Nope. It just confuses and frustrates me to no end sometimes. Especially if I've show interest and I know she is interested, but, to see if I'm "worthy" or "care enough" she acts like she's not as interested. Then I start questioning her interest and if it's even worth the trouble. Or another thing I really don't understand (and it's happened to me a number of times) is when you get really sexual with a girl and on more than one occasion and you both are really hot for one another, but then she just all of a sudden just stops and says shit like, "Let's slow down here", or shit like this. Why NOW? Or, even more mind boggling, I was with this girl and we were just naughty as can be. Sexing out in parking lots, at friends houses, on her front porch. I mean any chance we get we were all over each other, just awesome sexual chemistry. But then this one time, when I was devouring her pussy and made her cum really hard really fairly quickly, she got upset with me and asked why I had to eat her like that? WTF? Then she wanted to break it off with me because we were too sexual I suppose, or something. I don't know, I think it was because she didn't know if she wanted me for me or for my sex, but still, why not tell me that way instead of blind siding me and painting it like it's my fault or something?
I love women, but will never fully understand them.
I don't like playing hard to get, but I like playing playing hard to get... confusing, I know, let me explain lol
When a girl plays hard to get, she basically avoids you, doesn't talk to you, tries to show she's not into you... all that stuff. I don't like that, because I don't like feeling like I'm wasting my time going for a girl that shows no signs of liking me back.
What I like is when a girl teases me and acts like she's playing hard to get. She shows signs that she likes me, while still playing the chasing game. Like for example you call her cute and she tells you you're not, but then gives the "I love teasing you" look. You know she's just joking, you know she actually does find you attractive and that she likes you, she's just being playful. So they're just playing, but still giving you signs that they like you, and when it's time to get serious about what's up between us two, she gets serious about it.
I think they like to have to take the initiative at the beginning of a relationship. So they don't want someone that they think is 'easy' because she always texts him to hang out. However, they don't want a girl who ignores their texts just to play hard to get, or doesn't always say hi to him, etc.
This. 1,000 times this. "She's just playing hard to get" is a rape culture line.
"It couldn't possibly be because I'm 44, married, and coming across creepy as fsck to a 19-year-old.. nah, demonology is just playing hard to get. I know she wants me."
What @AleDeEurope has described in his Opinion is a much better description of what men actually like: flirtatious, challenging, playful, confident. Make it clear to me that you would say "yes" if I have the confidence to ask, and let me demonstrate that I have the strength and confidence to stand up to you or for you, as the need arises.
@MarriedMale43 stop blaming the elusive "rape culture" for everything, please. I know from experience that some girls DO legitimately play hard to get. They say "no", then they grumble when the guy actually backs off. Can't exactly blame the guys who might persist a little after that.
@MarriedMale43 from what I've heard, the guy usually meets the girl a few years later, then the girl calls him "oblivious" for not getting her "obvious signs".
I'm not playing games. I never play games when it comes to relationships. If a girl is going to play games and lead you on, I don't have time for that crap and move on.
I suppose that will make the girl think that I must not have been that interested in her... I was... And now I'm not. Her playing games and trying to play hard to get answered my questions about her.
The thing is, when girls play hard to get, there is a very thin line most men end up trying not to cross. One side of the line is "Desperate" and the other side of the line is "Creepy Stalker who Doesn't know when to Quit."
I keep away from that line at all costs because being either isn't good.
No. At the first sign of disinterest by the female, an educated man will walk away. To ask more than once can be construed to be sexual harassment. Ask once, then walk away and do not revisit that place of rejection. Any other course of action puts at risk the man's education and/or career.
It's just a massive shit test. It all depends on how hard the guy is willing to play. It is also depending on the girls' behaviour in the past. If she spreads her legs easily for guys who put little to no effort in the past and she is withholding her vagina for you then you know where you stand in terms of how attractive you are to her.
No , that only really works on you ladies , or the very small minority of " thrill of the chase " seeker men. Men think logically more than emotionally , therefore " hard to get " will = " She is NOT interested , don't waste time / energy on her " to most men & they will quickly break contact & forget you. Don't play games , it will backfire !!
Some guys do. I find a relationship to be best when a girl does 80% of the pursuing, and she really clings on to her man, and the man comforts and loves her. But, she submits to everything he says. It just depends on the masculinity level of the man.
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Personally, I think girls playing hard to get is where they are misleading a lot of guys and can lead guys to think they're not interested at all.
At the end of the day, we're not forcing all girls to ask out guys but at least show him some respect and give him hints where you actually want him to ask you out.
Completely ignoring the guy is just way of saying that you're not into him therefore he will never ask you out.
it's the challenge that's appealing. If we take this to the extreme, how would a guy feel if a girl he didn't know came up, grabbed his dick out of his pants and started riding him? Is that attractive?
If you want to play like you're not that interested then I'm gonna treat you like you aren't that interested.
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i really hope not i don't like really playing games with a guy i like and i hate the idea of acting like im not interested when i am if a guy did this to me i would move on so i don't see what's so appealing if i do the same
Now. It is ridiculous and I hate it. It basically means that a woman is playing games with you and isn't being real and genuine. That is a waste of my time and life is too short to deal with that kind of thing. I want a woman that is upfront and real and genuine that does not take me for granted or my feelings for granted.
In my opinion, I don't like a chase. If I like a girl, I want her to be straight forward with her answer instead of playing around while I try to chase her tail.
Sure, some guys may like it but for me, it's useless. If you like someone, say it to them, don't just play hard to get. If you're serious about them, don't play around otherwise they will eventually get tired of it and move on.
Guys like girls who can say what's on their mind clearly. Some occasional hints of interest will keep them interested but playing around and giving men the cold shoulder will make them think you don't like them anymore and eventually, you'll lose your chance.
nope there are much beautiful or better persons in the world , sometimes not as good looking as this person but sure they might treat us better i left my first girlfriend just cuz of this and my 2nd girlfriend (current) is fabulous and isn't afraid to show her affecton
That's a game that boys understand. They need time to test us. And unless they are convinced that they are on the right guy , they will prefer to wait and watch and take a lot of time to form their opinion. But once they know that th guy is right , they will not take much time to express their like.
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