurope · Accepted Answer

Because you girls like it. Drama brings attention, and women love to swim in attention. Why do you think girls date bad guys? Because it brings drama.

ANITKUMARVERMA · Answer

funny...
understanding women is impossible.
i don't know why you are asking this question. even women don't know the answer. they can fight for a topic which actually never happened.
women are amazing creatures from Venus

Alessus · Answer

Does the fact that I've fought other guys multiple times that think I've been too friendly with their girl count as us fighting over a girl? Because that does happen.

karahiri · Answer

ewwwww. that kind of behavior is so trashy :( not a fan of dramaqueens.

wankiam · Answer

boys do it too... women and men have grown out of it usually

mrwiseguy · Answer

Honestly study biology and learn how our brain functions and how the social tribalism in our society works and you'll have your desired answer.  shorr answer: They are hard wired to do so.

MyManSid · Answer

It's because girls are better at communicating than guys so it looks like girl's are having a drama. If boys were like girls in this matter Drama wouldn't exist but we are pathetic

Anonymous · Answer

I see guys fight over girls all the time! Lol. Girls are very catty but trust me-even guys can be just as dramatic

Iraqveteran666 · Answer

Ever wonder why a chick stays with an abusive boyfriend, it's not because she loves him it's because she gets off on the drama.

FergusonsFriend · Answer

Girls thrive on drama usually? not saying that some guys don't, but it tends to be a girls sport so to speak

Anonymous · Answer

It's funny you say this. I've often heard girls say they find it easier to have guy friends 😛

SuccessfulHornDog · Answer

Its all part of being female. Maybe its hormone related

Yumix · Answer

You're the girl, tell me 😛

NajemEddine · Answer

its the cb gene effect  the crazy bitch gene :p

Crap_it_is_me-- · Answer

I don't do 'drama', it is plain stupid.

rocketbebe · Answer

I have nothing... it's true.

DinosaurLover · Answer

I also start drama gossip

JayLiche · Answer

We don't know We just don't know

Anonymous · Answer

I think they thrive on it

SuicidalTeen · Answer

It's what they do

Muhammad1999 · Answer

Drama kills me

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