Girlfriend of 3 years went on a girl's vacation?

Anonymous
My girlfriend of 3 years planned a vacation back in January when things weren't going well with us. I didn't want her to go because we were back on track but I trust her completely and figured to not let it bother me. The first day she was there she was texting me how much she missed me and how things weren't fun without me and how she wasn't really enjoying herself because her friends had been rushing her and doing all the things they wanted to do. She calls me when she gets up, before she goes out and when she gets home at night, grant it only for a min because she's getting ready or she's in a room full of screaming girls. Is it too much to ask for like 5 min of quiet to just talk to her? Is it out of sight out of mind or does she just not care enough about me to call and see how I'm doing? Or am I asking too much? Especially because if I go out or I am doing something without her, she feels neglected if I don't call or text often... Why the double standard? What do I do? If I try to talk to her I know she's going to say that she did call me and text me and that she was on vacation and it was busy and hectic... I get all that.. Am I wrong or how do I make her see that I just wanted her to show me that she cared a little?
Girlfriend of 3 years went on a girl's vacation?
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